Everyday I keep thinking the best possible way to take care of my wife and kids, to make them very comfortable without them having to work even though I don't consider myself ripe for marriage for at least another decade. I hustle with my parents and family (future ) as the main motivation; surprise, surprise someone from another tribe is so confused why my wife (and kids, never forget the kids) should stay at home and enjoy while I work and provide for her, apparently some people don't think it's the responsibility of the man to provide for his family; mother, father, pastor, teacher, history, culture - y'all lied to me **crying***

On the same thread another person consider Hausas as "alpha males" because they marry uncountable women they can't control, give birth to uncountable kids they can't feed, marry the daughters off at 13 while the males go into begging, God! Will something ever surprise me again in this country