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Re: The Accident by 190: 6:55pm On Jan 28, 2011
Poster are you on weed's
Re: The Accident by petebor02(m): 7:00pm On Jan 28, 2011
no on alloy
Re: The Accident by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jan 28, 2011
@MrsDarkskin
are you saying that men should love and stick to someone REGARDLESS of the situation they find themselves into?
we can all understand the moral implication but at the same time, people need to use their brains.

that person is NOT the same (as much as someone may want to look at it) and therefore THEY need to re-evaluate their relationship. looking at her as the same person is wrong (imho) because most of what they did together to care for each other in the manner that they do, is "void". now their relationship will only be about taking care of her.

here is a clue: most men in Africa sole marriage purpose is to have a family aka children, so if the gal end up crippled like that, family is out of the question thus marriage DEFINITELY wont happen for the most.
Re: The Accident by Nobody: 7:11pm On Jan 28, 2011
MRbrownJAY:

@MrsDarkskin
are you saying that men should love and stick to someone REGARDLESS of the situation they find themselves into.
we can all understand the moral implication but at the same time, people need to use their brains.

that person is NOT the same (as much as someone may want to look at it) and therefore THEY need to re-evaluate their relationship. looking at her as the same person is wrong (imho) because most of what they did together to care for each other in the manner that they do, is "void". now their relationship will only be about taking care of her.

[size=18pt]here is a clue: most men in Africa sole marriage purpose is to have a family aka children, so if the gal end up crippled like that, family is out of the question thus marriage DEFINITELY wont happen for the most[/size].

If that is the mentality of African men, then my dream to have children with a man from the motherland just won't happen! I'd then rather to stick with westernized men who will love me (even if i wasn't the mother of their children yet) even if i do lose a limb or two, that is real love and I will do the same for them. I dated a guy who has kidney failure and was by his side ALWAYS and although we are just friends I still go with him for check ups/dialysis because I have a heart and know love.
Re: The Accident by kaymoney2(m): 7:14pm On Jan 28, 2011
MzD@rkSkin:

If that is the mentality of African men, then my dream to have children with a man from the motherland just won't happen! I'd then rather to stick with westernized men who will love me (even if i wasn't the mother of their children yet) even if i do lose a limb or two, that is real love and I will do the same for them. I[size=20pt] dated a guy who has kidney failure and was by his side ALWAYS and although we are just friends I still go with him for check ups/dialysis because I have a heart and know love[/size].


Mzdark Hmm Hands clapping for you shocked shocked

Re: The Accident by Nobody: 7:19pm On Jan 28, 2011
kay-money:


Mzdark Hmm Hands clapping for you shocked shocked

lI am getting emotional right now lol, just thinking about it (my ex) and then that guy Chris and his fiance,  undecided cry. When it comes to love and showing it? to me that is a BIG deal! I fyou cannot express your love for someone and BE THERE! then you are wasting your time on Earth, might as well jump into lava and end it all! That is how I see it Kay.

How are you though?

I'm gonna log off and pull myself together! this is soo close to home lol
Re: The Accident by 190: 7:21pm On Jan 28, 2011
Im out
Re: The Accident by Mygoldie(f): 7:22pm On Jan 28, 2011
if i were a man,i'll marry her.
Re: The Accident by Nobody: 7:29pm On Jan 28, 2011
@MrsDarkskin
as i see that you are very emotional about this issue, i will lay this discussion to rest.
have a great day.
Re: The Accident by kaymoney2(m): 7:30pm On Jan 28, 2011
MzD@rkSkin:

lI am getting emotional right now lol, just thinking about it (my ex) and then that guy Chris and his fiance,  undecided cry. When it comes to love and showing it? to me that is a BIG deal! I fyou cannot express your love for someone and BE THERE! then you are wasting your time on Earth, might as well jump into lava and end it all! That is how I see it Kay.

How are you though?

