Came across Dbanj's lawsuit against Seyitaans accusation of rape and i was moved to share my story. Tho am not concluding the verdict on if Seyitaan is accusing Dbanj wrongfully or not. I don't know, the court will decide but only God knows the truth!

Rape happens and i strongly codemn it but what about accusation of rape? Hmmm this one dey pain pass rape itself.

So me and this babe has been seeing for a while, i met her through her 'sister' (not blood related) who i had knew for over 2 years. She is a very good friend of mine (the sister) so she linked me up to this babe unpremeditately, i.e i didn't planned that we will meet that day. I just bumped into them and drove them to my apartment. They slept over, So we had sex that day and i paid her 10k and the relationship became a FWB (Friends with Benefits) exclusive!

She calls me randomnly to visit me and i do obliged, she even stays for days. I do enjoy her company and gist so i allow her. She is a very soft spoken girl with a giant, thick apperance and i do go out with her often as an escort, buys her gifts and got her a new phone. She do tell me a lot about her guy and often share her worries and fears over her relationships.
My relationship with her is exclusively FWB or runs girl relationship and the two of us were aware!! She knows i do see other gurls and she started to feel jealous; i do feel the disposition from her. She started acting slow and uniterested.

So one day i called her for our usual stuff and she came, but wasn't really in the mood, she is jealous because i do see other girls. She doesn't feel me any longer. Long story short, i talked her into sex after about 10 minutes, she was always ready and excited before. Infact na she dey call me for it even when i wasn't in the mood. So we had a consenting sex severall times that day.

Later that day, i received a call from her sister that her sister accused me of raping her!!! I was shocked to the marrows, i can't believe it and i nearly lost it so i brought my spirit to a low and invited the two of them tomorrow morning.
They came and her sister restricted her to the sitting room to discuss privately with me trying to avoid direct confrontation with her because it can go haywire any moment.
I was boiling but i fixed my self. I listened to her sister. In her words:

' i had known you for a very long time to understand you cannot condescend so low to this level, i actually interrogated my sister thoroughly througout the night afterwards, and got the truth out.
I asked her, did Arinze forced you? She said No, did Arinze dragged, pushed or touched you against your consent, she said No, did Arinze teared nor severed your dress, she said No too. Who removed your pants and dress she said she is the one'

!I felt embarrased and also a feel of relief simultaneously, i didn't know if to cry nor to laff but that marked the end of our relationship afterwards, and i didn't get any apology from her but she still showed up in my trad last year. When i reviewed the whole relationship, i realised she was gradually falling in love and got jealous because i was seeing plenty girls.

Women are unpredicted beings and can accuse men of rape and feels no remorse afterwards, my case really shocked me and i don't know if to believe the numerous rape case accusation going round the media. Guys, shine your eyes it can go messy in a jiffy!

You sef you too do....

Anyway your reward is with Buhari.

He will be shocked you achieved this great feat.

adolfHitler1934:
You sef you too do....

Anyway your reward is with Buhari.

He will be shocked you achieved this great feat.

wtf is wrong with making out with a consenting adult, are you okay? Or you just want to comment

That is why it is always good to have a back up message or evidence.

I hope you have printed several consent form by now Mr "I do see other girls"

There might not be an understanding sister who loves peace and truth next time o.
Try and have a serious relationship that will probably lead to marriage biko.
Some things ain't worth it.

"So one day i called her for our usual stuff and she came, but wasn't really in the mood, she is jealous because i do see other girls. She doesn't feel me any longer. Long story short, i talked her into sex after about 10 minutes, she was always ready and excited before. Infact na she dey call me for it even when i wasn't in the mood. So we had a consenting sex severall times that day."

If this was not problematic for you, I don't know what is

HIbreed:
wtf is wrong with making out with a consenting adult, are you okay? Or you just want to comment

Comment kee you there.

Can't you read and comprehend that I'm commending your achievements.....sleeping with your friend's sister.

