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I Need Help! I Am Not Lucky When It Comes To Relationship. by Tbvxl: 12:22am On Sep 06, 2020
Good morning to you all. Sorry this might be lengthy a bit but you all should accept me for this.
" Why is it that guys with goods hearts are always unlucky in a relationship"?
Well it goes like this. I am 25 years of age and all through my entire life I have ever dated 3 ladies. Of all these ladies,my relationship with them never makes a year. Say for instance if it is about two months or a month that the relationship will make a year,it gets shaky and they get to break up with me.
I'd recollect my first girlfriend broke up with me when it was remaining some weeks the relationship will make a year and she stated " her fellowship in school had asked all its members to break up with with their current spouse (s), I tried everything possible to persuade her to stay yet she insisted.
I moved on with my life and I met another girl ,we dated for a 10 months and yet it happened she broke up with me again.i really asked what happened and she uttered a this statement" You're just too caring and I feel I might end up losing interest in you", actually I was transfixed like wtf! You are breaking up with me cuz I am too caring? Mehn I had no other option than to let go.
Now the worst of it all is the girl I broke up with yesterday.
"We initially met on Facebook sometime last year and I'd say it's been a wonderful moments with her up till last July". My relationship with her is supposed to make a year September 13 but we broke up yesterday September 5. " Why did she have to break up with me "? Was the question that was bugging my mind and I asked her why.
She said she doesn't know why. I then instantly blocked her on Whatsapp and blocked her lines (I hope I didn't act immature here? shocked)
I feel hurt and down embarassed
No one understands me ,not even my foster mum let alone my friends. My world feels down and I feel I just am not wanted by people. I am an unlucky lad that gets so hard to be discerned and understood. I have just made my mind up not to have anything doing with Nigerian girls again shocked,they are not to be trusted undecided.



Any piece of advice rendered would be appreciated.






Seun please help move to front page





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Re: I Need Help! I Am Not Lucky When It Comes To Relationship. by qwertyboss(m): 1:05am On Sep 06, 2020
I see the problem!
So you blocked her just because she's no longer interested and don't know why!
Baba keep on trying, you are giving up on the third girl, look what have you learned from those three girls? Use it to adjust for the next relationship: do not be too nice etc...
Abeg who girlfriend elp self. Me wey want celebrate 29th birthday no ever date one single girl!
Guy move on, get another girl... Good luck

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Re: I Need Help! I Am Not Lucky When It Comes To Relationship. by Tbvxl: 1:09am On Sep 06, 2020
qwertyboss:
I see the problem!
So you blocked her just because she's no longer interested and don't know why!
Baba keep on trying, you are giving up on the third girl, look what have you learned from those three girls? Use it to adjust for the next relationship: do not be too nice etc...
Abeg who girlfriend elp self. Me wey want celebrate 29th birthday no ever date one single girl!
Guy move on, get another girl... Good luck









Thank you big bro lipsrsealed
Re: I Need Help! I Am Not Lucky When It Comes To Relationship. by DaddyRochie1642: 1:50am On Sep 06, 2020
qwertyboss:
I see the problem!
So you blocked her just because she's no longer interested and don't know why!
Baba keep on trying, you are giving up on the third girl, look what have you learned from those three girls? Use it to adjust for the next relationship: do not be too nice etc...
Abeg who girlfriend elp self. Me wey want celebrate 29th birthday no ever date one single girl!
Guy move on, get another girl... Good luck v




You're telling him to get another girl yet you just said that you have never dated a girl before,

Oga to slap you dey hungry me grin grin
Re: I Need Help! I Am Not Lucky When It Comes To Relationship. by stanliwise(m): 1:58am On Sep 06, 2020
Tbvxl:
Good morning to you all. Sorry this might be lengthy a bit but you all should accept me for this.
" Why is it that guys with goods hearts are always unlucky in a relationship"?
Well it goes like this. I am 25 years of age and all through my entire life I have ever dated 3 ladies. Of all these ladies,my relationship with them never makes a year. Say for instance if it is about two months or a month that the relationship will make a year,it gets shaky and they get to break up with me.
I'd recollect my first girlfriend broke up with me when it was remaining some weeks the relationship will make a year and she stated " her fellowship in school had asked all its members to break up with with their current spouse (s), I tried everything possible to persuade her to stay yet she insisted.
I moved on with my life and I met another girl ,we dated for a 10 months and yet it happened she broke up with me again.i really asked what happened and she uttered a this statement" You're just too caring and I feel I might end up losing interest in you", actually I was transfixed like wtf! You are breaking up with me cuz I am too caring? Mehn I had no other option than to let go.
Now the worst of it all is the girl I broke up with yesterday.
"We initially met on Facebook sometime last year and I'd say it's been a wonderful moments with her up till last July". My relationship with her is supposed to make a year September 13 but we broke up yesterday September 5. " Why did she have to break up with me "? Was the question that was bugging my mind and I asked her why.
She said she doesn't know why. I then instantly blocked her on Whatsapp and blocked her lines (I hope I didn't act immature here? shocked)
I feel hurt and down embarassed
No one understands me ,not even my foster mum let alone my friends. My world feels down and I feel I just am not wanted by people. I am an unlucky lad that gets so hard to be discerned and understood. I have just made my mind up not to have anything doing with Nigerian girls again shocked,they are not to be trusted undecided.



Any piece of advice rendered would be appreciated.






