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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by hammer8: 5:21pm On Jul 22, 2020
marriagebyigbo:


God sorry ooo u go dey aiit ooo


IF IGBO MAN KILL HIS WIFE, HOW E TAKE CONCERN U AS A YORUBA MAN?

DONT YORUBA MEN KILL THEIR WIVES?

U ARE OBSESSED AND IT IS PISSING US OFF.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by naptu2: 5:22pm On Jul 22, 2020
saajus:
How many times will this be clarified. The guy that acted this and his wife came out several times to tell people not use their videos to propagate fake news

patani:


This whole thing was an acted script by a guy called @jidensky and his wife @mrs_jidensky on Instagram...stop propagating lies


blank:
Let's stop pushing this false narrative.

1. The David Ochola story is a Kenyan story that happened in Germany (allegedly). Story might be totally made up as I can't see a single news source with the actual crime. Every single story in this write up was lifted from this Kenyan blog with some of the names changed. Please understand that plagiarism is illegal. See a link to the 2014 story. https://mkenyaujerumani.de/2014/02/12/of-diasporan-men-who-import-wives-from-villages-in-africa/

2. The people who did a skit or small drama with the 911 call have come out to say that it wasn't a real call but they were trying to build awareness of what they feel is happening in the US. I am yet to uncover this so called true life story of Azuibuike and his wife.

Every year, this same topic will come out on Nairaland and be pushed to the front page. It's annoying really.

This is not a news story! Or can't you see the word reenactment clearly written at the top of the post?? Don't you know what renactment means??

Regarding the second post, you can clearly see that the author wrote this.


[Author’s note: Although these are true stories, all the names and some of the details of the incidents have been altered as a mark of respect to the families involved. All of the killer husbands noted in these stories were found guilty. Most of them received the death sentence. Only the California and Maryland culprits received life sentences without the possibility of parole.]

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by patani(m): 5:22pm On Jul 22, 2020
naptu2:


https://m.facebook.com/notes/jadesola-tai-babatola/an-epidemic-nigerian-men-killing-their-nurse-wives-in-the-us-by-abiodun-ladepo/667141363328281

This whole thing was an acted script by a guy called @jidensky and his wife @mrs_jidensky on Instagram...stop propagating lies

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Nobody: 5:23pm On Jul 22, 2020
plessis:


Even black american men are now going for Asian women.

Black women are losing it.
Because they are still well-mannered, respectful and values traditions etc.

During the pandemic, I was on Instagram and this beautiful black American chic was just cussing with her nasty tats. I was wondering "shebi na man go marry dis one?"

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by 12inchess: 5:23pm On Jul 22, 2020
Well I live in the U. S and I understand this situation very well. You should see a common trend among all these cases. The husband has invested so much in not only bringing the wife here (flights, visas, exams, accommodation etc) but also paying for her school etc. Nursing school is minimum of two years and runs into tens of thousands of dollars. That is years of slaving to invest in someone's education and the benefit of the family while doing your taxi driver job or security guard job only for the person to change it up and start misbehaving once they believe they have arrived or have obtained their degree and are now well placed. You will never hear these women misbehaving while they are still in nursing school oooo and because they couldn't afford it ordinarily but only after! Schooling here is not cheap. Or how will you feel if you are the person that payed a so called wife's flight ticket then housed her for years paid all her bills up to the last penny. Even went ahead to pay her schooling, money for extra lessons etc. Only for her to graduate and then try to take your house and your property because she is learning the "abroad way" from her so called good for nothing "feminist liberated" friends. Not to consider the emotional trauma. It's enuff to shoot that person in the head. People are killed for way much less on the streets. An American husband will never pay for anything talk less of school tuition. He will tell u to go take a loan. The least the lady in question should do is pay back all the money spent on her and her schooling with interest if she is planning to leave. Now to go ahead and be trying to take over that person's property? We all know how the law is in the west under situations like this. I'm sorry to say it and I wouldn't ever support murder but the reason that these women are killed is very evident.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by blank(f): 5:23pm On Jul 22, 2020
Let's stop pushing this false narrative.

