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Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by FemiEddy(m): 11:14pm On Aug 21, 2020
The percentage of people that masturbate and watch Pornography increases daily. I used to masturbate and watch Pornography regularly. I was a good customer (I wouldn't lie to you). I masturbated for almost 17yrs. It all started when I was around 7, I was exposed to Pornography by one uncle of mine, rather than telling me to get out or switch off the TV-Set, He said I was already a man. That was the beginning of enslavement for me. It was during the time of CD and VCD. I continually watched it. Masturbating came naturally to me, no one taught me. And so the Journey began. Java phone was invoke at that time. Watch porn, watch watch watch watch! Jerk off, Jerk off, Jerk off

I will pause now, I know my people, they don't like long stories, but this information is important for many. Will continue below.
Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by FemiEddy(m): 11:20pm On Aug 21, 2020
Name the site, I am always there, wake up in the night, go to the toilet, use cream, use soap. People that masturbate are very good at hiding, they rarely get caught. All through the Java phone era, I was constantly masturbating and watching Pornography. I will start using the word self-servicing.

I always have apps to hide porns on my phone. And when we meet with our fellow Pornography friend, we exchange as usual. Well, as a young man, it was fun to me. I am not raping anyone or doing bad to anybody, so, living my life.

Check below.....
Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by Deciceco01: 11:20pm On Aug 21, 2020
Continue na, we want to hear your testimony to the glory of God.
Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by FemiEddy(m): 11:24pm On Aug 21, 2020
Then I think the Blackberry era came, still continue with the trend. Now the video quality was getting more better and I was becoming a professional. I started masturbating with my right hand, but then, I switched to my left hand (there is nothing on earth you give your full commitment either good or bad, you will become unstoppable). Now Pornography and masturbation gradually started becoming something like a duty call. When the urge comes, You just want to satisfy. It comes like burning fire, and you just have to quench the fire....
Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by GOFRONT(m): 11:28pm On Aug 21, 2020
Me, I dont want to stop masturbation..

because even God in his infinite mercy has given me arms long enough to reach my genitals so I can save myself of sexual harrassment from the ladies.....

As I'm talking to you, My Vaseline is right here by my side on the bed.....

#NeversayNotoMasturbation.
Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by FemiEddy(m): 11:30pm On Aug 21, 2020
Until the ejaculation occurs before you can feel relaxed. But then there is this regretful feeling that comes after. That feeling of why did I even do it. But I ignored and carried on. Android era came in. Now clear images. There are numerous sites, numerous pornstars etc. Now I was personally actually getting tired of self-servicing. I had a girlfriend, I commit fornication with her, but still, go to porn. I was starting to get worried and confused. I was starting to realize I am a slave to sex, porn and masturbation
Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by Franzinni: 11:34pm On Aug 21, 2020
Eya!!! cry
Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by FemiEddy(m): 11:35pm On Aug 21, 2020
Now I can go masturbating three times in a row without rest. Sometimes masturbate 5times a day. It was something else entirely. But I discovered that there are so many people that are also slaves but every body is just hiding. You will be shocked to find out people that are slaves too, uncles, Aunties, Pastors and so on. Everybody is just hiding. So this gave me more boost that its normal thing. I carried on with the Journey. I was becoming so sensitive that if I see just a scene in a movie with little erotica content. I go to market(porn). If I see an image that entice me, I go to market. If I see a lady looking attractive, I go to market. Market(Porn) was like a life saver(actually a life drainer).
Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by FemiEddy(m): 11:40pm On Aug 21, 2020
Now I was getting tired. Yeah, Pornography and masturbation leads to depression (obviously). Its like a drug too, thats why you see many running after it and can't do without it. I made up my mind, that enough is enough. Deleted all videos, blocked all sites, no more Pornography. After three days, I am already at the market buying goods. I will start again, after 1wk, Your brother is in the market. That is how fight start o. There was a time I made it for 3month, I was starting to be happy that I am no more a slave. I sha find myself in market again, this time Marathon
Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by FemiEddy(m): 11:46pm On Aug 21, 2020
I started getting worried. I realized this is a bad habit I need to stop. But its like there is a chain on my neck, that they just call me anytime like a slave. I do it, I feel regret after. This cycle went on and on. People that masturbate know their routine and how they do it. I was not really happy like that anymore. Who do you want to tell you masturbating? Lol! No one na. You want to embarrass yourself, only few overlook the shame. I was sha facing the palava. But then when I see science and health stuff, they will say its good to masturbate, it boost your health, it helps to avoid prostrate cancer, it makes u last long in bed, it gives you a good mood. I start wondering what's all this.
Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by FemiEddy(m): 11:53pm On Aug 21, 2020
I was starting to really get fed up because after the act, there is this regretful feeling(if You don't have the feeling - this is serious danger!). I started fighting the urge. Making research. The first major step I took was
1. I was tired of Masturbating. ( If you are not tired, You can't stop).

This is the first step. (Was still masturbating and watching Pornography still)

The second step
2. I hated the act. I don't like it anymore. (Was still masturbating and watching Pornography still)
Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by FemiEddy(m): 12:00am On Aug 22, 2020
Third step.
I started getting seriously depressed and unhappy. What did I do? I started thinking of my Maker. Did I come to this world to come and masturbate, have sex and watch Pornography. I started searching for my Maker. This was the beginning of wisdom. All I did was, I started thinking of the One who Created me on earth. Automatically, I started having understanding but then I was still weak and was still a slave.

Gradually, I didn't give up, I continually seeking for my Maker, I did not go to any church/mosque or Pastor/Imam. It was all in my mind. I was already making strategic moves against the urges.

