Zzor:
The fifth one is "Waith till you grow up both mentally and psychologically before inviting someone's daughter to come share in your confusion"

PornLegend:
The fact that you used more words to describe the fourth one than the other ones shows that that's the one on your mind presently.
The first three are just failsafes.

osayuwamwen:
yes, but am having problem expressing my feelings towards her, it is because of her hv been eating regularly every single day at their shop even when I am not hungry most times all for the hope of talking to her infact seeing her face every morning makes my day

MJBOLT:

marry the 4 of them na since you cannot make up your mind.

osayuwamwen:
Am 28yrs and I will say God have really blessed me as a young man, am looking to settling down very very soon but am confused, I have 4 ladies in my life hv been watching the 4 closely on whom to choose for a life partner.

The 1st one is an already established self employed lady she have her own store with girls who are learning in her store, she's not really that cute but her voice is way too cute another thing is that she's not really educated but she's very funny and full of live, I don't think I love her

The 2nd one is still learning work, one thing I love about this girl is she's very quiet, patient and she is 101% loyal she does what ever I tell her to do and she doesn't even complain, this is the girl I can really control as a wife but one thing is she's way too thin but she is very beautiful. Am trying to love her but it is not working

The 3rd one has already finished learning work but not established yet, she is God fearing and committed to the things of God, she is beautiful but one thing I have notice about her is she is just pretending have tested her several times and she failed. I use to love her but not anymore

The 4th one, this one is not really my girl friend but i have been watching her very closely for over a year now, she sells with her elder sister in the restaurant I eat every morning at work , she is very respectful, decent, beautiful thin but not too thin just my kind of woman, this is the girl I really love with all my heart but am having trouble approaching her because she always busy attending to customers, am a very shy person I don't even know how to start a conversation with her

The first 3 are of same age and they are my girlfriend except this 4th one

Diamond23:
You r in love with the fourth one cux u have not move closer to her buh once u do, I bet you will still find faults with her. Just get to fifth one close by

osayuwamwen:
this is not really abt finding fault as no body is 100% perfect, the thing is I don't have any feelings for any of the 3 girls I've tried to see if I can love any of them but the love is not there even though they hv some good qualities I really needed. Na love b watin matters

then go for the one you love buh just keep plan number 5 should incase if you fall out of love with her