I'm gonna log off and pull myself together! this is soo close to home lol


@ Mzdark you must have been a good lover- kind hearted and devoted honey to this guy,
Sorry about that. Do you still have in you those attributes that you displayed to him when he was dying
and his world was crumbling,  I mean can you do such  for 190 if he were to be in his shoes I mean your ex shoes
smiley
Re: The Accident by MrCork17: 7:31pm On Jan 28, 2011
Mygoldie:

if i were a man,i'll marry her.

huh?  you have a willly?  wha the heck!! undecided
Re: The Accident by 190: 7:36pm On Jan 28, 2011
kay-money:

@ Mzdark you must have been a good lover- kind hearted and devoted honey to this guy,
Sorry about that. Do you still have in you those attributes that you displayed to him when he was dying
and his world was crumbling,  I mean can you do such  for 190 if he were to be in his shoes I mean your ex shoes
smiley

angry angry angry angry angry angry
Re: The Accident by kaymoney2(m): 7:59pm On Jan 28, 2011
190:

angry angry angry angry angry angry


Hmm 190 I pray you dont get sick ooo
Am not sure if such Mzdark treatment, feeling and devotion are still
in stock for you
grin
Re: The Accident by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jan 28, 2011
kay-money:

@ Mzdark you must have been a good lover- kind hearted and devoted honey to this guy,
Sorry about that. Do you still have in you those attributes that you displayed to him when he was dying
and his world was crumbling,  I mean can you do such  for 190 if he were to be in his shoes I mean your ex shoes
smiley


lol thank you Kay. I appreciate it. Yes - of course I would give 190's stubborn backside the same treatment.

@BrownJay thanks sweetie. wink
smiley
Re: The Accident by kaymoney2(m): 8:49pm On Jan 28, 2011
MzD@rkSkin:

lol thank you Kay. I appreciate it. Yes - of course I would give 190's stubborn backside the same treatment. smiley

@ Mzdark Hmm well if 190 doesnt survive it or make it through from the sickness
we 190 friends would arrange a beffitting burial for him and we shall decide
according to African tradition which one of us would have 190 beautiful widow and keep her as wife for seeks
grin cheesy
Re: The Accident by Nobody: 8:54pm On Jan 28, 2011
kay-money:

@ Mzdark Hmm well if 190 doesnt survive it or make it through from the sickness
we 190 friends would arrange a beffitting burial for him and we shall decide
according to African tradition which one of us would have 190 beautiful widow and keep her as wife for seeks
grin cheesy

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin


THAT IS HILARIOUS!!!!!!! Kay you are a tripl!!!! lol!!!!!!!!!!
and I can guarantee you are NOT joking either! grin
Re: The Accident by kaymoney2(m): 9:09pm On Jan 28, 2011
MzD@rkSkin:

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin


THAT IS HILARIOUS!!!!!!! Kay you are a tripl!!!! lol!!!!!!!!!!
and I can guarantee you are NOT joking either! grin


**Mzdark** I dont like mincing words I really know 190 will not make it from his ailment undecided
And I believe am gonna have upper hands than any other contenders to have 190 widow and
190 widow would prefer kay-money to other interested 190 friends
grin
Re: The Accident by joyblinks(f): 9:21pm On Jan 28, 2011
**Mzdark** I dont like mincing words I really know 190 will not make it from his ailment
And I believe am gonna have upper hands than any other contenders to have 190 widow and
190 widow would prefer kay-money to other interested 190 friends

if this is a prayer, then i think i will join you. so i can be at rest on this nairaland. u take the bride while i get my rest here.

and please include Mr. Cork and MOBO444
Re: The Accident by kaymoney2(m): 9:28pm On Jan 28, 2011
joyblinks:

if this is a prayer, then i think i will join you. so i can be at rest on this nairaland. u take the bride while i get my rest here.

and please include Mr. Cork and MOBO444

Hahahaha you keep your cool and watch as events unfold
I decided to turn to babalawo/herbalist just because of those stubborn boys
I monitor them straight away whenever they are online. 190 and his  cohort
are in for  tough times here. Guaratee
grin

Re: The Accident by Nobody: 9:34pm On Jan 28, 2011
LOL! Lord have mercy!  grin I'm speechless!
Re: The Accident by kaymoney2(m): 9:45pm On Jan 28, 2011
MzD@rkSkin:

LOL! Lord have mercy!  grin I'm speechless!