That is why I said that Buhari will be shocked about this your achievement.

the best time to phuck her is now. tomorrow, she may not feel your vibe any longer.

their feelings changes with their emotion.

they use rape as a shield in order not to look cheap. that is why when you meet borehole there she tells you she was raped as a child. defense mechanism. it would not occur to you that she is a w.h.o.r.e.

adolfHitler1934:
Comment kee you there.

Can't you read and comprehend that I'm commending your achievements.....sleeping with your friend's sister.

That is why I said that Buhari will be shocked about this your achievement.

you are suffering from corona of the scrotum, can't you see i used ('') punctuation marks. They aren't really blood nor related sister, they came from the same village but tag themselves sisters. And thats how i refer to them. Ode

punisha:
I hope you have printed several consent form by now Mr "I do see other girls"

There might not be an understanding sister who loves peace and truth next time o.
Try and have a serious relationship that will probably lead to marriage biko.
Some things ain't worth it.

why can't i see other girls, is it a crime? And when she was busy hoeing from Abia to All the western states humping on different dick upandan where were you to advice her.

marriage, do you think everyone do buy the concept nowadays, carry your moral policing tools and gerrarahere.

Mynd44:


If this was not problematic for you, I don't know what is

I failed to read between the lines bro. Na me cause am

Op,
U will wear yourself out responding to every comment. My 2 cents

layzie:
Op,
U will wear yourself out responding to every comment. My 2 cents

thanks.

One should be careful with this FWB thingy

I was once accused of rape a long time ago by someone I refused to date and haven’t as much as kissed let alone had s3x with...it was infuriating. Let’s leave that for another day

Since my experience, I make sure I always have conversational proof...I don’t do pictures because someone can bring it up one day claiming we dated...just 2 days ago one of my Hausa FWB was taking pictures at my place and I could tell she was trying to get me in the picture. Lol, I just went to my kitchen pretending I was drinking juice from the fridge until she was done.

Back to my point, the last FWB I initiated wanted to turn the whole stuff into dating, she’s not the first to try...like seriously? The s3x was great though and she’s homely too but I held my ground because I had explicitly told her that it was just FWB besides she has a BF.

Note, this girl tracked me for weeks, making sure she turned up at spots I usually hung out. After about 3 weeks or so of hanging out together with my friends and I. One night I asked her if she wanted me to drop her off at her place or if she’d go home with me. She said anyone, in my thoughts I was like okay. Well I took her home that day, we both showered and then while we sat at the bed before having s3x she asked me “if I had a girl friend”, I said NO because I didn’t have one at that time but also told her I wasn’t searching for one either, which were the truth. In turn I asked her if she had a boy friend, she affirmed to having one. Unknown to her this conversation was being recorded...well we had s3x that day, great s3x by the way.

After that day several other times too, she’d come spend time at my place, sometimes she stays for days. I treat everyone of my FWB same, one can say almost as if to say she’s the only woman in my life. Well the girl started catching feelings and then one day another girl whom I was considering having a serious relationship with called and just because she was with my phones she picked the call seeing I wasn’t close by. I was infuriated when the other girl told me a lady picked my call...

I gave her stern warning after that because she went searching through my phone another time, asking me who that particular girl was. WTF?...this is coming from someone I have never searched through her phone or in any way restrict from answering calls from different guys when she’s at my place. Well I reminded her that before we both had s3x that we had defined what he have and if she wasn’t comfortable with that anymore we should stop seeing each other, she refused. I cut ties with her January but she buzzes me a times even after seeing me with the lady whom by the way I’m putting in my best to see if I can maintain a serious relationship with. This very FWB has been calling for weeks now, she even called last night telling me she misses me but I down played the conversation because I’m scared she has sinister intentions.

Please try as much as possible to always have evidence that will exonerate you just Incase another girl decides to accuse you...it could be WhatsApp chats or calls indicating the s3x was consensual and she also had a great time...I usually just check up on them when they leave my place to be sure they got home safe as well as to talk about how awesome the s3x was...which they’ll admit to. Also try as much as possible to not be the one to invite them over...let them be the one to say they want to see you.

adolfHitler1934:
You sef you too do....

Anyway your reward is with Buhari.

He will be shocked you achieved this great feat.

Lmaooo