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Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by aimmoney9: 11:43pm On Jun 16, 2020
Onyi22:
Using Ring is an old fashion of proposing to a lady, Must men still use it up till date?

Can't they use Cars, Landed properties, Company shares, investment Portfolios to prospose marriage?

What's your take on this?
Chioma is wishing Davido used a ring to propose to her first instead of d million naira assurance car.....if only she knew now it has all gone to ruins

Use ya head
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by saajus: 11:51pm On Jun 16, 2020
What about women giving cars as acceptance gift
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by TGMISKY(m): 11:53pm On Jun 16, 2020
When the movie "lord of the houses" or "lord of the cars" becomes a household movie, men would switch. We still love the "lord of the rings" name
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by PoliticallyInco: 11:56pm On Jun 16, 2020
Onyi22:
Using Ring is an old fashion of proposing to a lady, Must men still use it up till date?

Can't they use Cars, Landed properties, Company shares, investment Portfolios to prospose marriage?

What's your take on this?

Actually you are not erring in any way. A man can voluntarily choose to add any thing in form of a gift to the marriage proposal. Yes. When we look at it logically, he can add some of the things you listed and even more outside your list. After all most proposals end with a form of celebration of sorts when she says yes. The gift will only add to the excitement. I want to believe there have been men who bought cars and decorated them with "She Said Yes" tag.

As a matter of fact, nothing stops the woman from also getting him a gift and keep it until the day he proposes. Then she hands him the gift. She could also buy him these things as well or even more. These are all possible, sweet and legally okay. These are all realistic scenarios. Both partners can be sweet enough to get each other something.

However, we must also realize that marriage is not compulsory and I do not believe in the biblical origins and all that. The Bible to me is the Jewish account of creation,etc. My village people also have theirs and it is also as fantastic like the story of the beautiful garden, the talking serpent and the forbidden produce. Popularity does not imply correctness or accuracy or factualness. Also, realize that you do not need marriage to achieve anything in Life. Nothing. You can have kids, achieve greatness, etc. without marriage. Even if we go by the Bible, the greatest achievement in Christianity, which is eternal life. does not require marriage. So no. Marriage is over hyped. The only purpose it serves is to fit to people's idiosyncrasies and to create a fantasy induced happiness. When reality sets in, it breaks. So the question is how long are you willing to live in fantasy? Or how much are you willing to accept reality when the fantasy bubble bursts? I have nothing against it. But I see it the way it is. No garnishing and no self deceit. I don't believe in any special woman either. I believe there are over 10,000 women globally, that I can decide marry and live a happy and fullfilled life if I was into that type of thing.

Finally, personally, even if with marriage in my next 1 billion reincarnations , I will never propose with a ring. I won't kneel and I won't have a white wedding.

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Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by Abasman007: 12:03am On Jun 17, 2020
Let it be known to who it May concern..
You only deserve cars and properties if I meet you a virgin.

Verily I say unto you, you have nor right whatsover to form for me, try to break my heart, or think you deserve everything a good man should offer if the man in question is not the one that poked you!!!.... He's probably number 121....... to go there, so he's doing you a favor!!...

I vowed never to allow any woman use my head since the day I found out that a girl in my lodge everyone knows to be "useless" and so openbno one wants to go near her. Is being begged outside by guys to be dated.. and we are like, if only they knew.....

Women, girls any one of them ain't worth it... "I want a man that'll love me for me" who the Bleep are you? He's your retirement benefit? After inheriting fallen boobs you still want him to propose with a car?, You are even crying that he broke you heart after fucking around with other guys and you luckily meet a rich one, you want him to be faithful?...

Ladies always want things their way.. you have sex when they want not when you the guy wants.. if you force her the world tags you as a man without "self control".. okay you don't want to have sex ,she tags you as not being a man, she decides when you must have sex... And if you try to take it as your right she's ready to say "marital rape"..

My eyes have open... I'll never, I repeat I'll never be any womans retirement benefit, you bleeped your life out and still somone took you in and you turn around and want to be a queen?!

You want a car? And a diamond ring.. come as a virgin!!

