Hello nairalanders, this is my first topic since have been on this platform and it's because I really need your advice or views on a serious issue troubling my mind. Please don't insult me as these could happen to anyone.

Am a guy in my mid 20s and I just concluded my Degree program in one of the universities in Nigeria. While in school, have met many girls, date several and had flings with some. Am a kind of guy that love having sexual relations in my relationships and all my previous girlfriends satisfied me with it. But at the beginning of my final year in school, I met a girl who am a year older than in my school and I didn't intend to be serious with at first. We started dating before I found out she is a virgin. I wasn't pleased with this at first because I knw I will not get my sexual satisfaction from her as she insist till wedding night. I played along hoping she will eventually let me one day.

But to my surprise, I kept on falling in love with her as time goes on as we spent most of our time together. I later worry less about the sexual needs and enjoyed her company which I later accept as a sacrifice for my love for her. though I still ask her for it sometimes but she still refuses. But the problem is that she is not the romantic kind of person, she does not really knw how to show love to a guy and it became worst due to the distance the pandemic has caused between us for a while now. she hardly call but only chat with me online once a while. However, she is a good girl and a good Christian girl whom I can trust. Our relationship has lasted a year and 5 months now.

But before the pandemic which has lead to closure of schools, I have a female friend who I like as a friend then and am 3 years older than. We eventually gets closer as she starts showing signs of interest in me even more than my girlfriend. I decided to try my luck with her and it clicked within 3days. But she is not aware of my previous girlfriend as I did not tell her abt it. She has been everything I wanted in a woman, beautiful, kind, caring and knws how to show love. She is also sexually active as I am. To crown it, am happy with her and we've been dating for almost 3 months now.

Now the problem is, I find it hard to let my former girl go as I still love her too. We talk once a while and most time on WhatsApp. And the new girl is also driving me crazy and I won't dare to tell her I have another girl. Now I want to choose one of them but I don't know what to do.....the new girl is new and I don't know what she will turn to as time goes on, the old girl is getting boring by day and hardly keep long conversation with me.

Note: both of them are longing to meet my parent as we are done with studies and waiting for nysc.

Guys please, if you are in my shoes.....what will you do? I need your advice

which advice are you looking for again. you already blessed with a definition of what we called a wife material and a side chick.. so do the math and do the needful.

You are cheating on the first girl.

It looks like you've made a choice.
So break up with her already.

Why because if you valued what you have with her, you'd NEVER risk it for anyone. But since you're willing to risk it, means you feel nothing.

Kanyamata in action.

abeg give me the second girl

Marry d both nah

That's crazy

Angelacruz:
Marry d both nah

Lol, I can't do that sir/ma

I honestly don't know what to say

Im not sure u love the (two) both of em...just few month make a decision to tell them any one that stays, is the best one for u.

e don happen. but seriously learn to make your decision. My opinion doesn't matter

If u claim to be in love with someone yet u got to then fall in love with another person while u still love the first, then maybe u didn't love the first person as much as the second. So I'd say go for the second girl

you cnt be inlove with someone and fall inlove with another...love means giving ur all to someone and leaving no space to another.....mayb u weren't inlove with the first or gat lost for the second..

Find a way to have sex with the two of them, after you cum finish, tell me if it's love or lust.


If you still find out that you love them after sex, then,

Impregnate the two of them..


Then tell me if it's truly love

DenreleDave:
Find a way to have sex with the two of them, after you cum finish, tell me if it's love or lust.


If you still find out that you love them after sex, then,

Impregnate the two of them..


Then tell me if it's truly love

Waawu.. Are you seriously serious.?

Bruh, you know deep down in your heart who you love..


Meanwhile, you can get paid to watch videos

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in Tony Tertulas voice, am in love with two women I no know which one to take.. ;

The first girl is wife material, do not lose her for sexual fancy.

Why isn’t she showing interest in you. Are you calling the first girl the way you should? Could she be seeing someone else hence why she is not focused in giving all her attention to you or do you feel it’s just her upbringing making her distant. From what I know if a lady isn’t really into you, she would be emotionally distant....I feel that’s what is going on sincerely. Maybe you aren’t her ideal Christian man she wants for a husband after all you disturb her for sex.
The second lady may also genuinely love you. She has been your friend for long so you should be able to know her character too...you can try telling her you want to stop sex as it’s not godly and see if she sticks and stays or Mayb she is just looking for a man to service her only.
The ball is in your Court finally after asking yourself all this questions

DenreleDave:
Find a way to have sex with the two of them, after you cum finish, tell me if it's love or lust.


If you still find out that you love them after sex, then,

Impregnate the two of them..


Then tell me if it's truly love

this is really funny, thank you all d same

DenreleDave:
Find a way to have sex with the two of them, after you cum finish, tell me if it's love or lust.


If you still find out that you love them after sex, then,

Impregnate the two of them..


Then tell me if it's truly love

sense no go kill you

Pray to ur god to help u chose one if u serve d living one indeed




Miramore funmi insulted u right?

DenreleDave:
Find a way to have sex with the two of them, after you cum finish, tell me if it's love or lust.


If you still find out that you love them after sex, then,

Impregnate the two of them..


Then tell me if it's truly love

I don't like or love u stop telling ur foolish friends am obsessed with ur dick

Amatarasha:
I don't like or love u stop telling ur foolish friends am obsessed with ur dick

No sense

the one u really love make dat one ur main chick then the one u love a little make dat one ur side chick

Amatarasha:
Pray to ur god to help u chose one if u serve d living one indeed




Miramore funmi insulted u right?

Amatarasha she is sick in the brain(brain tumor precisely) and I know it, so I already booked an appointment for her and soon she will be undergoing a surgery.
I feel her pains

Miramore:
Amatarasha she is sick in the brain(brain tumor precisely) and I know it, so I already booked an appointment for her and soon she will be undergoing a surgery.
I feel her pains

...Hahahahaha
U finish her indeed, wat did she did 2 u

TSoul:


Guys please, if you are in my shoes.....what will you do? I need your advice

The problem i see here is that you have not slept with the virgin. Once you sleep with her your eye go clear. You are a sexually active person, you need a sexually active partner as well.
When you are ready for marriage pray to God to give you your wife, as per the 2 girls in question, they are just waka pass, you never ready.

chai what a pity