Mzdark  Hahaha dont worry thats why am not in their category
when the time comes I have that power to change form again
I can tranform myself to whatever i feel like at any point in time,
And be rest assured that my youthfulness will still trip you,
Mind you I have looked into the future how 190 would look like at old age
that is if he survives the tide millitating against him
smiley cheesy

Re: The Accident by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jan 28, 2011
kay-money:


Mzdark  Hahaha dont worry thats why am not in their category
when the time comes I have that power to change form again
I can tranform myself to whatever i feel like at any point in time,
And be rest assured that my youthfulness will still trip you,
Mind you I have looked into the future how 190 would look like at old age
that is if he survives the tide millitating against him
smiley cheesy


lol Kay abeg free 190! I am trying not to laugh because he might post >>> angry angry angry angry<<<<< next to your/mine/our name(s) LOL. be nice now!
Re: The Accident by kaymoney2(m): 10:00pm On Jan 28, 2011
MzD@rkSkin:

lol Kay abeg free 190! I am trying not to laugh because he might post >>> angry angry angry angry<<<<< next to your/mine/our name(s) LOL. be nice now!

Mzdark hahaha I rest my case but mind you I still remain the wicked
Herbalist monitoring 190 and his cohort, I guess they wouldnt want
to play their PS3 Grand-Theft -Auto in whell barrow
grin cheesy

Re: The Accident by inspirizu(m): 12:22am On Jan 29, 2011
Abeg e don du, no more post on diz again, u don dey make me cry already (sobbs)

which one Q-leg hw e go take b lmao
Re: The Accident by 190: 5:52am On Jan 29, 2011
^^ Q-leg na joyblinks and she be K-cedi's babe
Re: The Accident by joyblinks(f): 6:36am On Jan 29, 2011
190,

you wan deny say you get Q-leg? why na. make i open your nyansh here for your girl darkskin front?
Re: The Accident by 190: 6:44am On Jan 29, 2011
joyblinks:

190,

you wan deny say you get Q-leg? why na. make i open your nyansh here for your girl darkskin front?

angry angry angry
Re: The Accident by segunjowo(m): 7:03am On Jan 29, 2011
Mygoldie:

if i were a man,i'll marry her.
[/quote
u wish?
Re: The Accident by joyblinks(f): 7:36am On Jan 29, 2011
wetin u dey keep angry face for?
Re: The Accident by 190: 11:31am On Jan 29, 2011
joyblinks:

wetin u dey keep angry face for?
angry angry
Re: The Accident by queensmith: 11:36am On Jan 29, 2011
MzD@rkSkin:

I watched it the other day when it came on, and it broke my heart! everyone i was with was teary eyed! especially when they showed her before and after. she had severe damage to the brain which causes her to be immobile (wheel chair dependent) and she shakes sporadically (almost seizure like) but she is conscious and can communicate. I swear, God bless him (Chris) I will be voting for him throughout, believe it! and he is STILL with her and taking care of her, such a good man! I hope that is truly how he is to her and not just infront of the camera because men all over can learn something from him. . .love your lady THROUGH THICK AND THIN AND HAVE HER BACK!!!! We are but flesh and bone and it could happen to ANY OF US as we cannot predict the future so be careful how you treat people and clean your hearts!

soo tru!
not even just men, women alike!
Re: The Accident by Atreides(f): 11:41am On Jan 29, 2011
queensmith:

soo tru!
not even just men, women alike!
That's all well and good in theory. It's a noble ideal,but how practical is it really?

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