Ever thought of having a fun, no-strings-attached and drama-free one-night stand? Or maybe you are curious to know how sex with a stranger will feel like? We hear you. One-night-stand gives the people involved the perfect opportunity to go wild and uninhibited, and fulfill their primal desires without holding back. Since you don’t have to worry about seeing the person again, it allows you to act out your fantasies. Keep reading to find out how to pull off a one-night stand.

Location Matters

You are unlikely to find potential one-night stands at malls or seminars – you’ll probably end up in a relationship instead – which is not what you want. But places like bars, nightclubs, wedding and birthday parties are prime locations to pick up a willing partner.

Quick Search

So you are at the club enjoying some drinks with your guys, and also keeping an eye out for a potential one-night stand. You see a well-dressed beautiful babe, but how can you tell if she’s up for that? It takes a bit of practice but after a while you can also be a pro at sizing up who might be interested. First find out if she’s alone (and in need of company) or came with someone else before making your moves. She’s equally looking around trying to find who she will spend the rest of the night with. And probably doing everything to catch the attention of others (such as dancing seductively and laughing loudly)

Your Approach

When you find someone you are attracted to, offer to buy her a drink and strike up a conversation with her. Your first impression must be on point. Look your best (it’s purely physical ) so make sure you look as enticing as possible. Pick out clothes that bring out your best features and smell nice as well. Approach her with confidence and lead the conversation. Cut out all the lame and boring jokes (No, she doesn’t look familiar). If she wants to be left alone, leave and don’t harass her. Otherwise keep the conversation light and flirty, it’s not the time nor place for deep conversation. Chances of seeing each other later on is nil so don’t give the wrong impression (that you are interested in a relationship).

Be Attentive

If she hasn’t told you to take a hike that means you are on the right track. But then she probably might not tell you all she’s thinking so you have to watch out for her body language. That way you won’t spend all night chatting with someone who’s only interested in having someone buy her drinks and keep her company but nothing more. Making eye contact, flirting in an openly sexual manner, leaning into you and touching you are all good signs. If she’s more interested in her phone or seems closed off then it’s time to walk away.

Be Straight Up

When the possibility of a physical intimacy comes up let your intentions be clear. Don’t lie or lead her on to get lucky. If you don’t want to trend on social media for false representation be honest about what you want right from start. Look for someone who is also interested in having a one-night stand, not trying to convince someone to try it. You don’t want to end up in a relationship when your only aim is to smash and walk away.

Next Level

There’s no time limit for how long to spend getting to know your partner. Take her to dinner, have fun together – you don’t have to rush straight to the bedroom. Since you are both on board, make sure you’ve got a couple of condoms with you and you have somewhere readily available for your hook up. It’s not the time to start shopping for a pack of condoms so always be prepared. And in as much as you want to act out all your fantasies on your partner make sure she’s comfortable and on board with everything, respect each other ‘s boundaries. It should be a pleasurable experience for both of you.

Morning After

Avoid awkward goodbyes and making promises you don’t want to keep. There’s nothing embarrassing about one-night stands, the morning-after shouldn’t be either. Let them know you had a nice time and that you enjoyed spending the brief time together, dress up and go. Don’t make promises to call if you are not going to do so. It’s best to have the hook ups at hotels so no one overstay his or her welcome and you can easily go your separate ways.
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Ever had a one-night stand before? Tell us your experience.

falcon01:

Thinking about giving it a shot? �

meobizy:
There is no trick to it. Stay confident, in shape, dress and smell nice always. The opportunity will come out of the blue. My first happened while chasing a female only for her friend to open up for me randomly. My second was a lonely female coming over for a visit. Most guys I know do it to their friend’s girlfriend who takes a liking to them. It is more of an art than science where many roads lead to the same destination.

True, it's all being confident and on point. It's not exactly a one-night stand if you've known this person before, it will mostly count as a fling or something similar.