1. The David Ochola story is a Kenyan story that happened in Germany (allegedly). Story might be totally made up as I can't see a single news source with the actual crime. Every single story in this write up was lifted from this Kenyan blog with some of the names changed. Please understand that plagiarism is illegal. See a link to the 2014 story. https://mkenyaujerumani.de/2014/02/12/of-diasporan-men-who-import-wives-from-villages-in-africa/

2. The people who did a skit or small drama with the 911 call have come out to say that it wasn't a real call but they were trying to build awareness of what they feel is happening in the US.
"At this time, details about who the real people the Azubuike Ohuabunwa shooting is based on are not known. It is not known what later happened to the real Azubuike Ohuabuna or his wife, Chiamaka Ohuabuna.

Jidensky shared the video, which is based on a true life story, on his Instagram page back in 2018 and it is trending on social media today.

Jidensky re-enacted the video. It is his voice you’ll hear as Azubuike Ohuabuna in the video below. Zoe’s mum played the 911 operator. "
I am yet to uncover this so called true life story of Azuibuike and his wife.

Every year, this same topic will come out on Nairaland and be pushed to the front page. It's annoying really.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Dalil8: 5:24pm On Jul 22, 2020
Hintona:



Not only have their hands been tied their mouths have been gagged and they are blindfolded, I mean I watch and see how most Nigerian men treat their women my parents included and I've concluded that's not what I want for myself even my enemies sef..



Explain further pls...?

Cuz both Men and Women in Nigeria enjoy the same privileges.


My dear if you like go to America with the typical Nigerian woman mentality that the law will favor you, you're on your own.

Matter of fact, the law is on everyone's side.

And FYI there are tens of millions of women in jail in that same America, and there are also women who have their kids taken away from them, so don't go there thinking you're above the law, okay?

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Tunde835(m): 5:24pm On Jul 22, 2020
marriagebyigbo:


That yoruba man was influenced by his igbo frnds
Dis is just ridiculous I'm a Yoruba person but dat doesn't mean dat I support bigotry can't u at least focus on d information being passed on in d article and stop ethnic insults this is just nonsense and immature

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by FuckDaMods: 5:25pm On Jul 22, 2020
GboyegaD:


Does it matter? This is what I tell friends who stylishly convince their wives to go study nursing cos of whatever future gains. Allow her live her life and make her choices and that way, both parties are happy. You lure her into nursing, she makes the dough and you want to Lord over it, why?

I met a man in Columbus, OH who was advising against bringing one's wife abroad all because the wife no longer respects him. He sits at home claiming he is into auto exporting and barely sells four cars a year and yet, wants to Lord over the wife's earnings. That is highly unfair.

I know couples who make good cash and you don't see this frustrations. You know why, the husband is as hardworking as the wife as such, there is mutual respect.

The key remains that the man should work harder and not think he is going to reap ROI for sending his wife to study nursing. Our women should also know that money isn't the end of the world.
If the woman isn't happy with the man's way why can't she just move on without taking full advantage of the American system? what does she need the house and half his property for? she is already richer according to your logic. If not because she just want to make man miserable, i mean she knows where she and the man came from...
They are just simply heartless and that's it!

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Nobody: 5:25pm On Jul 22, 2020
magicminister:
What a bunch of cry baby looser!
One thing these men have in common is that they are underachievers seeking to live off a woman!
They have been in US for decades but did not attempt to advance themselves beyond blue collar and hourly low paying jobs.
Then when their smart wife from Nigeria advances herself and stabilizes, they begin to envy her because she is not letting him control her finances.
I am not supporting laziness of the men, but you forgot these men brought these wives to the US and sponsored their nursing carrers, if they didn't bring them to the US they would still be in nigeria hoeing or something.

