I have known this guy for about 12years, we've been friends with no strings attached and have always liked him. A few months ago, he asked me out to dinner ( which was not a new thing) and said he wanted a relationship with me because he's always been in love with me. Although we've both been in other relationships, it never led to marriage.

We plan to tie the knot in a couple of months but i keep wondering ,

Why would it take him this long to say his feelings?

he waz building his moral.

OP, stop wondering. the same reason u too were having the same feeling but kept it. gudluck thou

rhodemma ! why did it take u this long  to understand his feelings?

are you ready for HIM now? pls tell others to stay clear.

Nothing wrong in saying it late.

^^^ heeeeeey look at that . . . . it has a brain!

thanks for your response. Guess I'm just curious

I guess its better late than never abi?

So mobo444 has human in him/her

"I" word? huh. he couldnt count up letter "i"?

why didn't you tell him your feelings all this time

@aminalib: common i cldn't tell him, men are supposed to be the hunters, at least that's what we've been made to understand

Ujujoan:

^^^ heeeeeey look at that . . . . it has a brain!

Loool. . . You think it knows you were talking to it?

cos both of u have always been there 4 each other when those other relationship failed.

Honestly I like this topic cos what is interesting is that you were all single after that long despite having relationships that didn't workout. I think he knew you were the reason for his failure to find his missing rib and he just knew you are the one.

@robmna, i agree with you,