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I AM AGAINST RAPE 100%. But then...

Who really wants to loose out?

You meet a guy today. You know he has nothing in common with you and you have no chance for him in your life. Instead of politely or rudely pushing him off, you decide to play games with his finances.

In my line of work, I have seen where a bitch fleeced a guy 100k on the first date. And when the guy demanded some cookie, bitch was like "I have a boyfriend." Bitch please.

Ladies, google what is called "unwritten agreement". When someone does something for you, there is some form of payment to be made be it in cash or kind. Deny it from now till thy kingdom come but you know it exist. There is no free food even in freetown. Everybody is trying to survive.

If you know you can't give, please don't ask or don't take when given. There is nothing in giving the cookie to someone who has helped you in some way or the other.

If you know you have a boyfriend, stop taking things from other guys. Stop giving out your numbers. Stop follwing them to restaurants, hotels, their homes or offices.

You are setting yourself up for a situation that may lead to rape.

P.S

This is more of an advice and not an endorsement of rape. Small minds can understand it in a myopic way. But in the real world, same way there are killers is smae way there are rapists.

Don't put yourselve in harms way and expect not to be harmed.

To bad lots of people wont view This From your own point of view. Rape is Bad

I detest rape with passion and am not a rape apologist.

But why are we not discussing evil Nigerian women that rape the finances of guys?

I have been in a situation where I took this very young university girl out to club. This girl was just eating like there was famine in the land.

From Kilishi to Shawarma to Suya to Barbecue. As per guys parole, I was spending with the view in mind that "There will be a happy ending" as some sort of payment which in principle "Both of us will enjoy".

After clubbing, I was giving off signs that I was Hot and was expecting the cow to understand. Mind you, I never touched or harassed her in any way. Yes. Am that much of a gentleman.

Las las, this bitch said we should lodge in a hotel. In my mind, I was like I have hit a jackpot. When we were in the hotel room, my dicck was already standing like mount Golgotha.

This girl simply took her bath, went under the duvet and told me good night. I was like ... "Amanda what is happening".

Bitch was like, "Dear nothing is happening. Am not just in the mood".

My God. My blue balls was not here anymore. I asked this girl why she suggested we should lodge.

She said that they had no light in their lodge and heat was too much. That she needed the air conditioning. Brothers can you imagine?

Naso this girl sleep off oo. Like like play like play, I wasted 15k for the lodging bills and not to calculate what we spent clubbing.

In the morning, I was tempted to beat the living daylights out of this hopeless girl. But the spirit of God prevented me from doing so.

Nigerian ladies, what would you advise your brothers to do in this situation?

nobody deserves to be raped, and no justification for rape whatso ever

however we can help our ladies avoid rape if we lecture them on how to avoid sexual predators as the foolish prase "No means No" doesnt seem to help them

Oga potential rapist
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She never forced you to give her cash or spend on her, na u take hand commot money for ur account.



She never forced you to invite her to ur apartment, na you ask her to come, women ain't really one of the smartest bunch out there you know.


Am pretty sure if you say " Come to my apartment, so I could bleep you" she won't come, unless that's what she wants


The problem is, most guys spend or do nice things to women JUST FOR SEX.


But you raise some valid points too, STILL IT DOES NOT JUSTIFY RAPE

AngryIgboMan:
I detest rape with passion and am not a rape apologist.

But why are we not discussing evil Nigerian women that rape the finances of guys?

I have been in a situation where I took this very young university girl out to club. This girl was just eating like there was famine in the land.

From Kilishi to Shawarma to Suya to Barbecue. As per guys parole, I was spending with the view in mind that "There will be a happy ending" as some sort of payment which in principle "Both of us will enjoy".

After clubbing, I was giving off signs that I was Hot and was expecting the cow to understand. Mind you, I never touched or harassed her in any way. Yes. Am that much of a gentleman.

Las las, this bitch said we should lodge in a hotel. In my mind, I was like I have hit a jackpot. When we were in the hotel room, my dicck was already standing like mount Golgotha.

This girl simply took her bath, went under the duvet and told me good night. I was like ... "Amanda what is happening".

Bitch was like, "Dear nothing is happening. Am not just in the mood".

My God. My blue balls was not here anymore. I asked this girl why she suggested we should lodge.

She said that they had no light in their lodge and heat was too much. That she needed the air conditioning. Brothers can you imagine?

Naso this girl sleep off oo. Like like play like play, I wasted 15k for the lodging bills and not to calculate what we spent clubbing.

In the morning, I was tempted to beat the living daylights out of this hopeless girl. But the spirit of God prevented me from doing so.

Nigerian ladies, what would you advise your brothers to do in this situation?

