Please o,nairalanders. I have this freind that works with one of these big banks in Nigeria and she poses a lot.The problem is that she really, desperately wants to get married soon cos age dey go down but there is no BOBO in her life now,i guess its because of her over-shakara.Recently a neighbour of hers proposed marriage to her.The guy is doing averagely well.Now, my pose-pose friend has already given people in the neighbourhood the impresion that she hangs out with only 'BIG BOYS'.She is confused about what to do cos she knows people in  the neighbourhood will laugh at her saying 'after all the shakara, see who she married'.She asked my opinion so I decided to share with you guys.
Should she marry the neighbour or should she keep waiting for Mr hiding 'Right' ?

From what i see i think "Mr RIGHT" has passed your friend a long time ago , so i guess she will have to settle for less .

she better accept her neighbour before he changes his mind, cos am sure the other neighbours will soon feed the new guy news about her. so tell her to act fast before time runs up.

[well the deed has been done, she should marry her neighbour if only she loves him or if she feels she can grow the love later, but if not she should not bother even dating him . as for his finacial status she should not give a damn about that, as far as he can at least cater for himself and her to an extent(but she should make sure he aint a gold digger and is not marrying her because he pities her). also she must stop her peacock attitude and be humble.thanks NO LONG THING

I personally feel she should listen to her mind o.

that's why ladies need to swallow their pride and be as humble as possible when searching,
if she thinks she can settle with the guy she should just go ahead
and forget whatever anybody has to say. she shouldnt send them o,

at worst, she has a good job, the guy too is comfortable, if they are not comfortable with staying their, they can just relocate and move to where people dont know them,
chikena!

so it's not really about the guy being her neighbour as much as it's his social standing?.
well its as easy as edatika just said.