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Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Nobody: 7:58am On Jul 05, 2020
Am here to learn. Please back your points, with biblical verses. Graceful sunday you all.
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by EmekaBlue(m): 8:00am On Jul 05, 2020
All I know is GOD blessed great men those days with more wives and children. I don't who changed d law...meanwhile God is d same yesterday, today and forever

I no fit quote bible..i no go bible class

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Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Nobody: 8:52am On Jul 05, 2020
EmekaBlue:
All I know is GOD blessed great men those days with more wives and children. I don't who changed d law...meanwhile God is d same yesterday, today and forever

I no fit quote bible..i no go bible class

Lolol.

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Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by LordReed(m): 12:05pm On Jul 05, 2020
It does not but in the new testament it recommends monogamy for those who wish to be Church officials like deacons and bishops.

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Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Emusan(m): 2:05pm On Jul 05, 2020
LordReed:
It does not but in the new testament it recommends monogamy for those who wish to be Church officials like deacons and bishops.

Not only Church officials but ALL believers in Christ!
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Mariaodiba: 2:41pm On Jul 05, 2020
Emusan:


Not only Church officials but ALL believers in Christ!

Biblical prove pls.

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Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Janosky: 3:43pm On Jul 05, 2020
LordReed:
It does not but in the new testament it recommends monogamy for those who wish to be Church officials like deacons and bishops.

1 Corinthians 7:1-2.
Matthew 19:3-6.

Jesus and Paul says monogamy is the God approved standard.
Polygamy is strictly the invention of men to circumvent God's standards.

Hebrews 13:4. 2 Thess1:7-9, Only faithful obedience can save you from God's impending wrath.

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Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Emusan(m): 4:22pm On Jul 05, 2020
Mariaodiba:

Biblical prove pls.
Matt 19:4
Titus 1:6
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by LordReed(m): 4:40pm On Jul 05, 2020
Emusan:


Not only Church officials but ALL believers in Christ!

Show me where it was recommended to all believers in Christ.

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Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by LordReed(m): 4:42pm On Jul 05, 2020
Janosky:


1 Corinthians 7:1-2.
Matthew 19:3-6.

Jesus and Paul says monogamy is the God approved standard.
Polygamy is strictly the invention of men to circumvent God's standards.


The text you quoted does not say polygamy is prohibited nor does it even specifically recommend monogamy.
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Emusan(m): 4:50pm On Jul 05, 2020
LordReed:

Show me where it was recommended to all believers in Christ.
I did that above, check it!
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by LordReed(m): 4:52pm On Jul 05, 2020
Emusan:


I did that above, check it!

Those are not recommendations to all believers for monogamy. You should read them again yourself.
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Emusan(m): 4:57pm On Jul 05, 2020
LordReed:


Those are not recommendations to all believers for monogamy. You should read them again yourself.

I'll say you should read it again and again.....

So who are the ones the recommendations meant for?
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by LordReed(m): 5:01pm On Jul 05, 2020
Emusan:


I'll say you should read it again and again.....

So who are the ones the recommendations meant for?

There was no recommendation in the Matthew passage you quoted and the recommendation in Titus was for those who wanted to be church elders. You really should read what you are quoting.

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Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Emusan(m): 5:19pm On Jul 05, 2020
LordReed:


There was no recommendation in the Matthew passage you quoted and the recommendation in Titus was for those who wanted to be church elders. You really should read what you are quoting.

First the discussion that Christ addressed was about POLYGAMY and the Title of this thread is "Does the Bible really condemn Polygamy marriage?" which Christ actually did.

Titus 1:6 was for everyone while 7 is for elders
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by LordReed(m): 5:24pm On Jul 05, 2020
Emusan:


First the discussion that Christ addressed was about POLYGAMY and the Title of this thread is "Does the Bible really condemn Polygamy marriage?" which Christ actually did.

Titus 1:6 was for everyone while 7 is for elders

No the passage was talking about divorce.

Titus 1:6 New International Version (NIV)

6 An elder must be blameless, faithful to his wife, a man whose children believe[a] and are not open to the charge of being wild and disobedient.

Oga read your bible na.

