The poor sleep I’ve been getting has had a direct affect on my mood and creative abilities, creating a vicious cycle of resentment and disappointment. Rather than just bitch about it, I’ve decided to take the next logical step

But the fact is, the crappy sleep I’m getting is only doing more damage to my union. Seeing my spouse wake up rested and ready to face his day while I have to spend an hour orienting myself before struggling out of bed has left me disaffected, and some days (like today), flat out angry. I feel like I’m dying. This is not healthy for anyone who lives in my house.

In researching some of the sleep divorce options, I’ve discovered that there are several ways to go about it. Some couples share a room, but sleep in separate beds. Others merely create a “pillow wall” to establish boundaries. Some occupy their own private rooms, while others split their time by cohabiting on some days and returning to their own space on the others. The latter is the method I’ve chosen. I’ll be sleeping on the pullout bed in the sitting room Monday – Friday and then return to our bedroom on the weekends, when my mental sharpness is no so critical.


We’ve talked about sleeping apart before, and it’s not an idea that my husband has been warm to. He’s previously discouraged it. However, this is the first time I’ve committed wholly to the plan and it’s moving forward. To his credit, he’s recently done as much as he can to make our bedroom a place that we can both enjoy and hopefully remain in together – but he can do no more to stop his snoring than I can do to stop being Black. The aesthetic changes can never make the significant differences to make co-sleeping a pleasant reality, no matter how much we might want it. The grim/exciting reality is that sleeping apart is one of the adventures in adulting that no one ever talked us about and is one we will have to confront. Besides, if we were a proper African couple, I'd have my own hut and would only have to see my husband at night when




mindsof malaka

@ op, the problems in this world are just too much. So numerous that sometimes God is confused on which to solve first....

Get ear plugs.

hmm na wa ooo

Divorce because of poor sleep?
Hian.

What happens when mad people express an opinion

Get a different room

So all this write up is about is that you don't get enough sleep because of your husband's snoring? Na wa o

Snoring can be managed in my opinion, so many factors are responsible for snoring, try and tell your partner to try another sleeping position. Probably you can google more on it. Snoring is not a bad thing you know

all these stories all because you don't get enough sleep?
SEE IF YOU WANT TO DIVORCE PLEASE DIVORCE AND STOP DISTURBING US WITH YOUR PROBLEM
the world have enough problems already

Real separate rooms. Cheaper than a divorce.

He probably needs a sleep study and cpap or bipap but go for the separate rooms first.

If you want a divorce because your partner snores, I SMH for you. May God only bring your way boyfriends that love you whole heartedly but there only fault is snoring.

Lord, let it be so in Jesus name, Amen.

You probably resent him and the snoring adds to pissing you off. Get an ear plug. Sleep apart if you want. If the root of the problem is more than the snoring, find the solution to it.
If divorce is the solution, you probably have your reasons. Get a divorce lawyer(you would need one anyway) so he gives you a better reason to divorce.

I understand the importance if sleep. While some of us are lucky enough to sleep through any noise once we are used to it, others aren't so lucky....there are some really good devices you could either get for him or yourself instead of leaving him to sleep alone. Biko, find another way.

They are all over the internet.

Are you mad or something? I will try to unread this crap but first, let me answer your question. No Magistrate in Nigeria will grant your request.

The fact that divorce is wat comes to ur mind because he snores shows that u no longer in love with him nd u just looking for an excuse to be out of d marriage. However, if snoring is d only reason, then u can move to another room to sleep or buy ear plugs or d various other devices available 4 such in d market.

If you've got something else in your mind let us know.. if your only reason for divorce is that he snores, then you're joking. Our mothers managed our heavy snoring fathers. Get earplugs or something abeg... And if it is that you want to get a divorce cos one guy is scoping u, and dis is the only reason u can come up with, you'd only live to regret it.