They cry when you propose and you think she's crying because she's happy ? yes maybe she's happy in a way but she's like finally someone has taken me at least I'm lucky .. eww

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Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by EwuGambia: 12:10am On Jun 17, 2020
Rozz:
Let me go and read for my waec abi neco.
Hahaha..
Oya go and read, small boy.

Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by joepepsy(m): 12:11am On Jun 17, 2020
Onyi ! Wetin dey hungry you God never create am. Make you wait small you hear?
Onyi22:
Using Ring is an old fashion of proposing to a lady, Must men still use it up till date?

Can't they use Cars, Landed properties, Company shares, investment Portfolios to prospose marriage?

What's your take on this?
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by DexterousOne(m): 12:13am On Jun 17, 2020
FASASI1:
Have I always monitor this onyi22 comment unconsciously and I can tell you that girl is a gold digger, I pray they don't end up using her for ritual lazy punk that refuses to work na only money she dey find. Thief.



He/She is a troll
Nothing more
Nothing less

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Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by DjFlamingo(m): 12:14am On Jun 17, 2020
What have you ever afforded or invested. Digger.
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by DexterousOne(m): 12:16am On Jun 17, 2020
Abasman007:
Let it be known to who it May concern..
You only deserve cars and properties if I meet you a virgin.

Verily I say unto you, you have nor right whatsover to form for me, try to break my heart, or think you deserve everything a good man should offer if the man in question is not the one that poked you!!!.... He's probably number 121....... to go there, so he's doing you a favor!!...

I vowed never to allow any woman use my head since the day I found out that a girl in my lodge everyone knows to be "useless" and so openbno one wants to go near her. Is being begged outside by guys to be dated.. and we are like, if only they knew.....

Women, girls any one of them ain't worth it... "I want a man that'll love me for me" who the Bleep are you? He's your retirement benefit? After inheriting fallen boobs you still want him to propose with a car?, You are even crying that he broke you heart after fucking around with other guys and you luckily meet a rich one, you want him to be faithful?...

Ladies always want things their way.. you have sex when they want not when you the guy wants.. if you force her the world tags you as a man without "self control".. okay you don't want to have sex ,she tags you as not being a man, she decides when you must have sex... And if you try to take it as your right she's ready to say "marital rape"..

My eyes have open... I'll never, I repeat I'll never be any womans retirement benefit, you bleeped your life out and still somone took you in and you turn around and want to be a queen?!

You want a car? And a diamond ring.. come as a virgin!!

They cry when you propose and you think she's crying because she's happy ? yes maybe she's happy in a way but she's like finally someone has taken me at least I'm lucky .. eww

Tho you have a valid point about female entitlements

But know this

Most women today
Virgjn or no virgin

Are just not worth it at all!


A woman who a man would give his all to is a woman who is WORTH IT.

Virgin or not

Many of them are not worth the hassle and stress.

Men have come to realise it
Amd are sitting on the bench
Even here in Nigeria

So dont be deceived my good sir.

No be by V alone (not that Vs are bad)

But
IS SHE WORTH IT?

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Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by Ripama: 12:18am On Jun 17, 2020
And they always want Godfearing, faithful, loving man.
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by Nobody: 12:19am On Jun 17, 2020
Stupid post.
Why do woman still give birth to babies why don't they give birth to gold and diamonds..
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by Nobody: 12:20am On Jun 17, 2020
Stupid post.
Why do woman still give birth to babies why don't they give birth to gold and diamonds....

I just can't date Nigerian ladies.. they are just too lame..
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by DexterousOne(m): 12:22am On Jun 17, 2020
desiregold:
I'm yet to understand how marriage favors only women in Nigeria.

Please, make me understand

It actually does


If you really look at it.


From the (perceived) social status upgrade in Nigeria

SIDE NOTE: I have seen one woman harass another because she was erroneously not addressed as Mrs..... X


And the list goes on



What really does the typical Nigerian ma benefit from marriage really

Lets ne truthful

Even the supposed sex we biologically crave

Once you are hitched
And the woman is done having the few kids she want from you

You are not getting any action anymore


This has been the case in many instances

On the TABLE OF MEN
this is the most common complaint
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by Tansismmg(m): 12:27am On Jun 17, 2020
Na only Africa I see say girl go like guy she no go fit tell the guy. Abeg make una Dey fit talk if una like guy, make una no Dey wait make guy come meet or propose to una. When the guy now meet another girl, una go be like “and I been like that guy o”
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by Dybala11(m): 12:27am On Jun 17, 2020
Onyi22:

Am now a born again christian, Am no longer what I use to be.. Heaven is my target
Madam tell us another lie na?? grin
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by ladyGKilaBCrueD(f): 12:28am On Jun 17, 2020
they are broke dear
Onyi22:
Using Ring is an old fashion of proposing to a lady, Must men still use it up till date?

