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Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by indoorlove(m): 5:42pm On Jul 03, 2023
Money contribute to more than 70% of happiness experienced in marriage.
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by JVector: 5:49pm On Jul 03, 2023
Money is the engine oil of your marriage engine. If you ignore the oil to dry or corrode, be ready for the consequences.
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by yak(m): 5:57pm On Jul 03, 2023
The chaos and sadness that comes with poverty is y
Unquantifiable
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by Cutiekatty: 6:03pm On Jul 03, 2023
Taywon:
Money is Everything... Love is just 1%
Not everything bro, but it plays an important role in any union, beyond money you need, love and respect with a little money you are good to go.
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by Heyzedmudah: 6:10pm On Jul 03, 2023
I know money brings COMFORT in all form, marriage inclusive but does it bring HAPPINESS along?
Like does being married to a man rich automatically makes a woman a happy woman? Will it make the marriage a happy marriage? A happy home for the kids etc. I know the wife of a rich man would quite be comfortable compared to that of a low income earner.

She can easily outsource whatever she needs thereby making her comfortable in her home. From washing machine, maids, full dstv subscription, driver, Gateman, shopping, vacation and all good things that money can buy; does all these bring true happiness?

When a distance sister of mine got married to her husband years ago, we were definitely not too happy for her. We thought she'd suffer in a marriage without finance. The truth is they still have finance issues till now, but not something beyond their power.
It's close to 10 years now and I realise she is happy there, herself and her husband are low income earners yet they found happiness in each other. See her looking younger than her age with two kids to show for it.

I have also come to realise(from observation) that most times, it's likely for a woman to eventually marry a low or average income earner(as against the illusion of a millionaire husband). As long as the woman has something doing, they usually end up doing well. You see them looking better than they were when they both got married cheesy lol
Seems like a good marriage brings out the beauty of both sexes, little wonder why young ladies dont mind dating married men grin

So married men and women, what is your take on this? Does money bring happiness in marriage? Is finance all about the comfort it can bring?
Let singles like me learn something new

NO
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by Peterson03(m): 6:15pm On Jul 03, 2023
I know money brings COMFORT in all form, marriage inclusive but does it bring HAPPINESS along?
Like does being married to a man rich automatically makes a woman a happy woman? Will it make the marriage a happy marriage? A happy home for the kids etc. I know the wife of a rich man would quite be comfortable compared to that of a low income earner.

She can easily outsource whatever she needs thereby making her comfortable in her home. From washing machine, maids, full dstv subscription, driver, Gateman, shopping, vacation and all good things that money can buy; does all these bring true happiness?

When a distance sister of mine got married to her husband years ago, we were definitely not too happy for her. We thought she'd suffer in a marriage without finance. The truth is they still have finance issues till now, but not something beyond their power.
It's close to 10 years now and I realise she is happy there, herself and her husband are low income earners yet they found happiness in each other. See her looking younger than her age with two kids to show for it.

I have also come to realise(from observation) that most times, it's likely for a woman to eventually marry a low or average income earner(as against the illusion of a millionaire husband). As long as the woman has something doing, they usually end up doing well. You see them looking better than they were when they both got married cheesy lol
Seems like a good marriage brings out the beauty of both sexes, little wonder why young ladies dont mind dating married men grin

So married men and women, what is your take on this? Does money bring happiness in marriage? Is finance all about the comfort it can bring?
Let singles like me learn something new

Not necessarily but it helps.
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Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by LARRYOBRAIN(m): 6:21pm On Jul 03, 2023
Yes, to compliment love, where true love exists.
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by flokii: 6:45pm On Jul 03, 2023
Na era of Adam and Eve marriage dey sweet, not this era (there are exceptions though). Imagine husband in Abuja, wife in Lagos and both don't even have time for their kids talkless of the union. It is what it is sha, you must settle down one day.
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by Chidolalar: 7:00pm On Jul 03, 2023
Phlakes:
no it doesn't, I'm married and I've got what I need financially but I'm not happy

Can u say those tinz that makes u not to be happy so Dan pple can learn from it
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by idonhammer: 7:06pm On Jul 03, 2023
If you no get money forget love and marriage.
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by Albertone(m): 7:11pm On Jul 03, 2023
ahnie:
Yes it does to me.

