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What Must Be Done To Secure This Marriage... by skyhoney: 11:37am On Aug 03, 2020
What must be done to secure this marriage..

Re: What Must Be Done To Secure This Marriage... by skyhoney: 11:38am On Aug 03, 2020
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Re: What Must Be Done To Secure This Marriage... by Righteousness89(m): 11:49am On Aug 03, 2020
Securing The Marriage should not Even be the top Matter .

Securing His Life From Eternal Destruction is the Main Concern..

There is a Way that Seems Right to a Man, the End is Destruction..

Sin could look or Sound Sweet! But the Consequences are Grievious and Eternal!

Admonish your Friend or Brother to Pull out now their is Life..

If He has Ears to Hear, Let Him Hear..

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Re: What Must Be Done To Secure This Marriage... by Ladylite: 11:54am On Aug 03, 2020
Ha, kai
Missimelda01 come and see o.

I feel the guy should go for test o, tongue and finger can still carry HIV, then he should have had investments so that he can leave there.

I feel morally he is already addicted.

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Re: What Must Be Done To Secure This Marriage... by yvelchstores(f): 2:16pm On Aug 03, 2020
Righteousness89:
Securing The Marriage should not Even be the top Matter .

Securing His Life From Eternal Destruction is the Main Concern..

There is a Way that Seems Right to a Man, the End is Destruction..

Sin could look or Sound Sweet! But the Consequences are Grievious and Eternal!

Admonish your Friend or Brother to Pull out now their is Life..

If He has Ears to Hear, Let Him Hear..
God bless you. Such a dirty job, horing himself to canal women. He is a male prostitute and there is no dignity in such labour. It's not just his marriage that needs saving,he too shld be saved.... Tho I don't blv the story

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Re: What Must Be Done To Secure This Marriage... by VirginFinder: 2:58pm On Aug 03, 2020
Dotherightthing:
Securing Tthe Mmarriage should not Eeven be the top Mmatter .

Securing Hhis Llife Ffrom Eeternal Ddestruction is the Mmain Cconcern..

There is a Wway that Sseems Rright to a Mman, the Eend is Ddestruction..

Sin could look or Ssound Ssweet! But the Cconsequences are Ggrievious and Eeternal!

Admonish your Ffriend or Bbrother to Ppull out now their is Llife..

If Hhe has Eears to Hhear, Llet Hhim Hhear..
Re: What Must Be Done To Secure This Marriage... by sheepheart(f): 3:15pm On Aug 03, 2020
Things are really happening Sha. This is purely male prostitution and the marriage has been laid on a faulty foundation.
Re: What Must Be Done To Secure This Marriage... by Shinny1: 6:28pm On Aug 03, 2020
Mr if you love your wife and children as you claim then leave the job
Use the money you have saved so far to start up a business because there is nothing like having peace of mind and making a guinea money you can be proud of...

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Re: What Must Be Done To Secure This Marriage... by Nobody: 7:25pm On Aug 03, 2020
Well personally there are some professions i can't marry their practitioners with Message therapist topping the list. I can be possessive, and I value my Man's body even more than he does, so he's got to really really keep it clean and sacred!. Now the lady in that marriage may be someone like me. The guy should have been plain from the beginning that would have given her the opportunity to make a choice.
I wonder though, what sane being will makes demands and live a luxurious life without investigating what job her husband does? You mean no surprise visit at work, no knowledge of her husband's work members' no knowledge of husband's work location? That's bad.


Well to save his Marriage, husband should resign and start a business.

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Re: What Must Be Done To Secure This Marriage... by frozen70(f): 8:33pm On Aug 03, 2020
That man is a male prostitute and he has a strong passion for his job

Getting him off his job is like bringing out a fish out of water

He won't survive it

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Re: What Must Be Done To Secure This Marriage... by Hathor5(f): 8:40pm On Aug 03, 2020
Happy ending! grin cheesy
The things we learn here.

So he does not only massage the private parts to give the ladies a happy ending but also sleeps with them? And he does those thing with male customers too?

Honestly!

He should be grateful his wife gave him an ultimatum and did not quit right away. He must find a new job ASAP which is immediately.

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Re: What Must Be Done To Secure This Marriage... by Unnerve: 8:58pm On Aug 03, 2020
The only issue here is the dishonesty. Other than that, there's really nothing wrong with his profession.

If prostitution can have activists supporting and clamouring for it to be made legal, I wonder why a masseuse of this kind should be judged for his hustle.

Everyone deserves love, including prostitutes. grin

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Re: What Must Be Done To Secure This Marriage... by Klass99(f): 9:27pm On Aug 03, 2020
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Re: What Must Be Done To Secure This Marriage... by UjuJoan2: 10:24pm On Aug 03, 2020
That his wife is lying to herself. What kind of massage therapist earns 400k monthly? Even if you are the President's personal masseuse.

Who doesn't know those people give happy endings? That job is equivalent to prostituting here in Nigeria and everyone knows that.

She entered with her eyes open, she needs to get used to it. Or give him time to save and set up a business. Afterall he can't be a masseuse forever.
Re: What Must Be Done To Secure This Marriage... by Unnerve: 12:21am On Aug 04, 2020
Klass99:

Lolgrin, in my head I am rephrasing this as retired prostitutes (both male & female) not current ones who are still active in service and doing happy hours or TGIF for clients.

One of my colleagues told me about a spa/massage place like this where a female masseuse made him come twice during an overseas trip.

Didn't know Naija offered such services, but who am I kidding. If we have strip clubs I'm not shocked by massage places of this kind.
Just look at you, acting jewish
You don't even have to go to a specific place to get such services anymore, ladies are advertising it on hookup sites/apps and they'll go to you wherever you want. cheesy

Well I don't know what you mean by retired prostitutes. So you mean if a prostitute does not retire until 45, they don't deserve love eh? Where's your humanity? grin

It's just a job mehn and on this I stan feminism. No other group of people advocates for prostitution than feminists.
Re: What Must Be Done To Secure This Marriage... by Klass99(f): 2:58am On Aug 04, 2020
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Re: What Must Be Done To Secure This Marriage... by DestroyFeminist(f): 8:46am On Aug 04, 2020
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Hathor5:
Happy ending! grin cheesy
The things we learn here.

So he does not only massage the private parts to give the ladies a happy ending but also sleeps with them? And he does those thing with male customers too?

Honestly!

He should be grateful his wife gave him an ultimatum and did not quit right away. He must find a new job ASAP which is immediately.

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Re: What Must Be Done To Secure This Marriage... by Unnerve: 8:58am On Aug 04, 2020
Klass99:


This entire post made me smile, you get plenty yeye for body sha!

@ first bold, have you used any of those apps or sites, to book a service? cheesy

@ second bold, you cracked me up at where is your humanity? grin

I can't deal with a male pro in active service, he deserves love and the Lord Jesus will give him lots of it and more sef, not me abeg grin
Lmao, the lord Jesus cheesy cheesy

Yes I have explored them on one of those hookup thingies, I was merely curious and just wanted to see what it was all about. Just the massage bit though, we didn't have a happy ending but it was an option. grin
I have to admit that some of the chics who are into this service look okay in the beauty and ass department so I perfectly understand why their business thrives. For males too, as I suspect is the case with the OP, they usually look really attractive, hence they are not short of customers (married older women mostly).

And there's no way they are all single, most of them are definitely in relationships or even married. So like I noted earlier, the only issue I see here is the dishonesty. Or perhaps he should have been more careful and not let his wife find out he does more than just offer massages cheesy

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