Can't they use Cars, Landed properties, Company shares, investment Portfolios to prospose marriage?

What's your take on this?
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by Dybala11(m): 12:32am On Jun 17, 2020
And this made the front page, this forum has truly gone to the dogs.
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by Nobody: 12:39am On Jun 17, 2020
Onyi22 delete your profile you are an agent of Satan to cause confusion.
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by Dybala11(m): 12:44am On Jun 17, 2020
OdenKelechi:

It's funny. I think she went to clown school.
I doubt her father even proposed to her mother with ring, let alone these things she's feeling entitled to.
How sure are you that her father even proposed to her mother, has she ever seen their marriage certificate?? grin
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by amosrich(m): 1:05am On Jun 17, 2020
It's been long I saw someone proposing sha..
I thought having baby mamas is the new deal now
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by MrSquint: 1:05am On Jun 17, 2020
What did your father use in proposing to your mother ?
Did he even propose ?


Abi them just born you by mistake ?

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Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by Judybash93(m): 1:09am On Jun 17, 2020
Poloyanabo2:

The right question should be: must men always be the ones proposing?
When will women take the driving seat?
At least, we're in the era of equal rights
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by Judybash93(m): 1:10am On Jun 17, 2020
MrSquint:
What did your father use in proposing to your mother ?
Did he even propose ?


Abi them just born you by mistake ?

Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by darediamond(m): 1:14am On Jun 17, 2020
Ningen:


What about hoe, gold digger, go to hell, etc.

There are lots of farm tools that we can use too.
Weremotu re oo grin grin grin
Werenian re ooooo!!!! grin grin grin

The Baddest of all NIGGAS!!! grin grin
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by darediamond(m): 1:16am On Jun 17, 2020
AiteeAitee:
If he brings a car now, one yeye aunty will still say 'the car he proposed with is an old model' grin
We women eh, we funny sha
Before I check your profile I just know you must be Beatiful and on checking .....



You turn him on!!!

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Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by BigJoe19: 1:28am On Jun 17, 2020
See useless thread, I blame Nairaland for giving retards a chance to say foolish things. Nairaland is degrading everyday.
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by darediamond(m): 1:34am On Jun 17, 2020
Inspectorsuga22:


U are just a bloody disgusting gold digger...
and that is why she put yansh as face for her profile.
See something oooo.....
Hmmmmmmm......

Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by darediamond(m): 1:38am On Jun 17, 2020
OdenKelechi:

It's funny. I think she went to clown school.
I doubt her father even proposed to her mother with ring, let alone these things she's feeling entitled to.
Oh my days!
Seems you know her down to home?
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by Nobody: 1:53am On Jun 17, 2020
Blackmoran:
Men proposing to women logically I find it foolish and dumb... First of all throughout my life I have known majority of guys don't take big deal about marriage, marriage is a woman dream and fantasy, the only few guys who even talk about marriage with there tune of words you can hear that they where been force, manipulated, bombarded, criticise, indoctrinated in getting into one... Logically there is no benefit of marriage to men it only favors women, so op when a guy propose to you its a privilege, and one sad thing been said about privilege, " give a man a meter he would take a mile" which with your message
you are doing now..
Look at you saying marriage is a woman's dream, I know so many men that love getting married and nobody forced them to, they just love it, stop deceiving yourself thinking that men are forced to marry.
Re: Why Must Men still Use Ring To Prospose Instead Of Cars, Landed Properties? by DexterousOne(m): 1:57am On Jun 17, 2020
Joycekkh:
Look at you saying marriage is a woman's dream, I know so many men that love getting married and nobody forced them to, they just love it, stop deceiving yourself thinking that men are forced to marry.


Lmao

I'm just laughing at u

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