Seun please help move to front page
They have advised you that you are too caring..
so what advice do you need again.
Join one strong cult ASAP
Re: I Need Help! I Am Not Lucky When It Comes To Relationship. by Nobody: 2:16am On Sep 06, 2020
one of the ladies u dated have already told u ur problem why girls run away from u
u are too caring
start being unpredictable and spontanous
stop being too caring
stop calling girls on phone in the morning or sending them morning chats asking how they are or if they have eaten
stop sending endless messages telling them how u miss them and bla
be unpredictable and dont be too needy

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Re: I Need Help! I Am Not Lucky When It Comes To Relationship. by krushdripper(m): 6:32am On Sep 06, 2020
lefulefu:
one of the ladies u dated have already told u ur problem why girls run away from u
u are too caring
start being unpredictable and spontanous
stop being too caring
stop calling girls on phone in the morning or sending them morning chats asking how they are or if they have eaten
stop sending endless messages telling them how u miss them and bla
be unpredictable and dont be too needy
On point.They get jealous when you care a lot about them, it's like you're enjoying them toomuch so they have to rob you of that pleasure.

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Re: I Need Help! I Am Not Lucky When It Comes To Relationship. by BigDick70inch(m): 7:07am On Sep 06, 2020
Tbvxl:
Good morning to you all. Sorry this might be lengthy a bit but you all should accept me for this.
" Why is it that guys with goods hearts are always unlucky in a relationship"?
Well it goes like this. I am 25 years of age and all through my entire life I have ever dated 3 ladies. Of all these ladies,my relationship with them never makes a year. Say for instance if it is about two months or a month that the relationship will make a year,it gets shaky and they get to break up with me.
I'd recollect my first girlfriend broke up with me when it was remaining some weeks the relationship will make a year and she stated " her fellowship in school had asked all its members to break up with with their current spouse (s), I tried everything possible to persuade her to stay yet she insisted.
I moved on with my life and I met another girl ,we dated for a 10 months and yet it happened she broke up with me again.i really asked what happened and she uttered a this statement" You're just too caring and I feel I might end up losing interest in you", actually I was transfixed like wtf! You are breaking up with me cuz I am too caring? Mehn I had no other option than to let go.
Now the worst of it all is the girl I broke up with yesterday.
"We initially met on Facebook sometime last year and I'd say it's been a wonderful moments with her up till last July". My relationship with her is supposed to make a year September 13 but we broke up yesterday September 5. " Why did she have to break up with me "? Was the question that was bugging my mind and I asked her why.
She said she doesn't know why. I then instantly blocked her on Whatsapp and blocked her lines (I hope I didn't act immature here? shocked)
I feel hurt and down embarassed
No one understands me ,not even my foster mum let alone my friends. My world feels down and I feel I just am not wanted by people. I am an unlucky lad that gets so hard to be discerned and understood. I have just made my mind up not to have anything doing with Nigerian girls again shocked,they are not to be trusted undecided.



Any piece of advice rendered would be appreciated.






Seun please help move to front page

Now am not gon call u simp..
It hurt me so much when I see cool and nice guys going thru this...
.
Bro..
Girls don't want a guy who wouldnt stress or maltreat them atleast a Lil..

Wouldn't say..u sud stop yo caring attitude..but then limit that to your friends and family okay??

Girls..of nowadays appreciate you been an asshole than being good okay??

Now imagine someone saying your offense is"over caring"..

See..they still gon come back to you but do not accept them Oo..

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Re: I Need Help! I Am Not Lucky When It Comes To Relationship. by Tbvxl: 8:22am On Sep 06, 2020
lefulefu:
one of the ladies u dated have already told u ur problem why girls run away from u
u are too caring
start being unpredictable and spontanous
stop being too caring
stop calling girls on phone in the morning or sending them morning chats asking how they are or if they have eaten
stop sending endless messages telling them how u miss them and bla
be unpredictable and dont be too needy






I guess that's what I am gonna have to do now.
Stop being Caring
Re: I Need Help! I Am Not Lucky When It Comes To Relationship. by stanliwise(m): 8:23am On Sep 06, 2020
BigDick70inch:


Now am not gon call u simp..
It hurt me so much when I see cool and nice guys going thru this...
.
Bro..
Girls don't want a guy who wouldnt stress or maltreat them atleast a Lil..

Wouldn't say..u sud stop yo caring attitude..but then limit that to your friends and family okay??

Girls..of nowadays appreciate you been an asshole than being good okay??

Now imagine someone saying your offense is"over caring"..

See..they still gon come back to you but do not accept them Oo.. [/b]
Op is making some mistake but you’re worse.
When women says you’re too caring it means you are not leaving them to do things for themselves and handle their own issues.
It doesn’t mean the rubbish you are talking about.
No go enter trouble o
Re: I Need Help! I Am Not Lucky When It Comes To Relationship. by Tbvxl: 8:23am On Sep 06, 2020
BigDick70inch:


Now am not gon call u simp..
It hurt me so much when I see cool and nice guys going thru this...
.
Bro..
Girls don't want a guy who wouldnt stress or maltreat them atleast a Lil..

Wouldn't say..u sud stop yo caring attitude..but then limit that to your friends and family okay??

Girls..of nowadays appreciate you been an asshole than being good okay??

Now imagine someone saying your offense is"over caring"..

See..they still gon come back to you but do not accept them Oo..





Thank you bro

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