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Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Emusan(m): 5:31pm On Jul 05, 2020
LordReed:


No the passage was talking about divorce.

Titus 1:6 New International Version (NIV)

6 An elder must be blameless, faithful to his wife, a man whose children believe[a] and are not open to the charge of being wild and disobedient.

Oga read your bible na.

The passage is about divorce that gives room for polygamy...



6. if any man is blameless, the husband of one wife, having children that believe, who are not accused of riot or unruly. ASV

Oga Atheist read your Bible very well.
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by LordReed(m): 5:41pm On Jul 05, 2020
Emusan:


The passage is about divorce that gives room for polygamy...



6. if any man is blameless, the husband of one wife, having children that believe, who are not accused of riot or unruly. ASV

Oga Atheist read your Bible very well.

Tomorrow you will be the one to shout someone is quoting out of context.

Titus 1 (ASV)
5 For this cause left I thee in Crete, that thou shouldest set in order the things that were wanting, and appoint elders in every city, as I gave thee charge; 6 if any man is blameless, the husband of one wife, having children that believe, who are not accused of riot or unruly. 7 For the [e]bishop must be blameless, as God’s steward; not self-willed, not soon angry, [f]no brawler, no striker, not greedy of filthy lucre; 8 but given to hospitality, a lover of good, sober-minded, just, holy, self-controlled; 9 holding to the faithful word which is according to the teaching, that he may be able both to exhort in the [g]sound [h]doctrine, and to convict the gainsayers.

Very clear it was about elders but trust you to twist it to fit whatever narrative you want. LoLz.

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Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Emusan(m): 6:12pm On Jul 05, 2020
LordReed:


Tomorrow you will be the one to shout someone is quoting out of context.

Titus 1 (ASV)
5 For this cause left I thee in Crete, that thou shouldest set in order the things that were wanting, and appoint elders in every city, as I gave thee charge; 6 if any man is blameless, the husband of one wife, having children that believe, who are not accused of riot or unruly. 7 For the [e]bishop must be blameless, as God’s steward; not self-willed, not soon angry, [f]no brawler, no striker, not greedy of filthy lucre; 8 but given to hospitality, a lover of good, sober-minded, just, holy, self-controlled; 9 holding to the faithful word which is according to the teaching, that he may be able both to exhort in the [g]sound [h]doctrine, and to convict the gainsayers.

Very clear it was about elders but trust you to twist it to fit whatever narrative you want. LoLz.

When you even quoted the chapter from verse 5 and you couldn't get it.

Nobody is cherry picking anything...

Verse 6 clearly says "If ANY MAN.... or you didn't see that from where you quoted

This is an indication that everyone expected to be blameless, husband of one wife....

Maybe you can say it's only elders that are expected to be BLAMELESS and other believers are not to be blameless.
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by LordReed(m): 6:19pm On Jul 05, 2020
Emusan:


When you even quoted the chapter from verse 5 and you couldn't get it.

Nobody is cherry picking anything...

Verse 6 clearly says "If ANY MAN.... or you didn't see that from where you quoted

This is an indication that everyone expected to be blameless, husband of one wife....

Maybe you can say it's only elders that are expected to be BLAMELESS and other believers are not to be blameless.

So if Buhari says I want to choose a minister, if any man has a PhD in Business Administration I will choose him, he is asking everybody to go and get a PhD? Or is he listing the qualifications for the post?

Anyway I am done with you. I always hands off when people start attempting scriptural wrangling, its not my business how you choose to interpret your bible. I will simply state what is written, you can interpret it any how you like.
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Emusan(m): 6:40pm On Jul 05, 2020
LordReed:


So if Buhari says I want to choose a minister, if any man has a PhD in Business Administration I will choose him, he is asking everybody to go and get a PhD? Or is he listing the qualifications for the post?

This isn't about qualification for a selected position but what are expected from ALL BELIEVERS

Are believers to be:
1. Blameless?
2. Not having faithful children?
3. Very selfwilled?
4. Quick to get angry?
5. Given to much wine?
6. Be striker?
7. Given to filthy lucre?

These are what mentioned in that verse, so if believers are not to engage in any of these, why do you think HAVING ONE WIFE isn't applied to them?


