Do Women Who Give Men Their Money Regret It?

Usually, the guy in the relationship is expected to make the first move by giving his babe some money or any valuable gift item to show that “he is the man”. However, we don’t all play by this “rule”.


Quite a number of ladies in relationships do not mind spending an arm and a leg on their boyfriends. For such ladies, it is simply in their nature to give. And is it not the Bible that says, “For God so loved the world, that He gave…”?


While these ladies may not mind “performing the duty of a man” in the relationship as they give because they have good hearts, this behaviour has been criticised by some observers.


Ladies who pay all the bills and generously assist their men financially with very little to no reciprocation from their men are termed by these observers as fools in love who are only headed for disaster. Fools because the observers say that no matter how poor a man might be, if he loves you, he will find a way to give you something precious.

These observers say that a man should never be comfortable with receiving money or other gift items from his babe all the time. They believe that as a man, you should feel a bit of shame if your lady is the one who constantly shoulders the financial responsibilities in the relationship and that if you don’t, you’re not in love with her but only looking for how to chop and clean mouth.


These observers further opine that if you look very well, the guy who is being spent on is taking all the gifts and money and spending it on another lady which could be his side chick or main chick ...

Continue reading at https://9jababa.com/women-who-give-men-their-money/

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Vyzz:


Ok

Lol, why the angry emoticon?

One of the reasons feminism is dead on arrival.

danielistics:
One of the reasons feminism is dead on arrival.

It was not made for African women, more specifically Nigerian women. These women enjoy being subdued, and there's no better way to subdue a Nigerian woman than keeping her financially dependent on you to a large extent.

If you try doing this with a woman of western birth and orientation, you'll be wasting your time.

The poverty level in Nigeria may be partly to blame for this.

Unnerve:

The poverty level in Nigeria may be partly to blame for this.

the poverty level is 100% to blame for it.
Men seems to understand "money" as a tool to subdue the "have-nots" or those that lack.

Even politicians use the poverty as a tool to control the masses. But in women's case, African woman are gradually being emancipated form being controlled by poverty

I assume this thread is for boyfriend and girlfriend relationships.

In marriage, the wives don’t have the option of withholding their monies. Especially not in our Nigeria where a greater percentage of population struggles to make ends meet.

They may not be giving it to their men in terms of “here have some pocket change”. But they are financially involved in making sure the home does not lack.

Will they regret it?

How could one regret helping feed her children, provide shelter, provide education, provide healthcare etc? You’re a parent first and making sure your family doesn’t lack brings happiness rather than regret.

I did.
Men are manipulative when it comes to collecting money from a woman.

rockstarB:
I did.
Men are manipulative when it comes to collecting money from a woman.

Explain

I see no reason why a girlfriend should regret helping her man financially if he's in need
I've seen many cases right here in school

rockstarB:
I did.
Men are manipulative when it comes to collecting money from a woman.

And how do women collect money from men?

No Regrets, unless the man turned out to be undeserving.

Selfish beings.

cococandy:
I assume this thread is for boyfriend and girlfriend relationships.
In marriage, the wives don’t have the option of withholding their monies. Especially not in our Nigeria where a greater percentage of population struggles to make ends meet.
They may not be giving it to their men in terms of “here have some pocket change”. But they are financially involved in making sure the home does not lack.
Will they regret it?
How could one regret helping feed her children, provide shelter, provide education, provide healthcare etc? You’re a parent first and making sure your family doesn’t lack brings happiness rather than regret.

Nigerian wives don't regret being financially responsible for their husbands? Only in an alternate Nairaland reality can you think such untruth.

rockstarB:
I did.
Men are manipulative when it comes to collecting money from a woman.

It must lead to tears surely

BLUELemon:
the poverty level is 100% to blame for it.
Men seems to understand "money" as a tool to subdue the "have-nots" or those that lack.

Even politicians use the poverty as a tool to control the masses. But in women's case, African woman are gradually being emancipated form being controlled by poverty

Not from what I see. It's prolly gonna take another 100 years at least for them to alter behaviours that are caused by being brought up within the poverty bracket.

libby01:
Do Women Who Give Men Their Money Regret It?

Usually, the guy in the relationship is expected to make the first move by giving his babe some money or any valuable gift item to show that “he is the man”. However, we don’t all play by this “rule”.


Quite a number of ladies in relationships do not mind spending an arm and a leg on their boyfriends. For such ladies, it is simply in their nature to give. And is it not the Bible that says, “For God so loved the world, that He gave…”?


While these ladies may not mind “performing the duty of a man” in the relationship as they give because they have good hearts, this behaviour has been criticised by some observers.


Ladies who pay all the bills and generously assist their men financially with very little to no reciprocation from their men are termed by these observers as fools in love who are only headed for disaster. Fools because the observers say that no matter how poor a man might be, if he loves you, he will find a way to give you something precious.

These observers say that a man should never be comfortable with receiving money or other gift items from his babe all the time. They believe that as a man, you should feel a bit of shame if your lady is the one who constantly shoulders the financial responsibilities in the relationship and that if you don’t, you’re not in love with her but only looking for how to chop and clean mouth.


These observers further opine that if you look very well, the guy who is being spent on is taking all the gifts and money and spending it on another lady which could be his side chick or main chick ...

Continue reading at https://9jababa.com/women-who-give-men-their-money/

I did to my boyfriend. It ended in tears. Manipulative bastard he was. Avoid IMO men if u are igbo.

Genset:




I did to my boyfriend. It ended in tears. Manipulative bastard he was. Avoid IMO men if u are igbo.

Sorry darling. Be thankful for the lesson.. You deserve a good man

Unnerve:

Not from what I see. It's prolly gonna take another 100 years at least for them to alter behaviours that are caused by being brought up within the poverty bracket.

African women are doing very well financially....they just refuse to given strong muscular big men money

They refuse to double as flatmate and wife......or play wife with no behefit

You people will collect money every day every year from men nobody will hear pim , you will give men small money it now becomes a term paper

Ybaby:


African women are doing very well financially....

Yup, on the internet

Eketem:
You people will collect money every day every year from men nobody will hear pim , you will give men small money it now becomes a term paper

Your post history shows you're female. This is an unusual but interesting perspective from a naija woman

Unnerve:

Yup, on the internet

Do you close your eyes when you move around?

sorry you are in low income bracket postcodes

Sule!

I don’t know about spending on your husband, but spending on boyfriend? Premium tears. You know Life and Heineken are both lager? It’s Heineken type of tears that will end it. Even if you aren’t spending on him in hopes he’ll marry, just as your close person, how you will fall out for your fellow babe, it will end in Heineken. Premium lager tears. Salty, flowing and full of regret. The very best.

Ybaby:


Sorry darling. Be thankful for the lesson.. You deserve a good man

Thanks dear.