Anyway, who in their right mind would go to nigeria marry wife and bring to the US?

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by ednut1(m): 5:25pm On Jul 22, 2020
Over here in canada too some women are dealing with their husbands. But he no reach to kill

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Dalby(m): 5:26pm On Jul 22, 2020
The moral of the story is don't take your wife to the US to stay. If you do never sponsor her to become a registered nurse.
Registered nurses are a cult and can quickly get your wife to become someone or something else...
cry cry cry

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by AfroKnight: 5:26pm On Jul 22, 2020
One common denominator. The wives were brought to the US by their husbands and sponsored through nursing school by the same husbands and they all took advantage of the family laws in the US which unjustly favours women.


Being a manly man in the US is a lose lose situation. You either lose your life by going to jail or you lose your home and property to a woman you brought to the US.

If you are crazy enough to kill, then RIP to the wife who takes advantage and takes away all you worked for. You would go to jail for life though.

As much as the blame rests on the murderous husbands, an equal blame rests on the scheming women who cheat the men of all they suffered for decades to gather.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by stagger: 5:26pm On Jul 22, 2020
Oh men. I just lost my appetite for this semo with okro soup I am eating.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by 12fb: 5:26pm On Jul 22, 2020
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by pocohantas(f): 5:26pm On Jul 22, 2020
J111333:
Chai I listened to the 911 call sometime ago and I was deeply moved.
Killing the woman was extreme and I can only judge the man about the killing but not about what went wrong in their marriage.
Abroad marriage is a topic to discuss on another day.

More reason I like my Nigeria, before someone’s son bludgeons me to death. grin

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by hammer8: 5:27pm On Jul 22, 2020
blank:
Let's stop pushing this false narrative.

1. The David Ochola story is a Kenyan story that happened in Germany (allegedly).
Story might be totally made up as I can't see a single news source with the actual crime. Every single story in this write up was lifted from this Kenyan blog with some of the names changed. Please understand that plagiarism is illegal. See a link to the 2014 story. https://mkenyaujerumani.de/2014/02/12/of-diasporan-men-who-import-wives-from-villages-in-africa/

2. The people who did a skit or small drama with the 911 call have come out to say that it wasn't a real call but they were trying to build awareness of what they feel is happening in the US. I am yet to uncover this so called true life story of Azuibuike and his wife.

Every year, this same topic will come out on Nairaland and be pushed to the front page. It's annoying really.

YORUBA IN MEDIA WILL NEVER STOP FALSE NARRATIVE.

THAT IS Y THEY HIJACK NIGERIA MEDIA SPACE, TO LAUNCH TRIBAL ATTACKS.


THEIR FAVORITE PEOPLE ARE IGBOS.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Perewenkle1: 5:28pm On Jul 22, 2020
I live in Los Angeles, many of our wives are medical doctors, nurses or work in health care places. Some make much more than their husband, so what. When there is love and no greed, couples work as a team.
Why would you kill your wife because she makes more money, share the responsibilities, give some to her and keep some, never worry about her bank account, so long as she does what she is supposed to do. On many occasions, she my wife has withdrawn her money and given to me for projects we are doing. My wife is a nurse, I make three times or more what she makes, I carry the bulk of the bills, the mortgages, cars, insurances and few household bills plus my credit card payments, she takes care of the food, cell phones, (she pays for our children cell phones) and other house utilities and her own bills. Note that no marriage is perfect, it’s worst when influenced by outsiders.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by plessis: 5:29pm On Jul 22, 2020
12inchess:
Well I live in the U. S and I understand this situation very well. You should see a common trend among all these cases. The husband has invested so much in not only bringing the wife here (flights, visas, exams, accommodation etc) but also paying for her school etc. Nursing school is minimum of two years. And runs into tens of thousands of dollars. That is years of slaving to invest in someone's education and the benefit of the family while doing your taxi driver job or security guard job only for the person to change it up and start misbehaving once they believe they have arrived or have obtained their degree and are now well placed. You will never hear these women misbehaving while they are still in nursing school oooo and because they couldn't afford it ordinarily but only after! Schooling here is not cheap. Or how will you feel if you are the person that payed a so called wife's flight ticket then housed her for years paid all her bills up to the last penny. Even went ahead to pay her schooling, money for extra lessons etc. Only for her to graduate and then try to take your house and your property because she is learning the "abroad way" from her so called good for nothing "feminist liberated" friends. Not to consider the emotional trauma. It's enuff to shoot that person in the head. People are killed for way for much less on the streets. An American husband will never pay for anything talk less of school tuition. He will tell u to go take a loan. The least the lady in question should do is pay back all the money spent on her and her schooling with interest if she is planning to leave. Now to go ahead and be trying to take over that person's property? We all know how the law is in the west under situations like this. I'm sorry to say it and I wouldn't ever support murder but the reason that this women are killed is very evident.

