cococandy:


Blaming women for the emotional instability of men.

Matrimonous:

Exactly.
My fiancee, a very popular niaralander was wearing my engagement ring yet cheating. I won't disclose her moniker for the sake of not ruining her fame. Such shaming isn't necessary cos what happened had nothing to do with nairaland.
I was looking forward to when our pre-wedding and wedding shots will grace the headlines in this forum.
We had already done introduction and planning for main event before one yahoo yahoo boy she was messing up with in another city sent me her nudes.
She and her family did everything possible to save the relationship but I would hear nothing of that. To me the relationship was dead.
In fact she was lucky we were neither married nor was she around me when that happened because violence was inevitable with the way it hurt me.
You know what, though I never cheated on her but had I been the one that cheated, the relationship could still have been saved with due diligence on my part and that of my family.

cococandy:
You’re only trying to convince yourself

Kriss216:
One of the demerits of marrying a Nigerian girl.

maak400:

Wow this is shocking!
See, cheating women should be shamed openly everywhere online and offline to protect other innocent guys from falling into her cheating lifestyle. If I were you, God knows that I’ll shame her here on nairaland as punishment for her cheating ass. Don’t ever be kind and gentle when you catch a cheating partner!

Righteousness89:
Guard yourself Ffolks!

Put on the Wwhole armor of GOD!

Its risky to be Sspirtually empty in these evil days and times

Lots of evils are in the air looking for where to take Ppermanent residency.

You cannot resist it by Mmight or power!

Except the Lord watches over a Hhouse! The watchmen Wwatch but in Vvain!

How do I Gguard Mmyself?
A. Flee from anything that looks like sin. Sin is the door opener

B. Feast on the Word of God daily! The Aamount of the Word of God you have will keep you secured

C. Prayer without Cceasing! In your heart, aloud! Anyhow!


As we do this, Wwe will not be instruments for Wwickedness in Jesus Name ....
Amen

kokaneprodigy:
the babe no fit pass Onyi22, funmisticqueen2 or pocahantas those 3 dey fck sheygey

kokaneprodigy:
the issue is not whether she kept her legs closed the issue is the deceit and betrayal. Knowing fully well that men bare more of the responsibilities in marriage she didn’t only cheat she brought another man’s child for her husband to cater for. Man even questioned her yet she kept lying until he got proof himself.

Man wouldn’t have killed her if she owned up like men do when they impregnate someone else, at least they give u a choice to stay or leave and not lying to ur face and make you responsible for what’s not yours.

hisexcellency34:
some women get mind sha. Another man impregnated you and you impose the child on your husband. I won't judge

drehdinho:



Exactly, you got it. If you bleeped up as a wife and that Bleep up was a serious one, and your husband began to suspect you, don't push further or play on his intelligence and make him waste so much of his time seeing you as an immaculate wife before you seek for his forgiveness.


You are only creating more problems not only for yourself but for the whole family.

What could have made the matter worse, the cheat of a woman might even be the type that demand extra ordinarily from the man, and maybe this man never for once failed in filling up both her needs and wants even to his own detriment. And only for him to realize he had been caring for a bastard child over the years.

Who won't feel the impact of such a betrayal?

Women crave for so much of love and affection. They complain so much when the man appears not to give it or show it to them as much as they want, not knowing the man is actually trying not to be too attached for the purpose of being able to over look cases of brutal betrayal like this.


Women are complicated beings. Best thing I would advise all married men is to try to partition their heart. Don't offer all your heart to your wife. Because this is the only strenght you have that can take you through a major betrayal like this one.

So sad.

funmisticqueen2:
I don't know who you are, but never defame my character and spread lies against my person again.

I thank my stars that i dont know, and can never be associated with lowlifes like you.

Matrimonous:

My dear, all my uncles including my Dad suffered failed marriages from cheating wives. The only one whose marriage didn't fail actually died before his time. Another one that skipped my mind married two wives but It seems he had a relatively peaceful marriage nevertheless.
I've had two failed engagements myself because what one called fiancee couldn't keep her legs together.
So how could it be I'm only trying to convince myself on the matter?
I've seen things dear. You don't know my story.

cococandy:
Good to know cheating is not the sole prerogative of men.

kokaneprodigy:

Which sex is suffering more from the failed experiment called gender equality and feminism. A single father will still get to select babe marry if he wants. I can’t say same for a single mother having options.

Keep basking in ignorance na una full Shiloh

cococandy:
keep trying to convince yourself

cococandy:
keep trying to convince yourself

kokaneprodigy:

Which sex is suffering more from the failed experiment called gender equality and feminism. A single father will still get to select babe marry if he wants. I can’t say same for a single mother having options.

Keep basking in ignorance na una full Shiloh

kokaneprodigy:
all so called feminists na baby mama dey end am las las. Linda Ikeji upon all her sermons on social media one man out there turned her to single mom, Linda Ikeji nko the situation has even made her unstable.
Compare those two with Omotola and Mercy Johnson and spot the difference.
Keep basking in ur ignorance till u approach trashy news paper level you’ll know what’s up.

May U not end up like funmisticqueen2.

cococandy:


The prize is marriage I guess?

cococandy:


The prize is marriage I guess?

What of those who don’t want it?

Matrimonous:

You are spot on. I've met and quickly ran from several ladies I discovered were baby mamas no matter how pretty they were and regardless of their pleas and explanations.
Some single fathers, however, are marrying some of the best girls around including the Virgins among them. All that mattered is money in the Bank. Once you have that you could get almost any girl of choice irrespective of having a child from previous relationships.
Ladies are making a fool of themselves trying to measure up with men on this subject.
They are usually the losers when anything goes wrong. Many have even died from abortions yet they will never learn.

kokaneprodigy:

If the prize is not marriage why are y’all complaining about men not wanting to settle down, why do majority of y’all make men your prayer point once u are approaching 30. Why do u ask where the relationship is going, why are most single moms always bitter to an extent they can’t even hide it from social media.

Keep living in denial na Shiloh las las, you’ll just end up like funmisticqueen2

kokaneprodigy:

The population of those who genuinely do not want it are less than 10% of the female population and I respect them trust me.

Most who claim they do not want it have mostly tried and gave up don’t be deceived.

cococandy:


All this is stuff you’re telling yourself to make you feel better.

cococandy:
according to the research conducted by you

kokaneprodigy:
it’s the reality and you know it. The stats are out there to prove it.
Since the rise of feminist propaganda how has the marriage institution fared? How’s the divorce rate? How’s the baby mama and baby daddy rate? How open are guys to getting married?

The data will tell you what you need to know if u want to be honest with urself.

cococandy:


The data and stats from your behind. Amusing

It’s actually good if the marriage institution suffers from so called feminist propaganda. Means only the oppression of women was holding many marriages together.

If you’re not ready to treat your wife how you want her to treat you, don’t marry.

Meanwhile you guys are the one on NL crying 24/7. Leave marriage alone you won’t. Stay single you won’t. Stop complaining you won’t.

I’m tired for you

kokaneprodigy:

Me complain about woman? God forbid! Na women dey complain all over internet alongside a few simp. Real men don’t involve emotions in dating, u go in with logic and rationality. This doesn’t translate to maltreating your woman, I will never support that. But there can never be two captains in the cockpit.
A lady will be taken care of and pampered if she behaves like a lady, will be treated like a man if she behaves such, treated like shiît if she behaves like a LovePeddler. Period.