Anyway I am done with you. I always hands off when people start attempting scriptural wrangling, its not my business how you choose to interpret your bible. I will simply state what is written, you can interpret it any how you like.

So you know this before but you're just jumping around like kangaroo....
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by LordReed(m): 7:15pm On Jul 05, 2020
Emusan:


So you know this before but you're just jumping around like kangaroo....

I thought I was responding to a reasonable person.
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Nobody: 8:12pm On Jul 05, 2020
The law never permitted polygamy from inception.
All those who lived before the law tried to stick to one woman but circumstances surrounding them forced them into having two women.
Abraham never intended having two wives neither Jacob.
So when God gave the Israelites the law it was clearly stated that they mustn't multiply wives {Deuteronomy 17:17} nor get a rival for their wives {Leviticus 18:18} but since they were permitted to give her a certificate of divorce and send her away {Deuteronomy 24:1} the women began allowing their husbands to marry younger women without challenging them so as not to be sent packing {Malachi 2:13-16} all these are like unresolved cases until the coming of the Messiah (Christ).
Moses has told them that all the laws he gave them will continue to guide them until the Christ comes, and that's the person who will teach them how to get to Paradise! Deuteronomy 18:15-19
That's why when they began sensing that Jesus could be the Christ, they raised the question regarding the evil divorce papers they used in threatening their wives to accept polygamy {Matthew 19:3-6} so they questioned Christ Jesus "if we're not permitted to divorce our wives, why then did Moses asked us to issue her a certificate of divorce?"

Then Christ Jesus explained that in the beginning (Garden of Eden or Paradise) God made just one woman for a man and both became one flesh. Jesus is hereby telling them that whoever wants to enter God's Kingdom, must accept monogamy or forget about entering God's kingdom, since adulterers will not enter! Matthew 19:7-9

So in the Christian congregation, Paul urged those taking the lead to make sure that the example is set for whoever wants to become a Christian to follow that arrangement {1Timothy 3:2; Titus 1:6} most Jews back then were used to the old idea but now they have to put on the new personality if they're going to enter God's Kingdom! Ephesians 4:24; Colossians 3:10

God bless you! smiley
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Kobojunkie: 8:17pm On Jul 05, 2020
EdEdEddy:
Am here to learn.
Please back your points, with biblical verses.
Graceful sunday you all.
I like to apply the "Do unto others as you would like for them to do to you" command when it comes with my dealings with my fellow men.

If you would not like to be the +1 in the relationship, then you ought not to do it to your other half. If you cannot see yourself being a second or other in your marriage, why make your wife or any other be just that?
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by orunto27: 8:18pm On Jul 05, 2020
LordReed:
It does not but in the new testament it recommends monogamy for those who wish to be Church officials like deacons and bishops.
.


Quote your source.
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by LordReed(m): 8:26pm On Jul 05, 2020
orunto27:
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Quote your source.

LordReed:


Titus 1:6 New International Version (NIV)

6 An elder must be blameless, faithful to his wife, a man whose children believe[a] and are not open to the charge of being wild and disobedient.

Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Mariaodiba: 9:30pm On Jul 06, 2020
Emusan:


Matt 19:4

Titus 1:6

The first was the response on why divorce is unacceptable as a Christian not a directive that a man should have only one wife.

The second refers to elders....Are we all elders?? Or are we all going to be elders??

The only reason to me is to avoid the challenges that Apst. Paul outlined for leaders on marriage.
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Mariaodiba: 9:39pm On Jul 06, 2020
Maximus69:
The law never permitted polygamy from inception.
All those who lived before the law tried to stick to one woman but circumstances surrounding them forced them into having two women.
Abraham never intended having two wives neither Jacob.
So when God gave the Israelites the law it was clearly stated that they mustn't multiply wives {Deuteronomy 17:17} nor get a rival for their wives {Leviticus 18:18} but since they were permitted to give her a certificate of divorce and send her away {Deuteronomy 24:1} the women began allowing their husbands to marry younger women without challenging them so as not to be sent packing {Malachi 2:13-16} all these are like unresolved cases until the coming of the Messiah (Christ).
Moses has told them that all the laws he gave them will continue to guide them until the Christ comes, and that's the person who will teach them how to get to Paradise! Deuteronomy 18:15-19
That's why when they began sensing that Jesus could be the Christ, they raised the question regarding the evil divorce papers they used in threatening their wives to accept polygamy {Matthew 19:3-6} so they questioned Christ Jesus "if we're not permitted to divorce our wives, why then did Moses asked us to issue her a certificate of divorce?"

