i dont see what is wrong about that, u can even sleep in the same bed , unless the girl ask for it

my guy e no easy o!!.but it can be don. i think it takes maturity of mind.

Impossicant.

there is no where in the world where it can happen. those wey talk say e dey possible and simply being hypocritical

Brother just because we're men, doesn't mean we shouldn't have scruples! I mean would you go ahead and force the girl into having sex just because u no fit hold body, even if it's against her will? Last time I checked, they called it RAPE.

You gotta hold body, that's the difference between you as an intelligent species and them primates. I rest my case.

i dont know bout dat tho but some ppl can it just depends on how much u can control urself

Unless the babe is not beautiful, otherwise it is easier said than done.

even if she aint beautiful it still aint easy

@topic

some guys are COMPULSIVE F*CK-AHOLICS, and just gotta have anything female, they do not stop to think or consider anything or anyone else, they will make a play for u as long as ur female

other guys are a bit more mature and their thinking is not ruled mainly by their d*cks, these guys have self control, and though it might be difficult, they are more than likely going to abstain and stay away from the temptation.

It will also depend on the girl. how much she flaunts it, and teases the guy and of the emotional connection btwn both of them

@ luxoire

thank God na we dey lay una no be una dey lay us,in dat sence its none of una biz if we decide 2 lay anything skirt.dats nature would either prefer not being layed cuz dats wat happens if we hold bodi! hahaha

It can be done over and over again. don't really know why people think guys

are sex maniac or are they? cos I KNOW i AM NOT.

No mind them my brother.
Wish every guy cld be like me.

na lie!!!!!!!!!!!
Hold wetin?

They will either blame it on
1. The Devil
2. Alcohol

But no guy can hold body in that kind of a situation.

how e wan take happen na? simple conditions for me to resist;

i leave the room (on her request) for her to dress up
she takes the bed, i take the floor or vice versa
she sleeps carefully (legs closed if it's a nite gown)
she's dirty
i see her periods with her
she's a lesbian
she locks the bathroom door whenever she's taking her bath.
we're enemies sharing the same bedroom.

outside these and some more i can't remember, it won't happen with me.

baby, you trust me now?!

well i think it is possible if you have a long term contract with the soap and water company, at least if the urge comes you can settle the dispute in the bathroom. guys una no agree?

lol @ cool kyle. No matter how much, sometimes it doesn't matter whether there is water or not.

it matters, if there is no water you want the poor guy to rip of his skin? but anyway there is also nothin that prayers cant solve, if the urge comes just koko say 15 decades of the rosary and believe me the temptation will flee.

that might lay it off but one day, the guy go stand up and throw away the rosary.

@topic
guys hold body? hhhmmmm

@j-girl i think that it can be done but the sucess rate is slim but if you really like the girl and be civilized you can determine what you do as a guy but if the gal seduce the guy na where trouble dey

@poster

why two of them dey live together in thefirst place?
dat one na inyanga dey sleep,trouble come wake am

if they are not related, they should not live togther, period!


hold body?
for how long?
when the guy is not castrated or gay!

its only possible if she is my great grand ma ,grandma ,mum, sister,my,brothers wife,my friends wife,my niegbours wife or my female relative, apart from that na fire and fuel, goat and yam, lion and gaot etc abi man pikin na firewood, unless she is always dirty,bleding just like a brother said

jesuspikin:

its only possible if she is my great grand ma ,grandma ,mum, sister,my,brothers wife,my friends wife,my niegbours wife or my female relative, apart from that na fire and fuel, goat and yam, lion and gaot etc abi man pikin na firewood, unless she is always dirty,bleding just like a brother said

I like this reply jare. Frank and sincere.

@Topic
Not in Africa! Not for any of our black blooded brodas! In one room? For how long?

Yes it is Possible
If the guy no get dkoko

MILITIA:

@Topic
Not in Africa! Not for any of our black blooded brodas! In one room? For how long?

sister you know wetin dey jare

well that is ok, thanks for all the opinion but i still think that it is possilble. keep the posts coming

it is possible, but very difficult. i'd rather not be in that kinda situ cos wat i cld do might shock even me

It depends on the kind of guy,
Self control matters alot
and if you are born again all those issues are under your feet.

Except she is a relative. After some time your psyche to resist start to crack. Just knee down every day and pray especially if she is a bait.

darqly and mellow are, indeed, right. Not every encounter of men and women does lead, or should lead, to sex.

What's really sad about this kind of thinking is that it seems that we males propagate it. I'll reiterate, at the risk of redundancy, that the head with the brain (not the head with the drain) is the one we think with. As long as we men make ourselves out to be uncontrolled (and uncontrollable) sex-at-all-cost maniacs, then we will not have the respect of women or the trust of each other.