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Pls, How Can I Get Out Of This Heartache by truthhurts2: 9:26am On Jun 22, 2020
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Later My girl came back, but I noticed there's a change in her reaction (very sober), not quite long she entered her phone rang continuously but when she refused to pick, mine rang and it was prayer(the lady that left), asking if my girl is there with me saying... Eso fun oloriburuku iyawo yin wipe ko gbe call e (Tell your unfortunate fiancé to pick her call), to ba je pe iya ee ati baba ee lobi Eso fun pe ko gbe call e (if she is really the real daughter of her parents she should pick up), upon asking her what happens, she said my girl called her calling her all sorts of names... That she's a prostitute, what is she doing on her boo's bed, is she trying to seduce me, did she want to snatch me away from her and all sorts of things. It really pissed me off, but to cut it short, I begged prayer and I settled the whole thing.

I'm not yet on the real bang... But I will be back..


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Another instance :

She came in one night and met me on a call and I did pause the talking in order to attend to her, after all pleasantries, I returned to my call, her mum was seriously sick coupled with her younger brother admission into uni and she can't cope with all the pressure (due to the money she needed for her mum treatment which it's kind of huge and brother's tuition fee and the likes), she thought of committing suicide and I was just lucky to be the last person she talks with before embarking on the evil act as she claimed anyway. So, the call was lengthy, immediately, I had noticed a change in her like... Banging the door when coming in or going out then later upgraded to telling me to end the call ASAP, ended up the call anyways, then I later left my apartment went outside my street, find a place to sit and continue the call. But after some minutes, I saw her dash out to the street looking everywhere for me, she later found me, locked up my clothes, dragging the phone with me at the same time hitting me seriously on my face, my head and so on. Passers-by immediately turned us to a cinema and watched.... Will be back...
Re: Pls, How Can I Get Out Of This Heartache by Professorcplus(m): 9:32am On Jun 22, 2020
Okay following
Re: Pls, How Can I Get Out Of This Heartache by Sammy07: 9:34am On Jun 22, 2020
come back and complete it.
Re: Pls, How Can I Get Out Of This Heartache by truthhurts2: 10:50am On Jun 22, 2020
truthhurts2:
(continues)...

Later My girl came back, but I noticed there's a change in her reaction (very sober), not quite long she entered her phone rang continuously but when she refused to pick, mine rang and it was prayer(the lady that left), asking if my girl is there with me saying... Eso fun oloriburuku iyawo yin wipe ko gbe call e (Tell your unfortunate fiancé to pick her call), to ba je pe iya ee ati baba ee lobi Eso fun pe ko gbe call e (if she is really the real daughter of her parents she should pick up), upon asking her what happens, she said my girl called her calling her all sorts of names... That she's a prostitute, what is she doing on her boo's bed, is she trying to seduce me, did she want to snatch me away from her and all sorts of things. It really pissed me off, but to cut it short, I begged prayer and I settled the whole thing.

I'm not yet on the real bang... But I will be back..


Continues...

Another instance :

She came in one night and met me on a call and I did pause the talking in order to attend to her, after all pleasantries, I returned to my call, her mum was seriously sick coupled with her younger brother admission into uni and she can't cope with all the pressure (due to the money she needed for her mum treatment which it's kind of huge and brother's tuition fee and the likes), she thought of committing suicide and I was just lucky to be the last person she talks with before embarking on the evil act as she claimed anyway. So, the call was lengthy, immediately, I had noticed a change in her like... Banging the door when coming in or going out then later upgraded to telling me to end the call ASAP, ended up the call anyways, then I later left my apartment went outside my street, find a place to sit and continue the call. But after some minutes, I saw her dash out to the street looking everywhere for me, she later found me, locked up my clothes, dragging the phone with me at the same time hitting me seriously on my face, my head and so on. Passers-by immediately turned us to a cinema and watched.... Will be back...
Another one....

