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Can I Forgive A Cheating Wife. by muykem: 3:42pm On Aug 26, 2020
I posted a statement in my watup this morning that forgiveness is bedrock of marriage. A lady curiously asked me below question and my response to her.
[26/08, 3:05 pm]: Let assuming that you catch your wife cheating on you, will you forgive her?
[26/08, 3:33 pm] Yes. I will assume she has found another love more my own. I will sponsor their marriage.

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Re: Can I Forgive A Cheating Wife. by pharmagba: 4:06pm On Aug 26, 2020
muykem:
I posted a statement in my watup this morning that forgiveness is bedrock of marriage. A lady curiously asked me below question and my response to her.
[26/08, 3:05 pm]: Let assuming that you catch your wife cheating on you, will you forgive her?
[26/08, 3:33 pm] Yes. I will assume she has found another love more my own. I will sponsor their marriage.

It depends
Early years of marriage. Maybe "No" but after many years in marriage, the answer is definitely on the affirmative, infact she is already forgiven before she commit the cheating.
I got more to think about than a cheating or non cheating wife
Re: Can I Forgive A Cheating Wife. by MightySparrow: 4:09pm On Aug 26, 2020
It is up to you!
Re: Can I Forgive A Cheating Wife. by crackhaus: 4:43pm On Aug 26, 2020
muykem:
I posted a statement in my watup this morning that forgiveness is bedrock of marriage. A lady curiously asked me below question and my response to her.
[26/08, 3:05 pm]: Let assuming that you catch your wife cheating on you, will you forgive her?
[26/08, 3:33 pm] Yes. I will assume she has found another love more my own. I will sponsor their marriage.
Lol, no forgiveness is better than this...
Re: Can I Forgive A Cheating Wife. by mariahAngel(f): 7:34pm On Aug 26, 2020
crackhaus:

Lol, no forgiveness is better than this...

Easier said/typed than done.

You guys ehn... undecided
So, are you trying to say you'd let the betrayal slide so easily?
Let's assume that children are involved ooo

OK. Let us put it this way: Your wife is the woman LuvB is cheating with.... oya go grin

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Re: Can I Forgive A Cheating Wife. by mariahAngel(f): 7:40pm On Aug 26, 2020
muykem:
I posted a statement in my watup this morning that forgiveness is bedrock of marriage. A lady curiously asked me below question and my response to her.
[26/08, 3:05 pm]: Let assuming that you catch your wife cheating on you, will you forgive her?
[26/08, 3:33 pm] Yes. I will assume she has found another love more my own. I will sponsor their marriage.

Pray not to find yourself in such a situation.
Re: Can I Forgive A Cheating Wife. by crackhaus: 8:19pm On Aug 26, 2020
mariahAngel:


Easier said/typed than done.

You guys ehn... undecided
So, are you trying to say you'd let the betrayal slide so easily?
Let's assume that children are involved ooo

OK. Let us put it this way: Your wife is the woman Luv.B is cheating with.... oya go grin
Lol, perhaps you didn't understand muykem's answer – it had sarcasm written all over it.

No husband is going to sponsor the marriage of his adulterous wife to the man she was caught cheating with, well certainly not I... cheesy
Re: Can I Forgive A Cheating Wife. by mariahAngel(f): 9:44pm On Aug 26, 2020
crackhaus:

Lol, perhaps you didn't understand muykem's answer – it had sarcasm written all over it.

No husband is going to sponsor the marriage of his adulterous wife to the man she was caught cheating with, well certainly not I... cheesy

Oh!
I probably missed that 'cause it was too subtle to be sarcasm and too outrageous to be true...excluding the marriage part cheesy
Re: Can I Forgive A Cheating Wife. by Idonije8(m): 11:01pm On Aug 26, 2020
muykem:
I posted a statement in my watup this morning that forgiveness is bedrock of marriage. A lady curiously asked me below question and my response to her.
[26/08, 3:05 pm]: Let assuming that you catch your wife cheating on you, will you forgive her?
[26/08, 3:33 pm] Yes. I will assume she has found another love more my own. I will sponsor their marriage.
grin grin
Re: Can I Forgive A Cheating Wife. by Mandela27: 8:41am On Aug 27, 2020
One worst thing that can happen to a man is getting married to a promiscious woman.
I will just end everything immediately! Such marriage cannever heal again.
Re: Can I Forgive A Cheating Wife. by crackhaus: 12:29pm On Aug 27, 2020
mariahAngel:

Oh!
I probably missed that 'cause it was too subtle to be sarcasm and too outrageous to be true... excluding the marriage part cheesy
That was the part that actually gave it away for me.

If he had stopped at just forgiving her and assuming she has found love, the sarcasm may have flown past me. But the next bit about sponsoring revealed the joke. grin

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Re: Can I Forgive A Cheating Wife. by Sixfit: 12:48pm On Aug 27, 2020
I think when it has gotten to the extent you catch your wife red handed cheating on you as man then the initial foundational love has died a natural cause, forgiveness in this instance is inconsequential. Just let her go for the sanity of you both. My opinion tho.
Re: Can I Forgive A Cheating Wife. by LuvB: 10:42pm On Aug 30, 2020
mariahAngel:


Easier said/typed than done.

You guys ehn... undecided
So, are you trying to say you'd let the betrayal slide so easily?
Let's assume that children are involved ooo

OK. Let us put it this way: Your wife is the woman LuvB is cheating with.... oya go grin

Lol...abeg ooo
Re: Can I Forgive A Cheating Wife. by mariahAngel(f): 11:03pm On Aug 30, 2020
LuvB:


Lol...abeg ooo

You are the perfect case study
You never see anything... grin
Re: Can I Forgive A Cheating Wife. by jidamsel43(m): 5:36am On Aug 31, 2020
A cheater will always be a cheater. A tiger doesn't change it's cloth
Re: Can I Forgive A Cheating Wife. by Dtruthspeaker: 10:43am On Aug 31, 2020
You must forgive for the Law is "What the Lord has joined together..." Unless you are broken by the Lord, you both would be in danger of Adultery!

And in the case of an offending spouse, Aggravated Adultery!

Further, if you want to be forgiven of your own offences, you must forgive!

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Re: Can I Forgive A Cheating Wife. by Dtruthspeaker: 10:47am On Aug 31, 2020
jidamsel43:
A cheater will always be a cheater. A tiger doesn't change it's cloth

You speak hastily and foolishly my friend, which one of you is not a tiger and which one of you has not cheated or can guarantee that he shall not cheat?

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