“But why are we not discussing evil Nigerian women that rape the finances of guys?“. Imagine what this one is saying!! Not once in your bollocks write up did you say you were forced to spend your money. Not once

Nice one,Most gals like taking guys for fool and the end if the guy dont have self control it could lead to rape

Atiku:





“But why are we not discussing evil Nigerian women that rape the finances of guys?“. Imagine what this one is saying!! Not once in your bollocks write up did you say you were forced to spend your money. Not once

You guys don't seem to get the gist right?

Let me spell it out for you.

"Women should stop setting themselves up to situations that will lead to rape."

Rape is a crime but people still rape. Killing is a crime. But people still kill.

If you do business with a very bad minded person and you decide to go behind and cut the person off and take the whole money, you know you are setting yourself up to be killed right? You do know that there are mean people right?

Yes. The law does not allow killing. But does that remove the fact that the person is already dead and the killer will face the consequences?

My point?

Can't we have an ideal situation which does not even lead to the killing not to talk of facing the consequences of killing.

Same way rape is a crime and an evil. But people should stop putting themselves in situations that leads to rape.

Understand this whichever you want to bro. But in the real world, reality will hit you hard in the face.

Oh shut the F up! All this simps self, did she put a gun to your head to give her money? MGTOW them no go hear always always allowing they Johnson put them in trouble.

AngryIgboMan:


You guys don't seem to get the gist right?

Let me spell it out for you.

"Women should stop setting themselves up to situations that will lead to rape."

Rape is a crime but people still rape. Killing is a crime. But people still kill.

If you do business with a very bad minded person and you decide to go behind and cut the person off and taje the whole money, you know you are setting yourself up to be killed right? You do know that there are mean people right?

Yes. The law does not allow killing. But does that remove the fact that the person is already dead and the killer will face the consequences?

My point?

Can't we have an ideal situation which does not even lead to the killing not to talk of facing the consequences of killing.

Same way rape is a crime and an evil. But people should stop putting themselves in situations that leads to rape.

Understand this whichever you want to bro. But in the real world, reality will hit you hard in the face.

Trash talk. Nothing justifies rape, not even if you give her your entire wealth. You talk of business transaction with a partner. A partner is one whom the condition for partnership is spelt out to and and he/she accepts it wholeheartedly, it could through verbal agreement or through a document.

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now to you. Prior to when you started doing the ordering, did you tell her plainly that you'll have sex with her after you're done ordering? If yes, did she agree? Look, if you want a scenerio where you exchange money for sex, go to a brothel, go to instamessage and call a prostitute or go to any other sex app, baddoo, whatever. Just settle on a price and fvck her. Stop justifying rape. You become a rapist after you rape.

Were you made to spend money at gun point? .Same Nigerian Men with almost nothing to impress or keep a woman's attention aside MONEY complaining of been digged.
Until you all learn to add value to yourself and detach your self worth from your account balance,you will continue to fall into the hands of leeches! Brother you got no point here.


Ladies you see why I was instigating reactions real acts from you? See why I'm calling for more measures and punishment for Molestation? See why I call on you all to be independent and financially emaciated?People like op will always think as long as they spend you must lay back! If you don't you will be forced to. The reality! That's our sad reality!

AngryIgboMan:


You guys don't seem to get the gist right?

Let me spell it out for you.

"Women should stop setting themselves up to situations that will lead to rape."

Rape is a crime but people still rape. Killing is a crime. But people still kill.

If you do business with a very bad minded person and you decide to go behind and cut the person off and take the whole money, you know you are setting yourself up to be killed right? You do know that there are mean people right?

Yes. The law does not allow killing. But does that remove the fact that the person is already dead and the killer will face the consequences?

My point?

Can't we have an ideal situation which does not even lead to the killing not to talk of facing the consequences of killing.

Same way rape is a crime and an evil. But people should stop putting themselves in situations that leads to rape.

Understand this whichever you want to bro. But in the real world, reality will hit you hard in the face.

What of little kids that get raped,did they cause it or put themselves in that position?

Just imagine the rubbish, this one is writing.

Rapists will start with I hate rape but then justify rape.

When a girl ask you for money, did she put gun on your head before you gave her? Because you felt scammed then rape is the next thing.

For your info, because you give a girl 1 billion does not mean you are entitled to sex.

What of little kids that get raped,did they cause it or put themselves in that position?

Help me ask the idiot.

AngryIgboMan:


You guys don't seem to get the gist right?

Let me spell it out for you.

"Women should stop setting themselves up to situations that will lead to rape."

Rape is a crime but people still rape. Killing is a crime. But people still kill.

If you do business with a very bad minded person and you decide to go behind and cut the person off and take the whole money, you know you are setting yourself up to be killed right? You do know that there are mean people right?

Yes. The law does not allow killing. But does that remove the fact that the person is already dead and the killer will face the consequences?

My point?

Can't we have an ideal situation which does not even lead to the killing not to talk of facing the consequences of killing.