You are going too far.

Even in Nigeria, there are thousands of uneducated men who trained their women through the university and later got destroyed or disappointed.

This is a collective trait of the female gender.


Women are naturally ungrateful because that mountain you are willing to climb for a woman, there are tons of men in her inbox begging her to climb higher mountains for her.

To women, men are utilities to be disposed after use.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by God1stson(m): 5:30pm On Jul 22, 2020
marriagebyigbo:
Igbos and this kind thing sha...


Chai....
Stop being unreasonable by trying to narrow the narrative to one group.With this kind of mindset, u are not too far from d the actors in this sad story cos it starts from being unreasonable and having a parochial worldview.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by onlyinJESUS: 5:30pm On Jul 22, 2020
a house that is being headed by a woman while the husband is alive is cursed.

women aren't good at leading, they mess things up

and the men that murdered them wives, SHAME ON 'EM

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by tot(f): 5:30pm On Jul 22, 2020
blank:
Let's stop pushing this false narrative.

1. The David Ochola story is a Kenyan story that happened in Germany (allegedly). Story might be totally made up as I can't see a single news source with the actual crime. Every single story in this write up was lifted from this Kenyan blog with some of the names changed. Please understand that plagiarism is illegal. See a link to the 2014 story. https://mkenyaujerumani.de/2014/02/12/of-diasporan-men-who-import-wives-from-villages-in-africa/

2. The people who did a skit or small drama with the 911 call have come out to say that it wasn't a real call but they were trying to build awareness of what they feel is happening in the US. I am yet to uncover this so called true life story of Azuibuike and his wife.

Every year, this same topic will come out on Nairaland and be pushed to the front page. It's annoying really.

It's more than annoying.

What is the point of "re-enacting" (as the OP calls it) an incident that took place in 2014 and putting it on front page in 2020. I don't understand what the mods on this NL are doing honestly.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by AristocraticMe: 5:30pm On Jul 22, 2020
iyke926:

Guy, its not like those ones are saints but they are less evil and have more values.
Is anybody a saint in this world ? NO...... Brother nah to look for better person join you for this journey of life...... like you said LESSER evil and more value........ I was talking to someone from Africa and the person said why is Nigeria always involve in drug, scam and all sort of evil......... why ? i was dumbfounded..... all the people selling drugs and running prostitution in her country are Nigerians.......... at the end of the day Nigeria has a problem.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Joshforeal: 5:31pm On Jul 22, 2020
MuttleyLaff:
This is a peculiar "extreme emotional distress"

This peculiar crime of passion, appropriately is a crime committed out of passion of feeling, betrayed by a sexual partner in one form or the other, or thinking the partner is being disloyal, unfaithful, secretive, conspiratorial et cetera.

