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Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by askings: 7:25pm On Jun 10, 2020
Dear mature minds,
I am being frustrated on taking my fiancée to see almost all my family before introduction. My father said they ALL need to know her before introduction.

Please ma/sir, what is the importance of introduction, if I should take her round the family before any introduction. I think Introduction is meant for families to know each other. I think he is just frustrating me.

Please I need a mature advice. Thanks in advanced.
Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by Bluntguy: 7:30pm On Jun 10, 2020
Listen to your father. He will not mislead you.

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Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by donbachi(m): 7:30pm On Jun 10, 2020
To whom it may concern.
Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by callmeRichie(m): 7:31pm On Jun 10, 2020
this is Nigeria brogrin, buh as long as your parents and siblings have met her, I think that is a goal already sha. Buh some parents go sha wan show pridegrin. it's a good thing sha, I think u should just play along and save yourself the insults and grudges... Buh mind who u take her to still yet though

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Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by Nobody: 7:35pm On Jun 10, 2020
askings:
Dear mature minds,
I am being frustrated on taking my fiancée to see almost all my family before introduction. My father said they ALL need to know her before introduction.

Please ma/sir, what is the importance of introduction, if I should take her round the family before any introduction. I think Introduction is meant for families to know each other. I think he is just frustrating me.

Please I need a mature advice. Thanks in advanced.

Your immediate family first. Your parents and siblings. Then perhaps one or two uncles/aunts that you are convinced that they mean well for you.
Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by askings: 7:53pm On Jun 10, 2020
Gracealone:


Your immediate family first. Your parents and siblings. Then perhaps one or two uncles/aunts that you are convinced that they mean well for you.
I have done all these. I have taken her to see my immediate family. And I have taken her to see one of my aunties (extended family). But he insisted, he want ALL the uncles and aunties to see her before the introduction.
Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by profilemessages: 7:59pm On Jun 10, 2020
Time for wind to blow feather for fowl yansh.

But if you and her don't have skeletons in your cupboard, then no need to be afraid.
Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by Freestainworld(m): 8:03pm On Jun 10, 2020
didn't take my wife to see anybody apart from my parents and siblings, I just visited few extended family members alone to inform them, but you have use wisdom, I just told them she's not around because of one or two things she's taking care of. Good luck.
Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by Ningen(m): 8:13pm On Jun 10, 2020
askings:

I have done all these. I have taken her to see my immediate family. And I have taken her to see one of my aunties (extended family). But he insisted, he want ALL the uncles and aunties to see her before the introduction.

You've completed the BASICS of introduction.
Any other thing is unnecessary.

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Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by paulolee(m): 8:28pm On Jun 10, 2020
they nid to see her first to gv u go ahead b4 the introduction proper...if dey see her and she's nt dier type, they would let u kno so that u dnt border with the introduction...u cant just fix date for introduction and the said date is the first time they are seeing her na..
Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by Bola146(f): 8:58pm On Jun 10, 2020
Your parents are the first person to know her
Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by dingbang(m): 9:05pm On Jun 10, 2020
Your hod . what a stupid question.
Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by ettaetta(m): 9:32pm On Jun 10, 2020
parents and siblings
Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by CAPSLOCKED: 10:59pm On Jun 10, 2020
Bluntguy:
Listen to your father. He will not mislead you.

PARENTS/ELDERS ARE NOT ALL-WISE AND ALL-PERFECT. THESE PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES TOO, JUST LIKE THE REST OF US.
Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jun 10, 2020
Obey your parents first.. Simple instruction requires obedience, so your parents demands it before sacrifice.
Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by Bestboy11513(m): 11:27pm On Jun 10, 2020
Ask your Dad what exactly his deal is, you might as well show to the whole world pfft
Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by gamapoy539: 11:37pm On Jun 10, 2020
Your Ex girlfriends bro...
Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by Ohizman73(m): 1:12am On Jun 11, 2020
askings:

I have done all these. I have taken her to see my immediate family. And I have taken her to see one of my aunties (extended family). But he insisted, he want ALL the uncles and aunties to see her before the introduction.
simple you ask him to list them and try to visit at least 80% of them depending on the seniority and importance in the family.
Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by Bluntguy: 3:21am On Jun 11, 2020
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PARENTS/ELDERS ARE NOT ALL-WISE AND ALL-PERFECT. THESE PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES TOO, JUST LIKE THE REST OF US.
His father is wise. I don't know about yours.
Re: Whom Do I Take My Fiancée To See Before Introduction? by CAPSLOCKED: 8:17am On Jun 11, 2020
Bluntguy:

His father is wise. I don't know about yours.

I DON'T KNOW EITHER. DOESN'T MEAN PARENTS CANNOT GIVE WRONG ADVICE THAT MAY LEAD TO COSTLY MISTAKES.

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