Hello NL
I have been in a distant relationship for over a three years now. I stay in Bayelsa, my boyfriend stay and work in Enugu. Due to the nature of his job, and mine, we hardly see time to meet.

Recently, my friend told me my boyfriend have been seeing a lady which I asked him about, his reply to me is that its due to the fact that he hardly see me, please what should I do in this situation? How can I change my boyfriend

Change kwa

No one can change an adult, if two of u can't get married NOW and move in together, I mean right now. It's better u move on with ur life.

It's either you marry each other and stay at a place together or you let go of each others now. Long distance relationship can't work for everyone.

Change kwa? Nothing wey big brother no go see for Cameroon

accept other boyfriend that is wooing you. long distance relationships kill faster in any type of relationship

Localchampion:
Hello NL
I have been in a distant relationship for over a three years now. I stay in Bayelsa, my boyfriend stay and work in Enugu. Due to the nature of his job, and mine, we hardly see time to meet.

Recently, my friend told me my boyfriend have been seeing a lady which I asked him about, his reply to me is that its due to the fact that he hardly see me, please what should I do in this situation? How can I change my boyfriend

He is just your boy friend and you don't know if he will propose to you

If you keep going to visit him especially on weekends, will he cater for you transportation

If you stop working just to be with him, life will be more difficult

You know what, just accept it the way it is and behave as if nothing is happening

Always make sure he uses condom on you

Notify him whenever you want to come so that you don't witness anything that will hurt you more and don't be surprise if he tells you that he won't be around that period

If you can't kill yourself, let him go and you too will start searching near by

Once it's still boy friend and girl friend matter, without any commitment, it is like a gambling game

Localchampion:
Hello NL
I have been in a distant relationship for over a three years now. I stay in Bayelsa, my boyfriend stay and work in Enugu. Due to the nature of his job, and mine, we hardly see time to meet.

Recently, my friend told me my boyfriend have been seeing a lady which I asked him about, his reply to me is that its due to the fact that he hardly see me, please what should I do in this situation? How can I change my boyfriend

I don't know if the word simp is applicable to girls, too. If it is, this OP is one. Which kind entanglement be this

Localchampion:
Hello NL
I have been in a distant relationship for over a three years now. I stay in Bayelsa, my boyfriend stay and work in Enugu. Due to the nature of his job, and mine, we hardly see time to meet.

Recently, my friend told me my boyfriend have been seeing a lady which I asked him about, his reply to me is that its due to the fact that he hardly see me, please what should I do in this situation? How can I change my boyfriend

Why exactly do you want to change him?

Once a cheater,always a cheater,just forget about him and move on with your life but u can never change anyone rather people change on their own accord..He has already cheated and accepted to have done it,u got no reason been in the relationship still...

Aunty you never marry. Just a short distance between a few states and he quickly replaced you. Giving flimsy excuses .You're dating yourself.

I'm sure you are also seeing someone too, even if not on a serious level, at least on Konji treatment level....so both of you are same....Abi you want to say since u guys are so far apart there's no guy oiling and lubricating ya oilwell?

Truth is you cant change him..he will surely find someone to fvvck to cure his own Konji the way u are curing yours. Pray he's still interested in marrying you.

Yeeahh, because no married couples have cheats? And no short distance relationship peeps cheat.

What if she gets a big job or contract that needs her away from home for a week?

What if one of them gets a scholarship to school abroad?

Cheaters will be cheaters, long distance or short.

frozen70:


He is just your boy friend and you don't know if he will propose to you

If you keep going to visit him especially on weekends, will he cater for you transportation

If you stop working just to be with him, life will be more difficult

You know what, just accept it the way it is and behave as if nothing is happening

Always make sure he uses condom on you

Notify him whenever you want to come so that you don't witness anything that will hurt you more and don't be surprise if he tells you that he won't be around that period

If you can't kill yourself, let him go and you too will start searching near by

Once it's still boy friend and girl friend matter, without any commitment, it is like a gambling game

FreeSpirited:
I'm sure you are also seeing someone too, even if not on a serious level, at least on Konji treatment level....so both of you are same....Abi you want to say since u guys are so far apart there's no guy oiling and lubricating ya oilwell?

Truth is you cant change him..he will surely find someone to fvvck to cure his own Konji the way u are curing yours. Pray he's still interested in marrying you.

Because you can't stay celibate for a month doesn't mean other people are like you.

cooooooks:
Yeeahh, because no married couples have cheats? And no short distance relationship peeps cheat.

What if she gets a big job or contract that needs her away from home for a week?

What if one of them gets a scholarship to school abroad?

Cheaters will be cheaters, long distance or short.

Your response is base on marriage and her complain is base on friendship

Now tell me, is she married to him, no ❗

So If its marriage then your statement is s valid

There are some things you will tolerate in marriage because its marriage but in friendship, you can walk away because nothing is committed yet

cooooooks:
Yeeahh, because no married couples have cheats? And no short distance relationship peeps cheat.

What if she gets a big job or contract that needs her away from home for a week?

What if one of them gets a scholarship to school abroad?

Cheaters will be cheaters, long distance or short.

Can I like this post 1000 times?

You too start seeing someone new. You’re in an open relationship if you don’t know. The guy don use style clear you.

Yes. Seun work on this please!

Chii59:

Can I like this post 1000 times?

Call this line I have a proposal for you very important.