Na married people dem dey follow talk ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by achimendy(m): 7:12pm On Jul 03, 2023
I know money brings COMFORT in all form, marriage inclusive but does it bring HAPPINESS along?
Like does being married to a man rich automatically makes a woman a happy woman? Will it make the marriage a happy marriage? A happy home for the kids etc. I know the wife of a rich man would quite be comfortable compared to that of a low income earner.

She can easily outsource whatever she needs thereby making her comfortable in her home. From washing machine, maids, full dstv subscription, driver, Gateman, shopping, vacation and all good things that money can buy; does all these bring true happiness?

When a distance sister of mine got married to her husband years ago, we were definitely not too happy for her. We thought she'd suffer in a marriage without finance. The truth is they still have finance issues till now, but not something beyond their power.
It's close to 10 years now and I realise she is happy there, herself and her husband are low income earners yet they found happiness in each other. See her looking younger than her age with two kids to show for it.

I have also come to realise(from observation) that most times, it's likely for a woman to eventually marry a low or average income earner(as against the illusion of a millionaire husband). As long as the woman has something doing, they usually end up doing well. You see them looking better than they were when they both got married cheesy lol
Seems like a good marriage brings out the beauty of both sexes, little wonder why young ladies dont mind dating married men grin

So married men and women, what is your take on this? Does money bring happiness in marriage? Is finance all about the comfort it can bring?
Let singles like me learn something new




Like some people say "after God is money". To some extent they're correct, because even the bible said money answereth all things. Money is one of the most powerful things in life, that's why many are ready to go extra mile to get it, because it brings comfort and ease to the life of any man.


Marriage is not excluded from it, cause it affects the union of any couple positively, like living a luxurious lifestyle, providing the best for your kids, helping others and making great investment etc. With the above mentioned, the funny truth still remains that money does not guarantee 100% happiness in marriage. Am talking from the little I've experienced and read about. A Wife that is married to a rich man but not satisfied sexually will definitely not be happy, and money can't buy her that happiness except she cheat, a wife that is married to a rich man that abuses her will never be happy, and money can't bring that joy to her, no matter how much he spends on her, a rich husband that is not respected by his wife will not be happy in his marriage, and will eventually lead to separation, domestic violence, or cheating, a partner that instigate his or her children against each other will never be happy, and money can't buy that happiness for any of them in this situation etc.


So in conclusion, money brings happiness in marriage but not total happiness, because there some issues in marriage that money can not solve except cheating, fighting, divorce or death comes in.
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by bigiyaro(m): 7:24pm On Jul 03, 2023
Just imagine you are going to America, you enter plane and the plane takes you to America. Ok! You see the plane you entered? That is money. You see the 'America' ba? That is the happiness.
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by deavicky(m): 7:33pm On Jul 03, 2023
Mstick:
It's doesn't bring happiness but lack of it also doesn't bring happiness either. Like everything in life there must be a balance.

I've not seen a couple dancing Indian dance when their property is being thrown into the street by their landlord.
only mad man will dancing when he is hungry.
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by Thugnificent(m): 7:55pm On Jul 03, 2023
bigiyaro:
Just imagine you are going to America, you enter plane and the plane takes you to America. Ok! You see the plane you entered? That is money. You see the 'America' ba? That is the happiness.
Good evening sir. Can you pls lend me 10k sir? It's really urgent. I promise to repay by month end with interest.
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by bigiyaro(m): 8:35pm On Jul 03, 2023
Thugnificent:
Good evening sir. Can you pls lend me 10k sir? It's really urgent. I promise to repay by month end with interest.
shocked shocked shocked
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by Thugnificent(m): 8:41pm On Jul 03, 2023
bigiyaro:
shocked shocked shocked
I'm really having a hard time going to work because of fuel subsidy removal. I can no longer afford the tp so I'm left with trekking long distance almost everyday. It's taking a toll on my physical and mental health. Will really appreciate if you can help me sir. I'm ready to use my Tecno pop 5 phone for collateral if you in Lagos. I really mean this.
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by okwusdidi: 8:59pm On Jul 03, 2023
If you are married to a very rich husband who is a monster and treats you and your family members very badly,would you be happy in that kind of marriage, is it not better to marry someone who has less and treats you better.I have also found out that many wives of rich men are not really happy with them becuase they are very proud and arrogant and don't have much time for them but would be having side chicks.Look for a good man or woman to marry.If you can find one you are blessed,but if all you want is to marry a rich man....
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by Chinny024(f): 9:13pm On Jul 03, 2023
Does being broke make you happy ?.What would be your mood when an urgency needs to be met and you don't have it at sight due to lack...Ur child needs medical attention, care, feeding, or school fees, you don't have.

