RavagedHeart:


That means you have never went too deep in love you've not got the that dangerous point where you feel you can't live without someone. It's a sweet mistake that ends in pain. The type I won't make again.

And you can't compare loss of money to fraud to loss of love. Betrayal and disappointment are not on the same level. I lost almost 4k dollars to crypto not long ago but it didn't even pain me noticeably.

My dear I do love for real... This babe I'm talking of.. came back begging, imagine my wife was there when she was kneeling imagine that.


If I were in your shoes I would have died... Cos I have bp problem, that is y I do yank off all issues I mean all issue off me... If I should think my brother I will die.... If I'm in ur show I'm dead...

I know it hurt but just take it easy, never take any reprisal against any girl... I believe u will bouce out better... Share

demanuel:

Hi bro, How are you right now ?
I followed your story when you posted it some years ago.
Are you better now?
How's your financial state right now? Have you been able to get back on your feet?

Well, I've improved in most parts, but still average financially. And the PTSD I developed has refused to leave me. Sometimes it throws me off and I get very impulsive, but I'm doing a good job at keeping it in check.
It has been series of rise-and-falls and a few leap-of-faiths that didn't cut it. All in all I still keep my head high.
I've always prayed my fall from glory shouldn't be like that of Samson.

TheManofTomorrow:


Co-ask.

And hope you still have not maintained contact with the lady after then

@RavagedHeart

Na. I deleted her from everywhere after a year. The redpill gave me the mind to let go and the fortitude to bear my losses.
Though she used another line to call me some months ago after I blocked her other line.
I ended the call when it was clear she's got nothing to say.
I'm still not clear on the purpose of the call

RavagedHeart:


Na. I deleted her from everywhere after a year. The redpill gave me the mind to let go and the fortitude to bear my losses.
Though she used another line to call me some months ago after I blocked her other line.
I ended the call when it was clear she's got nothing to say.
I'm still not clear on the purpose of the call

I'm glad you learnt the hard way, and you are better for it, man.

I've always read about redpills, Ubunja's, and ilegendd threads since I joined nairaland in 2017.

But man, I won't lie to you; reading about something and having the knowledge is one thing, implementing these teachings is another thing entirely.

But trust me, it became easier for me to implement and stay pilled up after seeing and enduring the manipulations of these seemingly harmless ladies.
To most of them, relationship with the opposite gender is a game and a man who enters it thinking he has found the bone of his bone will learn the hard way.


Let's all have that mentality/awareness that a relationship (not marriage) is a game, and the best player always wins and stays guarded up.

That way, each player will start the game on equal ammo, no leverage for any party.

Welcome back to life, brother. You've fought so hard, now its time to keep on thriving and enjoying the fruit of your emotional labour.

You're a champion man