A younger sister of mine (which she also knows, though not blood related), came to do something in my area from another city (Oyo) , she had put a call to me days before that she has something to attend to in the next two weeks in my area which is very important and that she have nowhere whatsoever to stay and I said OK no worries. But unfortunately, she came three days after the call saying that they shift it back, so it was an impromptu that it came as a surprise to her. I didn't had the time to tell my girl about it due to the change in this my sis movements, but it's better late than never. When I told her about it she flared up seriously saying never would she allowed such and I begged and scolded her because part of me knew it doesn't speak well but wetin man go do. She concur, and everybody was good... But it wasn't for long. Three days later, she came and confronted this my sis around 7pm which led her (my sis) to pack her load and head back to Oyo that same night.... Will be back

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Re: Pls, How Can I Get Out Of This Heartache by truthhurts2: 10:54am On Jun 22, 2020
Sammy07:
come back and complete it.
please if you have the first one I posted you can help me to repost it, I mistakingly modified it... Thanks
Re: Pls, How Can I Get Out Of This Heartache by truthhurts2: 11:55am On Jun 22, 2020
There is this feed mill place we went (one male friend and I) to formulate feed for rabbits, we met this lady which was the one that formulated it for us, but unfortunately, by mistakes, some ingredients were missing and some were not complete so the feed is dangerous for the rabbits to feed on. We complained and asked them to return the money or formulate another (which they initially didn't agree but they eventually agreed to). So the boss there ordered the lady to formulate another one (in annoyance) which she did. So, Upon leaving, there was this thought that strikes our minds that what if this boss will revenge this mistake of a thing on her maybe by deduction of her salary (if she has one anyway). The only way we can get to know that is by maybe collecting her digits and putting a call to her the next day if they eventually sell the feed or she will be the one to pay for it so that, maybe, the next visit we would give little out of the money bact to her.
We got home and met my girl at home, left my phone on the table and enter the bathroom for a shower. I came out met her going through my phone and she started are wahala again... Shouting on me why would I collect another girl's number, started reigning courses on her and so on and on. This drama took us at least an hour, telling me that I DARE NOT TRY TO LIVE HER FOR ANYONE.

NOW THE REAL PROBLEM IS THIS... Due to all these her wahala, l have started having HEART Ache. Seeing her alone will strike a great fear into my heart that I will have to hold my chest, or if my phone rang and it was her I will experience same thing again. I'm losing my confidence, I'm becoming a shadow of myself... I broke up with her last month, but, I can't get her off my head and at the same time I'm losing myself.... Pls help me!
Re: Pls, How Can I Get Out Of This Heartache by nuelsam: 12:28pm On Jun 22, 2020
wait...a girl you haven't walked on the aisle is giving u this typa heartache and u still contemplating on whether to dump her sorry ass or live with her toxicity...wow! just wow! u gave her the audacity to be honest...if u had put her back to her place making her realise the obvious fact that she's your girlfriend and not your wife,she wouldn't have the gut to pull this Kanye.
op don't mistake her action as love...it's basically toxicity.
when u eventually tie the knot with her,she might make u cut ties with your immediate family.....
you've been a weak man all along,stand your ground.
don't be scared to lose any lady in a relationship,there are thousands of good girls out there.
Be a man of high value and build your self esteem.... girls will run after u.
Re: Pls, How Can I Get Out Of This Heartache by Mandela27: 12:53pm On Jun 22, 2020
I want to know if this is fiction or real
Re: Pls, How Can I Get Out Of This Heartache by truthhurts2: 3:33pm On Jun 22, 2020
nuelsam:
wait...a girl you haven't walked on the aisle is giving u this typa heartache and u still contemplating on whether to dump her sorry ass or live with her toxicity...wow! just wow! u gave her the audacity to be honest...if u had put her back to her place making her realise the obvious fact that she's your girlfriend and not your wife,she wouldn't have the gut to pull this Kanye.
op don't mistake her action as love...it's basically toxicity.
when u eventually tie the knot with her,she might make u cut ties with your immediate family.....
you've been a weak man all along,stand your ground.
don't be scared to lose any lady in a relationship,there are thousands of good girls out there.
Be a man of high value and build your self esteem.... girls will run after u.
Hmmmm... I really appreciate your 2 cent. I'm nt contemplating on living her or nt, I already left her. What I'm seeking from you guys is how, I mean HOW to overcome this HEARTache of a thing coz, I'm not feeling any thing different from what she has caused before leaving. Still same feeling so far.

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