Hello everyone,
I will try to keep my story short as possible.
I am a working class man in my early 30s,living in my apartment in Lagos,whereas my fiance is 28yrs,doing online business and has a shop where she sells kitchen utensils, she is also a virgin�
My fiance and I have been dating for a while,her parents likes me and my parents love her,they always ask us when are we getting married etc.i proposed to my girl in June and she said Yes,then I took my parents and siblings to go and meet her family last month to get introduction date, they welcomed us,entertained us and chose introduction date which my family said they will get back to them on the date,
But when we got back home, my parents said they don't like the conduct of affairs in that family, that my prospective mother in-law was more vocal than the father and so they can't give them a reply for the date yet,some weeks later,my fiance told me that her parents also wants to cancel the introduction because my parents have not given them a reply after 3weeks...
My fiance and I are now in a dilemma,we love each other truly but our parents can't seem to get along, even if they call each other on phone call,it usually end up in one complaint or the other...pls what should I do about this situation because the date of introduction is next week Friday.
Pls let this reach FP for more advice...

Gen 2:24 "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh."

Inasmuch as u both "needs" ur parents blessing, don't let them dictate ur life for u.

Meet ur in-law and xplain to them...try to talk to ur parent also.

las las, na love b the koko!! true love can/will break/destroy/piakashia any obstacle.

And at the end of the day ur slogan will be "Veni Vidi Vici"

op am not seeing how u concluded that they dislike each other o. It's only natural that these frictions would occur. U Don't have a problem. Be a man.

I haven't seen any problem here.
If una parents wahala too much,una go do court wedding, begin pop babies

Why did you tell us she's also a virgin

This is just a simple problem and not so serious anyway.

Your parents complaining about the conduct of your fiancée’s family are the one complicating the issue here. Nothing much concern them about the conduct of affairs of another family. Na every family sabi how dem dey run their affairs o. The Father-in-law to be may be such a gentle man and non vocal person and God knows how to balance up such a man by giving him a vocal woman and extrovert as wife.

There are many other things to look for in a family-in-law than that trivial issue (though it may be worse than narrated here).

OP, it is better you talk to your parents. After wedding, what else can bring the the two parents together? Apparently nothing if you can control your home well

njelrapheal:
op am not seeing how u concluded that they dislike each other o. It's only natural that these frictions would occur. U Don't have a problem. Be a man.

Don't mind the OP.

All I see here is pride from both parents. They should do away with it for the sake of their children

kheny12:
Why did you tell us she's also a virgin

Cos it's impossible and miraculous to find a virgin Nigerian girl.

Kriss216:

Cos it's impossible and miraculous to find a virgin Nigerian girl.

My fiancee is also a virgin

This life no just balance sha...make he just hold on to his fiance and ditch both families after the marriage

kheny12:
Why did you tell us she's also a virgin

Hahahahahahaha