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Should I Go On With The Marriage by Donny68844: 1:49am On Jun 30, 2020
This lady I'm planning on getting married to is a Christian. we got talking about sex and she says her body is hers alone.

I quoted 1st corinthians 7:4
Where the bible says your wife body is yours and your body hers.

Then she asked me this question,
"Ok, so do you think it's possible for a husband to rape his wife? I mean since the body is already his and vice versa too"

I replied
"The same bible says we should treat our wife's with respect and love her . Forcing yourself on your wife is not treating her with respect and love"

She sort of got angry and said I'm saying things that are off.
Should I proceed to marry a lady with this mentality

What do you think?
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage by Friedturkey: 1:51am On Jun 30, 2020
Lol, you go quote bible tire for that marriage.

Anyway, just know that you're dealing with a closet feminist that will show you her true colours after marriage. If you're cool with that (some guys are), then proceed accordingly

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Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage by SavageResponse(m): 4:13am On Jun 30, 2020
Donny68844:
This lady I'm planning on getting married to is a Christian. we got talking about sex and she says her body is hers alone.

I quoted 1st corinthians 7:4
Where the bible says your wife body is yours and your body hers.

Then she asked me this question,
"Ok, so do you think it's possible for a husband to rape his wife? I mean since the body is already his and vice versa too"

I replied
"The same bible says we should treat our wife's with respect and love her . Forcing yourself on your wife is not treating her with respect and love"

She sort of got angry and said I'm saying things that are off.
Should I proceed to marry a lady with this mentality

What do you think?

Do whatever pleases you
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage by Letalkme: 4:44am On Jun 30, 2020
Forget her.... She will never be submissive

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Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage by yomi007k(m): 4:46am On Jun 30, 2020
Letalkme:
Forget her.... She will never be submissive
True.

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Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage by DenreleDave(m): 4:56am On Jun 30, 2020
Donny68844:
This lady I'm planning on getting married to is a Christian. we got talking about sex and she says her body is hers alone.

I quoted 1st corinthians 7:4
Where the bible says your wife body is yours and your body hers.

Then she asked me this question,
"Ok, so do you think it's possible for a husband to rape his wife? I mean since the body is already his and vice versa too"

I replied
"The same bible says we should treat our wife's with respect and love her . Forcing yourself on your wife is not treating her with respect and love"

She sort of got angry and said I'm saying things that are off.
Should I proceed to marry a lady with this mentality

What do you think?

Are you a pastor??
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage by dingbang(m): 5:35am On Jun 30, 2020
grin
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage by HeavenlyCherub(f): 6:21am On Jun 30, 2020
Donny68844:
This lady I'm planning on getting married to is a Christian. we got talking about sex and she says her body is hers alone.

I quoted 1st corinthians 7:4
Where the bible says your wife body is yours and your body hers.

Then she asked me this question,
"Ok, so do you think it's possible for a husband to rape his wife? I mean since the body is already his and vice versa too"

I replied
"The same bible says we should treat our wife's with respect and love her . Forcing yourself on your wife is not treating her with respect and love"

She sort of got angry and said I'm saying things that are off.
Should I proceed to marry a lady with this mentality

What do you think?

If you can’t talk through something so small and agree to disagree. You both are not ready for marriage
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage by Nobody: 6:32am On Jun 30, 2020
Donny68844:
This lady I'm planning on getting married to is a Christian. we got talking about sex and she says her body is hers alone.

I quoted 1st corinthians 7:4
Where the bible says your wife body is yours and your body hers.

Then she asked me this question,
"Ok, so do you think it's possible for a husband to rape his wife? I mean since the body is already his and vice versa too"

I replied
"The same bible says we should treat our wife's with respect and love her . Forcing yourself on your wife is not treating her with respect and love"

She sort of got angry and said I'm saying things that are off.
Should I proceed to marry a lady with this mentality

What do you think?
so far so good all I see here is body body body ,is that all you are interested in
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage by Ningen(m): 6:40am On Jun 30, 2020
She wants to know your stance on marital rape.
And if you'd respect her autonomy as a wife.

So give her a clear answer of yes or no.
Communicate well. Stop being vague.

BTW, there's nothing wrong with her mentality.

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Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage by PureGoldh(m): 7:14am On Jun 30, 2020
Just enroll in a Bible School for proper coaching cos you go turn to pastor in ur house
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage by mechanics(m): 1:08am On Jul 01, 2020
Hmmmm, she's funny, you have seen the hand writing on the wall and you are still looking for advice, if you like go ahead, you are on your own.
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage by vikithor(m): 7:44am On Jul 01, 2020
[quote author=Friedturkey post=91217018]Lol, you go quote bible tire for that marriage.

Anyway, just know that you're dealing with a closet feminist that will show you her true colours after marriage. If you're cool with that (some guys are), then proceed accordingly
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Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage by Nobody: 8:07am On Jul 01, 2020
Donny68844:
This lady I'm planning on getting married to is a Christian. we got talking about sex and she says her body is hers alone.

I quoted 1st corinthians 7:4
Where the bible says your wife body is yours and your body hers.

Then she asked me this question,
"Ok, so do you think it's possible for a husband to rape his wife? I mean since the body is already his and vice versa too"

I replied
"The same bible says we should treat our wife's with respect and love her . Forcing yourself on your wife is not treating her with respect and love"

She sort of got angry and said I'm saying things that are off.
Should I proceed to marry a lady with this mentality

What do you think?
This is not the character of a Christian, she is a feminist. If you are a Christian yourself, then get on your kneels and ask God to direct your steps to your right wife.

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