Same way rape is a crime and an evil. But people should stop putting themselves in situations that leads to rape.

Understand this whichever you want to bro. But in the real world, reality will hit you hard in the face.

So if you see a naked woman in public, you approach her but she denies you sex... you will rape her? So if you are in a room with all those IG girls that expose their bodies and they say no, you will rape. Tufia

Ariza:
Were you made to spend money at gun point? .Same Nigerian Men with almost nothing to impress or keep a woman's attention aside MONEY complaining of been digged.
Until you all learn to add value to yourself and detach your self worth from your account balance,you will continue to fall into the hands of leeches! Brother you got no point here.


Ladies you see why I was instigating reactions real acts from you? See why I'm calling for more measures and punishment for Molestation? See why I call on you all to be independent and financially emaciated?People like op will always think as long as they spend you must lay back! If you don't you will be forced to. The reality! That's our sad reality!

Simple as A B,C since you know that the # bolded in your comment is a reality. The advice is REAL. Smart ladies should take heed.

AngryIgboMan:


"Women should stop setting themselves up to situations that will lead to rape."

God knows I can never chook my mouth in any rape matter

Just say anything that is remotely contrary and you are a rapist just like that.

AngryIgboMan:
I detest rape with passion and am not a rape apologist.

But why are we not discussing evil Nigerian women that rape the finances of guys?

I have been in a situation where I took this very young university girl out to club. This girl was just eating like there was famine in the land.

From Kilishi to Shawarma to Suya to Barbecue. As per guys parole, I was spending with the view in mind that "There will be a happy ending" as some sort of payment which in principle "Both of us will enjoy".

After clubbing, I was giving off signs that I was Hot and was expecting the cow to understand. Mind you, I never touched or harassed her in any way. Yes. Am that much of a gentleman.

Las las, this bitch said we should lodge in a hotel. In my mind, I was like I have hit a jackpot. When we were in the hotel room, my dicck was already standing like mount Golgotha.

This girl simply took her bath, went under the duvet and told me good night. I was like ... "Amanda what is happening".

Bitch was like, "Dear nothing is happening. Am not just in the mood".

My God. My blue balls was not here anymore. I asked this girl why she suggested we should lodge.

She said that they had no light in their lodge and heat was too much. That she needed the air conditioning. Brothers can you imagine?

Naso this girl sleep off oo. Like like play like play, I wasted 15k for the lodging bills and not to calculate what we spent clubbing.

In the morning, I was tempted to beat the living daylights out of this hopeless girl. But the spirit of God prevented me from doing so.

Nigerian ladies, what would you advise your brothers to do in this situation?

Sorry brother I understand that kind thing. Na only God dey calm man for that situation.sorry once again .

Ubunja's already cautioned ladies who wish to play men in one of his comments.

ubunja:
"Men are ATMs"

But for all their love of money, women have a very complicated relationship with money. And that relationship needs to be fixed.

ONE:
First, many women lack the character strength to receive from men WITHOUT giving anything back (the key to having a man invested in a woman - see Sunk Cost Fallacy). If you thought men were weak beings who couldn't think straight at the sight of pussy, you haven't seen how weak women are where money is concerned. You cant give an average girl the equivalent of her monthly salary (which is peanuts to a man with money) without the woman eagerly offering her pussy and asshole on a silver platter. Put a wad of cash in many females' hand, and you've just corrupted her. She'll be your wh0re ready to do everything you ask. She can't say NO to anything. All resistance and boundaries and self control goes bye bye. You have seen the crazy things girls do for money out there. So, a woman has to develop that strength of mind not to be swayed by money. No matter how much. To remain STOIC and unmoved. And keep legs shut. No matter the amount of money she has been gifted.

Give an average girl a car and she'll happily become your sex slave. Give a gold digger a car and she's plotting on how to get your house next. That car, mind you, just earned you the right to only kiss her. Not even fvck her. I won't go deep into this MindGame but the summary of it is that gold diggers deal with you in such a way that they allow you to sleep around knowing that the longer they keep their own legs closed the more you'll do for them because as a man the pussy that occupies your mind is the one you can't have. So the slut and the prostitute do the Gold Digger's dirty work. And the more the man pays a woman he's not sleeping with the more VALUABLE that woman becomes in his eyes because if he's paying but not getting anything he tells himself the other men not even paying anything to this woman don't stand a chance X1000. So his mind tells him the gold digger indeed had a pussy of gold (meanwhile a thug is screwing that same bitch free. But pure gold diggers don't even fvck any man for just the pleasure because they understand 1: sex takes a toll on their body and their body is their only asset. 2: sex can make them bond with said thugs and complicate their game as they start to harbour feelings for the guys fvcking them on the side 3: mistakes happen and a girl can get pregnant. Not many are okay with abortion. Plus there's the fear of disease)

MINDSET TWO:
Many Women have forgotten how to receive from Men. Decades of feminism and women's rights have taught women the 50/50 mindset. That they must bring something to the table. Which is a poisonous mindset when a woman is dealing with a masculine man with serious money who was raised to view himself as a Provider. The quickest way to chase away a rich man is to pay your own way. It emasculates a rich man to see their woman use her own money .Rich men have ego. And it's fragile that way. But what has the average woman been brought up to believe? To pay her own way. As a strong woman who is able. Failure to do that she's a loser.