Then Christ Jesus explained that in the beginning (Garden of Eden or Paradise) God made just one woman for a man and both became one flesh. Jesus is hereby telling them that whoever wants to enter God's Kingdom, must accept monogamy or forget about entering God's kingdom, since adulterers will not enter! Matthew 19:7-9

So in the Christian congregation, Paul urged those taking the lead to make sure that the example is set for whoever wants to become a Christian to follow that arrangement {1Timothy 3:2; Titus 1:6} most Jews back then were used to the old idea but now they have to put on the new personality if they're going to enter God's Kingdom! Ephesians 4:24; Colossians 3:10

God bless you! smiley


Kai!!! You people should stop using a part of the bible alone. Kindly read from Deut 17:15 downwards and you would see he was referring to the time the children will have a King. It's a criteria for a King. Are we all Kings?? And how many kings of Israel adhered to it and where was it recorded that it was wrong??
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Nobody: 6:24am On Jul 07, 2020
Mariaodiba:


Kai!!! You people should stop using a part of the bible alone. Kindly read from Deut 17:15 downwards and you would see he was referring to the time the children will have a King. It's a criteria for a King. Are we all Kings?? And how many kings of Israel adhered to it and where was it recorded that it was wrong??

Thanks for bringing out that point Sir!

The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob promised that a leader would be born from the tribe of Judah and he will lead God's people to everlasting life. Genesis 49:10; Isaiah 11:10; Revelations 5:5
You yourself can see that the standard was set not for everyone but for the King and the one and only king God had in mind was Jesus of Nazareth, that's why Samuel was telling the Israelites "it's wrong to demand for a human king" 1Samuel 8:7-9
So the leader God had in mind was a Righteous one who will lead us to everlasting life not human kings who will treat us with contempt.
For your information Sir, kings are supposed to be leaders in keeping the law and it's whatever the one leading does that we ought to follow, of course Jesus never got married but he made it clear that everlasting life (Paradise) was originally designed for one man one wife! Matthew 19:4-6
That's why God's word made it clear saying "for God so love the world that he gave his only begotten son so that whosoever believe (trust) in his teachings will not perish but have everlasting life" John 3:16
Please if you claim to be a Christian, you must follow the leader who made it clear saying "in the beginning God made them one man and one wife" whoever derails from that setting is no more seeing Jesus as his leader (King)

God bless you! smiley
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Nobody: 6:41am On Jul 07, 2020
Kobojunkie:
I like to apply the "Do unto others as you would like for them to do to you" command when it comes with my dealings with my fellow men.

If you would not like to be the +1 in the relationship, then you ought not to do it to your other half. If you cannot see yourself being a second or other in your marriage, why make your wife or any other be just that?

This is the exact rule I apply. And it is the only direct reason that polygamy is not allowed in Christianity.
Re: Does The Bible Really Condemn Polygamy Marriage ? by Emusan(m): 11:22am On Jul 07, 2020
Mariaodiba:
The first was the response on why divorce is unacceptable as a Christian not a directive that a man should have only one wife.

I've settled this before!

The second refers to elders....Are we all elders?? Or are we all going to be elders??

The only reason to me is to avoid the challenges that Apst. Paul outlined for leaders on marriage.

This was my reply to that which you raised again!

This isn't about qualification for a selected position but what are expected from ALL BELIEVERS

Are believers expected to be:

1. Blameless?
2. Not having faithful children?
3. Very selfwilled?
4. Quick to get angry?
5. Given to much wine?
6. Be striker?
7. Given to filthy lucre?

Are these only meant for elders and not ALL BELIEVERS?

These are what mentioned in that verse, so if believers are not to engage in any of these, why do you think HAVING ONE WIFE isn't applied to them?

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