Nairalanders!!! please read till the end and contribute. I have a girlfriend whom I met while in school and we are in love with each other. I'm the shy type when it comes to having sex because I've never had one before. so before we start having sex, I demanded we know each others status which she fully obliged to. we did the test in a medical laboratory and we were both negative as this has given us assurance. After making love with each other twice, a month after I started feeling weird moving from one symptoms to another. so I googled my symptoms and Google suggested HIV. I told myself it can't be true cos I have just one partner. I informed her about my condition and asked if she feels the same way but 'no' is the answer. After few weeks I started feeling better. Three months after, the earlier symptoms started reoccurring. so this time I forced and pleaded with her to go for the test in a government hospital of which she did confidently and the result still remain negative. After d last test she has done three test again in three months and the result still remain negative. I dd mine too and it was negative. what is baffling me is that while I keep experiencing this symptoms, she never experienced any of them. And while I'm at my lows worried about my health, she is at her high going on with her business and daily activities. A lot of questions begging for answers keeps popping in my head.
Is knowing each others status isn't enough?

kayabd:
Nairalanders!!! please read till the end and contribute. I have a girlfriend whom I met while in school and we are in love with each other. I'm the shy type when it comes to having sex because I've never had one before. so before we start having sex, I demanded we know each others status which she fully obliged to. we did the test in a medical laboratory and we were both negative as this has given us assurance. After making love with each other twice, a month after I started feeling weird moving from one symptoms to another. so I googled my symptoms and Google suggested HIV. I told myself it can't be true cos I have just one partner. I informed her about my condition and asked if she feels the same way but 'no' is the answer. After few weeks I started feeling better. Three months after, the earlier symptoms started reoccurring. so this time I forced and pleaded with her to go for the test in a government hospital of which she did confidently and the result still remain negative. After d last test she has done three test again in three months and the result still remain negative. I dd mine too and it was negative. what is baffling me is that while I keep experiencing this symptoms, she never experienced any of them. And while I'm at my lows worried about my health, she is at her high going on with her business and daily activities. A lot of questions begging for answers keeps popping in my head.
Is knowing each others status isn't enough?

My

Bros, go to the hospital for you condition to be properly diagnosed.
HIV is not the only disease out there.

By the way, what symptoms are you having? Saying you're having symptoms is not enough.

timid101:
By the way, what symptoms are you having? Saying you're having symptoms is not enough.

I had fever, indigestion, loose stool, white patches on the tongue which has cleared. but currently I'm having small swellings on my neck and I also feel like I'm loosing weight.