Plz wat is ur truthful opinion on dis mata?. A friend of mine is into a relationship where d guy had a son wt one yoruba girl 11yrs ago but dont give a hoot abt d girl&d son bc he was in school den&wen he broke up wit d gurl,dey left only 4 d gurl 2 cm bak 6months later 2claim dt she' pregnant 4him.She said(present fiance) dat her guy rejectd her den(prgnat 1) bt d girl insistd dat she must kip prgnacy&dat d guy must marry her(22 or 23yr old guy)bt after d fight 4rm d girl&her pple d guy blankd dem&left bt wen d baby was born,he lukd lyk d guy.Now my friend loves her man bt her probs dat she dont want dt baby 2cm close dem just lyk d man is nw tryn even remember d boy.my friend doesnt want dat boy 2 be d first son just lyk d man agreed bt she' nt married 2dis man yet bc tins are tight 4him nw&her pple are forcn her 2live d man dat his wretched even dough dey dont knw abt d son issue&d man out of fustration talks to her anyhow&smtimes beats her.Now she wants 2knw wat she do coz his d only guy she has 2truly loved in her life.The guy is 35&she 26+.plz only reasonable&matured advice needed.10xs alot 4 ur quick respones.

OP.
Can you please translate you Japajantis ''poo'' to Swahili Language?

I could not understand  much of this post past the first few lines to give a real answer to your question , but In my opinion your friend needs to re evaluate himself as a  person. How could he say he does not give a hoot about his own flesh and blood? , SHAME on him !! Who cares that he was in school then, He needs to get his mind right!! He does not have to like the woman who gave birth to his child, but respect her for who she is, the Mother of his child, The child------ there should not even be a question there! It is his own flesh and blood,

i can't even read this,no matter how hard i try.

by the way what happened to simple and correct english? my gawd!