There are two ways into your mind
What you see
What you hear
This is the only means of attack on any human mind
Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by FemiEddy(m): 12:06am On Aug 22, 2020
The moment you see erotica content maybe music videos, or images it automatically triggers you

The moment you hear sexual sounds, it automatically triggers you.

What do you do, You enter defense mode. Try as much as possible to protect the gateway to your mind (what You see and what you hear). You will have to block alot of ladies that have no job but to be posting erotica pics (This is because you are still weak, when you become strong, if a lady like, let her wear pant and be dancing in your front, You will just be looking). So you gonna block alot of people. Friends that don't know than sex, they are the most friends on earth, distance them. All this period, You will still be falling, but never mind, the journey to be a MAN has already begun. Just continue fighting.
Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by FemiEddy(m): 12:12am On Aug 22, 2020
4th step : since you are already thinking about your maker, You are already getting spiritual, Because Our Maker is a Spirit. Automatically, You start getting assistance from above. You will still be falling, but just continue, no one can overcome any bad habit in a moment, it is gradual. Now, You start searching more and more for our Maker. As for me, My Maker is in the Bible, that is where my strength is. Just start reading stories of bible, it will first seem like a joke, boring. Just start with reading of the wars, don't rush to the bible immediately, read bible stories online that was summarized, try animations etc.

At this point, You are gradually awakening your spirit Man. (The Real you is waking up)
Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by FemiEddy(m): 12:19am On Aug 22, 2020
Now, it is time to start throwing arrows to the spirit realm, this is through prayer. You can not all of a sudden pray for 10min. You start with this simple line. "My Father in Heaven, please have mercy on me"(we have a father in heaven).

The moment you are saying those words from the bottom of your heart, You already sending a signal above. It can not be hindered, because it is a cry for help from a weak person.

Then you continue searching for our maker, and praying. Most Churches this days is just for fashion, really sorry to say that, just saying the truth. I wouldn't advice anyone to start going to church, the distraction there alone will affect you. The ladies there alone will affect you. Its just you and your Maker. You have just one Maker, we all have the same Maker, just one.

At this point, You will gradually start be the one making the decision to either masturbate or not, of course, You will still be choosing masturbating, but You will know that you are now gradually in charge.
Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by FemiEddy(m): 12:27am On Aug 22, 2020
Start fasting. Fasting always seems hard when they say it, people fear, but its not that hard. Start with 12pm 3days. You won't die, You will start getting inner strength. And pray. Continue to grow. Knowing more about the bible, assistance will come from above, all you just have to do is DONT GIVE UP no matter what!. Increase the Time. In the End, You wouldn't even remember what is called Porn nor Masturbation.

While seeking our Maker with all of your heart, You will realize we have a Savior already to pull us up.


Now, to the dangers of Pornography and Masturbation below.
Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by FemiEddy(m): 12:36am On Aug 22, 2020
Physical/Spiritual Dangers of Pornography
1. It will turn a man to a weak man and a woman to a loose woman. (No control).
2. You will be too sensitive. (Might embarrass yourself in the public).
3. Images of Immorality will be allover your mind, when you see people, will automatically sexualize them and fantasize about them.
4. Pornography damages your brain(many are unaware, research the hidden effect of Pornography on the brain).
5. Pornography will be like your god, You spend your data/money, Time/life, energy on.
6. It is a portal/gateway to unclean spirits (demons). You see all those anime you see on pornsite, they are not only anime, this are all tactics of wickedness also.
7. Google and co. Will continue to use ads of Immorality to pursue you all over the net so you remain a slave.
8. You will constantly waste your imagination power, You would be busy imagining and recalling sexual scenes.
9. Pornography will trigger your system to release certain feel good hormones which will always make you come back for more.
10. Pornography won't make you satisfied in bed because you are already exposed to viewing people that are on drugs having sex.

As I recall, I will add more.


Now to masturbation below....
Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by FemiEddy(m): 12:48am On Aug 22, 2020
Physical/Spiritual Dangers of Masturbation.
1. For Men : You are wasting life force and energy.
2. For Women : You are as well exposing your temple to filth.
3. Automatically, You have a spirit spouse whom you have to battle and fight with prayers and fasting because you will also be having sex in the dream. (This are not lies). Any sex in the dream is with an unclean spirit (demon). If you don't usually remember your dream or recall your dream(This is not a JOKE, actions need to be taken immediately)
4. You will be Empty within.
5. Masturbation is not you pleasing yourself, it is you pleasing yourself with the help of unclean spirit (demons)
6. You private part will be easily triggered.
7. It attracts a cloud of darkness over the individual
8. It keeps a Man in a state of slumber.

As I recall, I will add to

Shalom.
Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by FemiEddy(m): 12:50am On Aug 22, 2020
This message is for certain individuals, when they see it, they will know. Don't forget, just give thanks to The Most High. Cheers!

ALL PRAISES TO MY MESSIAH YAHUSHA!
ALL PRAISES TO MY MAKER YAHUAH!

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Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by heendrix(m): 8:36am On Aug 22, 2020
FemiEddy:
Until the ejaculation occurs before you can feel relaxed. But then there is this regretful feeling that comes after. That feeling of why did I even do it. But I ignored and carried on. Android era came in. Now clear images. There are numerous sites, numerous pornstars etc. Now I was personally actually getting tired of self-servicing. I had a girlfriend, I commit fornication with her, but still, go to porn. I was starting to get worried and confused. I was starting to realize I am a slave to sex, porn and masturbation

Exactly embarassed

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Re: Do You Want To Stop Masturbating And Watching Pornography? by Nobody: 1:42pm On Aug 22, 2020
You are absolutely on point bro, you couldn’t have said it any better. Only he or she who has been there done that can relate. Stopping requires not only spirituality but self will as well, as they say ‘heaven helps those who help themselves.

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