That mindset is a hindrance in the Gold Digger game. As a gold Digger your motto, mantra, slogan, must always be I BRING NOTHING TO THE TABLE. Proudly. Without shame. Rich men don't have a problem with that. You can even tell that to a rich man straight and he would just laugh and continue dating you. Rich men are looking for someone to SPEND ON. To throw cash at. It nourishes their ego. But the average girl's mindset is the Independent Woman mindset. fail.

And the independent woman mindset is a direct consequence of growing up poor. Never is a woman more unlikely to accept money from men than when she grew up in poverty because she has learned to hustle for herself to survive. Now that mindset needs to go. A woman needs to heal and learn to accept help from men. Rich men don't date hustlers. Poor men do.


THREE:
Poverty mindset. A Girl who grew up poor grows up with a mindset to choose the cheapest of everything and to live economically. Rich men are allergic to such women. Go to a restaurant and choose the cheapest meal at the smallest quantity and you won't be invited on a second date. To you it may seem normal cause you grew up saving to survive. But you must understand that such things are not the rich man's reality. Rich men are used to oppulance and luxury and extras. And you being frugal/economic will tell him he's Dealing with a low quality woman. And he'll drop you.
The poverty mindset is a poison in the game. Imagine a rich man takes you out to eat, because you grew up hungry, you wipe your plate clean eating everything (a big no no) or there are leftovers and you take out a lunch tin and collect the leftovers into your lunch tin!! You won't get the call for a second date.

That's the poverty mindset that has to go.

Women aspiring to be high level gold diggers need to shed that mindset. Learn to choose the most expensive option on the table. A rich man offers to buy you a phone, choose the most expensive. He offers to buy you a dress, choose the most expensive in the shop, and take two. Or three. He can afford it. If he can't he's not rich enough and he's the wrong target in which case you need to drop him ASAP. But there's a specific way of going about this that works his Ego making everything easy for you.

I can go on and on. But let me end here. And go back to that point about BRINGING NOTHING TO THE TABLE:
A woman who aspires to be a gold digger must learn to take without giving. Because men are ATMs. And because by taking without giving she plays a psychological game on men that draws them closer to her because they become INVESTED in her. Like she's a business project or something.

A woman must never give anything to a rich man if he wants that rich man to marry her. This is a major mindfvcks for many girls. They don't see how that works. But they need to trust the Game. It works. Even if they don't understand it.

Also, you don't give a rich man presents or gifts. If you must, use his money. But don't give anything. Maybe a card. And nothing more. Again, it seems cruel. But it's a psychological game. Trust the game. It works.

But a word of caution is in order: The Game is to played on the right target. A man with a lot to lose in society. Not thugs or broke men, Because 1: the gold digger games don't work on broke men. Because broke men's relationship with money is not like the rich man's relationship with money. 2: thugs have nothing to lose and will kill you if you play them. But a board director of a respectable company won't do anything even if he feels he's been played. He has too much to lose. He'll cut his loses and move on.

Let me stop here on Mindsets. But there's more that can fill a book on these concepts. But the most important thing to note is this: A MAN HAS TO LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU LIKE HIM FOR ALL THIS TO WORK.

Not every man will think you a Prize worthy to be pampered daily for the rest of your life, just as you don't think every guy is a Prize, but your job is to find that one rich man who'll be so breathtaken with you that he'll move mountains to see you happy and his joy in this life will be providing for you. Once you get such a man (if you're really lucky he'll not be too old or too ugly), then you'll know what Cinderella felt like. Because Cinderella is the original gold digger.

sexylassie2:
Just imagine the rubbish, this one is writing.

Rapists will start with I hate rape but then justify rape.

When a girl ask you for money, did she put gun on your head before you gave her? Because you felt scammed then rape is the next thing.

For your info, because you give a girl 1 billion does not mean you are entitled to sex.

The OP is merely advising you on how to avoid being raped. Don't go asking for billions from a guy you know you can't have sex with. Don't go visiting him at his home after spending his billions because you are counting on him to be a gentleman. Better safe than sorry.
Avoid putting yourself in harms way. If women can do this, there will always be less rape cases to report

This advice goes this same way I'd encourage girls not to move alone at night on lonely streets; it's not personal

Not only Nigerian girls and girl all around the world rape is a bad act and the outcome of it should come with a deadly purnishment