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4 Months by NeedAdvice00: 11:52pm On Aug 12, 2020
cry
Re: 4 Months by DICKstractor: 11:59pm On Aug 12, 2020
cheesy


As far as it's your first relationship breakup, it's normal. When it reaches 13th, brotherman, you will be a badass

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Re: 4 Months by abdulhadi101(m): 12:00am On Aug 13, 2020
Naso the thing be o grin, e go take time small
Re: 4 Months by Nobody: 12:04am On Aug 13, 2020
You need to be locked in a room with Ubunja's posts for 600years
Re: 4 Months by NeedAdvice00: 12:06am On Aug 13, 2020
Bonatheripper:
You need to be locked in a room with Ubunja's posts for 600years
I have read them

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Re: 4 Months by HarunaWest(m): 12:12am On Aug 13, 2020
NeedAdvice00:
I have read 80% of them. The heartbreak comes and goes.
Now, it's keeping me awake.

I can't sleep
Stop stalking her and move on. WETIN WAN HAPPEN DON HAPPEN.
Re: 4 Months by ojun50(m): 12:12am On Aug 13, 2020
NeedAdvice00:
I have read 80% of them. The heartbreak comes and goes.
Now, it's keeping me awake.

I can't sleep
The girl is sleeping and enjoying the next dick you are here shouting is ur first date...... Son you still have more coming....
Re: 4 Months by Nobody: 12:17am On Aug 13, 2020
NeedAdvice00:
I have read 80% of them. The heartbreak comes and goes.
Now, it's keeping me awake.

I can't sleep

U didn't understand any
Re: 4 Months by NeedAdvice00: 12:22am On Aug 13, 2020
This thing is so painful. You people will not understand.

I have tried my best to forget it but my heart hasn't been the same. I surely don't love her anymore, but I just have this heartbreak that I can't describe.

I never did any body wrong. Why should someone do me wrong?


Maybe it's because it was my first, but I wish I never tried it. I thought relationship was sweet, but it was war
Re: 4 Months by kunki90(m): 12:31am On Aug 13, 2020
NeedAdvice00:
This thing is so painful. You people will not understand.

I have tried my best to forget it but my heart hasn't been the same. I surely don't love her anymore, but I just have this heartbreak that I can't describe.

I never did any body wrong. Why should someone do me wrong?


Maybe it's because it was my first, but I wish I never tried it. I thought relationship was sweet, but it was war



I never did any body wrong. Why should someone do me wrong? lol because life ain’t fair; doesn't mean if you do good to people they will be good to you too infact in most cases people you have been good to will turn their back on you in your time of adversity; also it doesn’t mean any bad thing will happen to them or in this case your ex infact if you don’t get your shit together on time you will turn out worse for been a good nice guy.

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Re: 4 Months by ERCROSS(m): 12:38am On Aug 13, 2020
NeedAdvice00:
I never did any body wrong. Why should someone do me wrong?

grin grin grin u neva chi chum chum. 21st century is not for the faint-hearted

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Re: 4 Months by Kdon2: 4:15am On Aug 13, 2020
NeedAdvice00:
This thing is so painful. You people will not understand.

I have tried my best to forget it but my heart hasn't been the same. I surely don't love her anymore, but I just have this heartbreak that I can't describe.

I never did any body wrong. Why should someone do me wrong?


Maybe it's because it was my first, but I wish I never tried it. I thought relationship was sweet, but it was war

Sorry man, you are still a kid in the game but you ll get better! Ok?
Re: 4 Months by frozen70(f): 4:19am On Aug 13, 2020
NeedAdvice00:
For the first time, I dated.

Relationship ended bad.

Turns out she was still seeing her EX. She also lies about everything. Things that doesn't matter.

I finally broke up.

It's over 4 months but life hasn't been the same.

I'm still hurt.

I don't love her anymore, but I'm heartbroken.

I actually feel better than while in the relationship but can't be compared to when I knew nothing about dating.



I'm seriously hurt, even after 4 months of ending it myself, which I am really happy I ended.


My positive energy has reduced. I'm just somehow. I am not as happy as I used to be

You are passing through a phase and you will be alright soon

Just try to forget about her by starting another relationship, by so doing, your mind will be drifted away from her thoughts

You are feeling so because you love her more than she does to you
Re: 4 Months by buklarbest: 4:41am On Aug 13, 2020
frozen70:


You are passing through a phase and you will be alright soon

Just try to forget about her by starting another relationship, by so doing, your mind will be drifted away from her thoughts

You are feeling so because you love her more than she does to you

Best advice so far.. been unable to forget about her after 4 months shows that you really invested so much in her emotionally or otherwise.

My advice to you is to block all communication channels you have with her. Delete anything that can make you remember her like pictures, chats, messages and get contact from your phone. That's where the healing process can begin.

Just move on with life... you're surely gonna fall in love again with the right person who will be just the definition of what you are looking for.

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Re: 4 Months by Ategberoson(m): 5:22am On Aug 13, 2020
I presume you're not a game lover? my fiance don complain tire, if I'm playing games I barely feel anyone presence


Get yourself San Andreas (Grand Theft), Dream league and occupied your heart with spiritual motivational book, I swear the heartbroken will die naturally


blocked any means of seeing the lady, no picture, no contact you will be fine. I was once like you when I used to be a lover boy
Re: 4 Months by Gadafii: 5:33am On Aug 13, 2020
Its your first break up,wait for your third or fifth, you dey alright grin
Re: 4 Months by frozen70(f): 8:52am On Aug 13, 2020
buklarbest:


Best advice so far.. been unable to forget about her after 4 months shows that you really invested so much in her emotionally or otherwise.

My advice to you is to block all communication channels you have with her. Delete anything that can make you remember her like pictures, chats, messages and get contact from your phone. That's where the healing process can begin.

Just move on with life... you're surely gonna fall in love again with the right person who will be just the definition of what you are looking for.

That's true
@ Op, next time pls love with caution

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Re: 4 Months by SimeonOTC(m): 10:56am On Aug 13, 2020
o.p i was once like you..

calm down, its your first breakup, its normal to feel that way..
4 months is too early to get over her since she's your first and you did the loving..

mine is 1year and 6months+ (we dated 5years) and still haven't completely gotten over her but hey, am perfectly okay and have moved on, i still think about her once or twice, probably as a result of, the law of nature, you know, you can't actually forget your first love or you first sex, stuff like that.

am telling you this because you cant completely forget her even when you have moved on with life, but you will learn to live life way better 'without' her..

give yourself time, the process of recovery from heart break like this cant be cheated, even if you suppress it by pretending or trying to dive into another relationship, it will help for sometime, but it will come back to eat you..

just focus your mind on other things, read books, go for sport/exercises, socialize, especially with female, make approach even if they dnt accept, its fun, and never underestimate the power of gaming as a nigga that you are grin download lots of mobile HD games if you dnt have Pc

and lastly,

dnt blame yourself for what ever happened, its normal, its her choice, her loss, get over it and move on, trust me man, you are going to be alright and will laugh over all this few years to come..

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