Ask yourself crucial questions then come back to the main topic of discussion..

Money conquer all forms of aggressiveness, pepper body and anguish that arises in marriage to a greater extent my dear...
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by Albertone(m): 9:26pm On Jul 03, 2023
Doshian:

So it's true you ran away with people's money they gave you to share to them,you really disgraced the brotherhood.
By the way when are you gonna graduate someone said you have been in 100 level for good 18years.

Concerning your mother,I was told she is a wayward woman birthing you guys like female rabbit on heat.

Mind if I send a PM just to knack your mother.

Ahnie why๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by Annistars: 9:45pm On Jul 03, 2023
If u see some Rich men wife u will see is better continue managing with ur poor husband (that is why they say all that glitter is not gold)
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by Burgerlomo: 9:59pm On Jul 03, 2023
Definitely ๐Ÿ˜‚
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by isabi2lof: 10:07pm On Jul 03, 2023
They will tell you women get married because of money , same men that want to marry more than 20 wives grin grin grin

Some men are on colos , you cry out there , that it's only money women love .

Oya leave women alone and face your life , mba nu cheesy

Money brings happiness but what brought about sadness in marriages are mostly caused by the two people in that particular marriage.

In the aspect of cheating on your spouse, you're the cause of your own woes except some cases , you can't control.
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by PARADIZEPRIEST: 12:37am On Jul 04, 2023
When you no get money to buy food,will you be happy? grin that answers the question
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by Dumte(m): 7:42am On Jul 04, 2023
If you ask me this question 100 times, my answer will still remain YES, MONEY IS EVERYTHING IN MARRIAGE
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by IamOrei(m): 8:46am On Jul 04, 2023
YES
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by Edavi234: 9:15am On Jul 04, 2023
Taywon:
Money is Everything... Love is just 1%

Let's assume you are just being "SARCASTIC "
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by Edavi234: 9:38am On Jul 04, 2023
KanwuliaExtra:
Personally. . . . . I was neither financially-insecure nor unhappy before marriage, so I did not get married for WEALTH OR HAPPINESS.

I got married FOR CONVENIENCE and I have remained financially-secure, HAPPY and the marriage is still SUPER-CONVENIENT. cool

Material comfort can equate to happiness for some and I see nothing wrong with that.
Comfort brings me happiness. I bring my own WEALTH to ANY MARRIAGE. Marriage is only for convenience. kiss

You can only be unhappy in a wealthy marriage if you are CURSED or MENTALLY-HANDICAPPED!
Na โ€œmanโ€ I go chop? cheesy

Marriage does not bring happiness either, so why suffer DOUBLE PUNISHMENTS in poverty? undecided

I would rather suffer in WEALTH! At least I would not be starving for food! cool

Men are learning to marry UP too.
Good move. Show me the money jor!

Know yourself nor be curse sheeeeey? grin



Your reason for marriage = CONVENIENCE - Accepted.

But your total summation of marriage = CONVENIENCE - THIS IS A FALSE NARRATIVE.



People get married for so many reasons - CONVENIENCE is just one out of numerous.
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by Shebbs: 9:46am On Jul 04, 2023
Yes! If Being Married To A Rich Man Alone Doesnโ€™t Make A Woman Happy Sheโ€™s Devilish. You Know Suffer Wey Dey This Country? Yaโ€™ll Ainโ€™t Ready For This Discussion
Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by Bfly: 12:59pm On Jul 04, 2023
Many women like to marry excessively rich men but detest their day to day lifestyle.

Some other important things like, the consistent emotional connection, good sex, connection with the children, attention to family functions must be sacrificed for the money to keep coming.

It is left for you to decide what is more important to you?

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