Heathrow44:




Chop which coconut Mr. Man, isn't she also eating d coconut or is it only him that is enjoying it, whose the one raising her legs to the ceiling convulsing like a silly hoe and screaming like a parrot!!! Is obvious u re a pussy man oya I hope u gave ur gf ur ATM card pins cos is not only on Whatsapp that u open ur privacy for her, open ur ATM pin for her and let her av it okay! Bye bye!

Chai... E pain am.

See buoda

nelklyn:
Lol...your own na play “GF”. A FWB did that to me sometime last year while I was asleep...She did not stop with WhatsApp status she also shared it on my fb story with all the whole my love captions.

Back then I was using an old android phone which I refused to change cos I’m of the opinion that the phone I use shouldn’t define me. Well the phone didn’t have a fingerprint sensor and I didn’t like the idea of having to type in a password or pin every time I needed to use my phone so I left it unlocked.

It was a friend of mine that sent me a message on WhatsApp “Na she?”...When I opened the message I was confused It wasn’t funny back then... I felt like slapping the girl up from sleep but then I was like “No Wahala”. I deleted the WhatsApp status and went back to sleep. In the morning I started getting fb notifications...omg! the notifications were from her pics on my fb story, I was like wtf!...you kidding right?

I immediately took down her pictures and had to put up a post on my timeline to serve as a disclaimer, stating that the pictures weren’t uploaded by me. Some of my friends on fb made jokes out of that incident.

No one advised me to get a new phone the next week...hence forth I locked my WhatsApp with fingerprint. She didn’t like that...

Note: I didn’t bother confronting her

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Enemyofpeace:
woman wrapper

man wrapper

McCoy662:
Bro there's status privacy settings on WhatsApp. The way I run my shit is change the privacy to only the babe and upload her pix even upload our intimacy pix. The funny part is that u can change the privacy as many times as you want and upload as many girls as you have. All will view theirs only.
Oya burst me recharge card if I saved ur arse

lol..i don use am whine gals tired...

skyhighweb:
man wrapper

e better pass woman wrapper

Jaybye:
I naturally wouldn't have replied but you asked for people's opinions.

Well, if that had happened to me, I won't even bother because while I was dating my then "babe" now wife, I had no skeleton whatsoever in my cupboard.
I don't even think she would have had any cause to do such since virtually everyone close to me knew her then.

My submission is she did that because she felt unsafe with and unsure of your commitment(s) to her. Probably because, you have never felt proud of having her for once by displaying her on any of your social media accounts or she's certain you have another babe or other babes around she needs to tell she's the main one.

And as someone said above, it's meant to be a relationship and not a secret cult! I don't blame her, it's in the nature of the typical female folks to be "territorial". You didn't assure her of her place with you, so she had to take "the laws into her own hands". Deep down within, you know better..

All the best!

Thank you for this! No sensible person will just pick another person's phone and upload his or her own pictures without reasons. The best is don't give them reasons to feel so insecure. If it happens, couples in love talk about it and not react on it.

Sometimes I wonder what Nigerians relationship is all about. Everyone is just talking about privacy lol... If you want to be so private, stay single Biko.

Na wa for you oo
You said "my girl Friend" "My phone" so the girl is yours, the phone is yours. why do you complain? is like saying my goat aet my yam. My advice is that you should allow small girl to go and become something better instead of deciving yourselves.

I888:
she is smart girl but if she is smarter, she should dump your asss and get another guy. U don't have any future plans for her or the relationship, hence your anger...

Respect man

SweetCunt97:
No genuine love anymore. Social media has made almost everyone dishonest and disloyal. So y exactly did u delete if you are clean?

Do you post your gf pictures on your status like that..? And caption it my love, my heart, my p****..?

YOU ARE VERY STUPID.

WHY DID YOU DELETE THEM?

COMMON SENSE SHOULD HAVE TOLD YOU WHAT YOU SHOULD HAVE DONE IS TO GO TO YOUR PRIVACY SETTINGS AND ENABLE THE STATUS TO BE SEEN BY ONLY HER, HER FRIENDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS.

SweetCunt97:
No genuine love anymore. Social media has made almost everyone dishonest and disloyal. So y exactly did u delete if you are clean?

thank you for this gurl.. men are scum..

pocohantas:


Show him/her for what? People are different. Love languages are different. He loves me and treats me well. Why do I need a 24hr WhatsApp update to validate/confirm this?




I will, but I doubt NL guys will.

This isn't about you but HIM. If showing him off makes him feel loved I will even if I'm a private person. You may not need WhatsApp update to validate/ confirm but like I typed it about him. So does he feel the same way?. Anyone who does what the lady did feels insecure, I believe for once we should stop this privacy thing and see from the other person's perspective.


Lol... I doubt that too.

She uploaded her own photos on your WhatsApp status, you are furious..

What if she uploaded your bank details and cash out from ur account, you will now faint abi... you don't have sense.. you are fucking her yet you don't want to be seen with her.. you are both immature..

Desperation everywhere

Did you get who is this question from any babe contact in your phone?

do same to her

Juliearth:




Have you ever being in a loveless relationship, where you are not even sure of your status, whether you are truly loved or being stringed along? I doubt, because if you were, you wouldnt say all these. My advise to men is to try as much a possible to reassure your women. Yes, we all have our love languages, but trust me, being strict and bottle-necked isn't one. If op had created a peaceful and reassuring atmosphere for that lady, she wouldn't have gone that far.