Crime of passion, of this sort, usually ends up with death(s), this because, aside the brain, the heart has been messed with up. I am sure you know why the wedding ring is put on or worn on the fourth finger on the left hand, that's counting from the right.
Please Sir I don't know why the ring is worn on that finger. Kindly enlighten me. Thanks
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by hammer8: 5:31pm On Jul 22, 2020
Perewenkle1:
I live in Los Angeles, many of our wives are medical doctors, nurses or work in health care places. Some make much more than their husband, so what. When there is love and no greed, couples work as a team.
Why would you kill your wife because she makes more money, share the responsibilities, give some to her and keep some, never worry about her bank account, so long as she does what she is supposed to do. On many occasions, she my wife has withdrawn her money and given to me for projects we are doing. My wife is a nurse, I make three times or more what she makes, I carry the bulk of the bills, the mortgages, cars, insurances and few household bills plus my credit card payments, she takes care of the food, cell phones, (she pays for our children cell phones) and other house utilities and her own bills. Note that no marriage is perfect, it’s worst when influenced by outsiders.

YORUBA MAN WILL GET A LIST OF 3 IGBOS IN AMERICA.

ADD ONE KENYANS WITH IGBO SOUNDING NAME, ADD ONLY ONE YORUBA OUT OF 7.


THEN START WRITING BUT WE ALL KNOW ALL THAT EMOTIONAL WRITING IS WITH IGBO IN MIND.


YET WE HAVE MILLIONS OF IGBO IN AMERICA WITH THEIR WIVES AND FAMILIES, DOING WELL.


WE CALL THAT MEDIA TRIBAL WAR.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by blank(f): 5:31pm On Jul 22, 2020
naptu2:


This is not a news story! Or can't you see the word reenactment clearly written at the top of the post?? Don't you know what renactment means??

@Naptu, I respect you too much to go into a back and forth with you. Please read through my write up and see that the Abiodun Ladepo person is being disingenuous. His write up is full of half truths and totally made up stories. Half truths are worse than the outright lies because of the way it messes with people's minds.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by GalPissetzky: 5:31pm On Jul 22, 2020
reading how these men kill these useless gold digging bitches is so fullfilling. how can u bring a village brat to usa spend all ur money on her and when she become nurse, she go wan sue u and claim all u worked for. please keep killing them. them think say naija man na amercan or european. dont joke with us bitches. some of us wicked pass satan

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by GalPissetzky: 5:33pm On Jul 22, 2020
Palema007:
So typical.....

I haven't typed much and someone confirm it. Marry a Nigerian Man at your own peril ....
i can never marry a ngerian woman. if i do it then it means i am getting mad. cos na murder go end am. even in naija. the whites are killing the gold digging hoes anyhow. here in france, they kill them like water . naija hoes are the worst animals to find yourself with

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by brownemmanuel43(m): 5:33pm On Jul 22, 2020
I feel the man's anger and frustration. I know of a relative that's suffering the same thing now. His only saviour was that when he started noticing the change in the wife's attitude, baba started planning to enter another country from USA.
Women are terrible set of species

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by naptu2: 5:33pm On Jul 22, 2020
blank:


@Naptu, I respect you too much to go into a back and forth with you. Please read through my write up and see that the Abiodun Ladepo person is being disingenuous. His write up is full of half truths and totally made up stories. Half truths are worse than the outright lies because of the way it messes with people's minds.


Regarding the second post, you can clearly see that the author wrote this.


[Author’s note: Although these are true stories, all the names and some of the details of the incidents have been altered as a mark of respect to the families involved. All of the killer husbands noted in these stories were found guilty. Most of them received the death sentence. Only the California and Maryland culprits received life sentences without the possibility of parole.]

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by planetx: 5:33pm On Jul 22, 2020
Stay in your country and be the man now, who forced you to go to oyinbo country. Take a look at the black American community and see how they have totally destroyed their family structure. All this is planned by the elites so that women will work and pay taxes to the state instead of just men and the state can indoctrinate the children from an early age easily due to women working all the time in the West and also as a form of population control, nothing happens by chance.

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