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. She's not yours, it's just your turn.

DXNNigeria:

She is well over 18 bro. In her 20s

...still the same , 25 and above can never do such.

Ariza:
This isn't about you but HIM. If showing him off makes him feel loved I will even if I'm a private person. You may not need WhatsApp update to validate/ confirm but like I typed it about him. So does he feel the same way?. Anyone who does what the lady did feels insecure, I believe for once we should stop this privacy thing and see from the other person's perspective.


Lol... I doubt that too.

Thank God he is a busy man and more coded than I am. So the time he will use and make money for me to be a baby girl, he will use it to be waiting for his face on WhatsApp status. Ngwanu!

DXNNigeria:
Really, am really furious right now and I see it as her intruding into my personal space. My babe just took my phone and uploaded her pictures with different captions like my love, my babe, my heart etc.
I saw them on my status and deleted them and she is angry.
Really, I see it as her intruding into my personal life. Really am very furious at her and she doesn't see anything bad in what she did instead she is giving me attitude.
Really? Am I wrong?

No. You are not wrong, just that you are an idiot.

Be furious all you want... She don mark her territory!!! That side game don cast for you.

You can take her phone and do the same, that's if she doesn't already proudly flaunt you as hers (I sense she is likely more open about the relationship than you are).

TruthHurts100:


Chai... E pain am.

See buoda

U aren't worth any other second of reply! Take the first one as a test to determine ur level of mentality buh so Sowie the test turned out negative no sign of life!

It means you don't love her.

DXNNigeria:
Really, am really furious right now and I see it as her intruding into my personal space. My babe just took my phone and uploaded her pictures with different captions like my love, my babe, my heart etc.
I saw them on my status and deleted them and she is angry.
Really, I see it as her intruding into my personal life. Really am very furious at her and she doesn't see anything bad in what she did instead she is giving me attitude.
Really? Am I wrong?

What she did is wrong.

For me, I don't like all those unnecessary display of affection on social media. I find them childish. So, if any girl tried that nonsense with me, I will be embarrassed. And I will be mad at her.

pocohantas:


Thank God he is a busy man and more coded than I am. So the time he will use and make money for me to be a baby girl, he will use it to be waiting for his face on WhatsApp status. Ngwanu!

Fair enough.

DXNNigeria:
Really, am really furious right now and I see it as her intruding into my personal space. My babe just took my phone and uploaded her pictures with different captions like my love, my babe, my heart etc.
I saw them on my status and deleted them and she is angry.
Really, I see it as her intruding into my personal life. Really am very furious at her and she doesn't see anything bad in what she did instead she is giving me attitude.
Really? Am I wrong?

She's your girlfriend..wats d big deal in DAT..u are turning wat u guys should just laff and joke about to issue..na wa o..u get skeleton for toilet?.

Invasion of privacy. If I want partner's pics on my status, I will do the posting--after asking if they're okay with having their pics online, and choosing ones they like. Likewise, as I am a private person, I would hope they would ask me if I was okay with them uploading pics of me to their own status. Not about skeletons in the closet.

OP may or may not have skeletons, that's a secondary issue.

Phones are extensions of ourselves. They have lots of personal and private stuff on them. If someone allows you access to their phone, it's an act of trust (or of naivete). Honour that trust, don't abuse it. Posting your pics on someone else's status is like going to their house while they're away at work, without their knowledge or permission, and repainting their parlour in your favourite colour--which might not be a colour they like.

Blessinzy:


thank you for this gurl.. all men in my Life are scum..

Fixed!

Let's not generalize nonsense Biko.

DXNNigeria:
Really, am really furious right now and I see it as her intruding into my personal space. My babe just took my phone and uploaded her pictures with different captions like my love, my babe, my heart etc.
I saw them on my status and deleted them and she is angry.
Really, I see it as her intruding into my personal life. Really am very furious at her and she doesn't see anything bad in what she did instead she is giving me attitude.
Really? Am I wrong?

Why being furious? Why don't you do her same and see her reactions also. Na do me, I do you. If it balances, we now know where to start..

Unless there's something you don't want to tell us

The lady has self-esteem issues...and she tot by putting her picture on your DP will discourage other ladies from coming close to you....

A lot of Naija ladies doesn't have any value except their boobs, butts and cunts....and she is one of them...85 percent of Naija ladies sell their body for a living either directly or indirectly.....


Misplacement of priority

Wasted generation

Ariza:
This isn't about you but HIM. If showing him off makes him feel loved I will even if I'm a private person. You may not need WhatsApp update to validate/ confirm but like I typed it about him. So does he feel the same way?. Anyone who does what the lady did feels insecure, I believe for once we should stop this privacy thing and see from the other person's perspective.


Lol... I doubt that too.

For starters, who will date this type of Man U are describing Biko? So the only way ‘ this man’ will feel loved is when I update him on WhatsApp? I’m sure no real man will take this petty stuff to heart . What do I know, there are different types of men anyway.

Some of us do the privacy stuff because we are keeping them away from ‘ monitoring spirits’ not because we don’t love them.

GB WhatsApp users will be like, keep fooling yourself. the girl was only testing the microphone