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.. by Nobody: 7:46am On Sep 12, 2020
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Re: .. by Ahmed0336(m): 7:49am On Sep 12, 2020
hehe

Please how old are you again

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Re: .. by Bennysam: 7:51am On Sep 12, 2020
Continue
Re: .. by Nobody: 7:53am On Sep 12, 2020
Ahmed0336:
hehe
Please how old are you again
am 21
Re: .. by mosdii(m): 7:54am On Sep 12, 2020
First of all, you tell her blatantly that you are straight and that you can't do what she wants with you.
Keeping her as a friend or discarding her depends on if she respects your decision.
Re: .. by luminouz(m): 7:54am On Sep 12, 2020
LIES!!!

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Re: .. by Nobody: 7:55am On Sep 12, 2020
mosdii:
First of all, you tell her blatantly that you are straight and that you can't do what she wants with you.
Keeping her as a friend or discarding her depends on if she respects your decision.

thanks
Re: .. by Nobody: 7:56am On Sep 12, 2020
luminouz:
LIES!!!
not a lie.

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Re: .. by Ahmed0336(m): 7:56am On Sep 12, 2020
Kelechiprepre:
am 21

Your mom married your dad so she could have you and probably your siblings it is expected you follow your mom's footsteps. If you keep that girl as a friend you may end up becoming something else.


CUT HER OFF.

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Re: .. by Wronggee(m): 7:57am On Sep 12, 2020
My advice for you, is to give her space and focus your energy on more better things
Re: .. by MajesticKris: 7:57am On Sep 12, 2020
For Advice on this topic....
We need more Proff..
We need to know if you' look attractive...
We also need to know if she's doing it with you alone or not...

Check my handle and send me a mail.. for further Advice
Re: .. by Nobody: 7:57am On Sep 12, 2020
Ahmed0336:


Your mom married your dad so she could have you and probably your siblings it is expected you follow your mom's footsteps. If you keep that girl as a friend you may end up becoming something else.


CUT HER OFF.
thanks. I will do so

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Re: .. by Nobody: 7:58am On Sep 12, 2020
Wronggee:
My advice for you, is to give her space and focus your energy on more better things
owk
Re: .. by Nobody: 8:00am On Sep 12, 2020
MajesticKris:
For Advice on this topic....
We need more Proff..
We need to know if you' look attractive...
We also need to know if she's doing it with you alone or not...

Check my handle and send me a mail.. for further Advice
why all this. I only need advice. beside is this issue that made me sign in nairaland. if u check I just joined today but I hve been a member since but I did not sign in
Re: .. by MajesticKris: 8:03am On Sep 12, 2020
Advice is ... Stay far from her.. She has the Characteristics of a LeZ.B


Kelechiprepre:
why all this. I only need advice. beside is this issue that made me sign in nairaland. if u check I just joined today but I hve been a member since but I did not sign in
Re: .. by Nobody: 8:03am On Sep 12, 2020
Re: .. by 2buffagain(m): 8:08am On Sep 12, 2020
Please don't let things like this tarnish your destiny.

It is already clear that this will not be a true friendship given that encounter.
If you keep her around, you'll just be keeping her as competition to your actual straight relationship.

Friendship is not by force.
This is how girls keep some friends who keep trying to sabotage their relationship.
You cannot keep friendship with another girl who wants to be more than a friend.

Free her for your sake and hers.
You both can be acquintances. You don't have to keep malice or any of all that.
But a friend, according to the way women have girl friends, is likely not the best path.
Only the type of "friend" that comes from you friendzoning a guy, is possible here.
Re: .. by MJBOLT: 8:10am On Sep 12, 2020
another new account with more tales.

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Re: .. by Mjshexy(f): 8:11am On Sep 12, 2020
Cut her off completely & stay away from her. sad
Re: .. by Blackmann001: 8:16am On Sep 12, 2020
Sh is just losing..sh is lez....simply cuz her away cuz that her feeling is for real and she would always come after your body since you will feel free around her cuz of same gender..

Simply cut her off
Re: .. by vickydankal(f): 8:18am On Sep 12, 2020
Kelechiprepre:
am 21

If you are really 21 then you must have jumped some level of common sense that comes with age. You need to go back to and repeat class. If you could ask this question about a woman what if it’s a gut that wants to force you ?
Re: .. by Nobody: 8:20am On Sep 12, 2020
2buffagain:
Please don't let things like this tarnish your destiny.

It is already clear that this will not be a true friendship given that encounter.
If you keep her around, you'll just be keeping her as competition to your actual straight relationship.

Friendship is not by force.
This is how girls keep some friends who keep trying to sabotage their relationship.
You cannot keep friendship with another girl who wants to be more than a friend.

Free her for your sake and hers.
You both can be acquintances. You don't have to keep malice or any of all that.
But a friend, according to the way women have girl friends, is likely not the best path.
Only the type of "friend" that comes from you friendzoning a guy, is possible here.
thank you so much. God bless u sir. I will do so
Re: .. by heendrix(m): 8:21am On Sep 12, 2020
Kelechiprepre:
been trying to make a topic since morning. this site so confusing..

BUT I NEED ADVISE PLEASE..

WE HAVE BEEN FRIENDS FOR 2MONTHS NOW AND SHE'S BEEN BEGIN ME TO COME N SPEND WEEKEND IN THER HOUSE.

YESTERDAY FRIDAY MORNING I WENT TO THER 4 D WEEKED SO IN THE NIGHT I NOTICED THAT SOME ONE WAS KISSING ME AND TRYING TO TOUCH MY PRIVATE PART SO I WOKE UP AND I WAS IN SHOCK BECAUSE IS MY FRIEND.. I ASK HER WAS THIS AND SHE SAID SHE HAS FEELINGS 4 ME AND SHE CAN'T CONTROL HER SELF. I ASK HER IF SHE IS A LESBIAN BUT SHE SAID NO THEN I SAID SHE SHOULD STOP. SHE STARTED BEGIN ME THAT SHE IS IS NOT A LIZ BUT AM SO ATTRACTED TO HER. SHE TRY TO FORCE ME BUT I TOLD HER THAT I WILL SHOUT N CALL HER MUM N DAD SO SHE GOT ANGRY AND WENT TO THE SETTING SITTING ROOM TO SLEEP. I HAD TO LEAVE THER HOUSE THIS MORNING..

SHE'S BEEN CALLING MY LINE BUT I DONT WANT TO PICK


MY QUESTION IS..

SHOULD I STILL KEEP HER AS FRIEND OR STAY AWAY AND AVOID HER TOTALLY
Re: .. by Nobody: 8:22am On Sep 12, 2020
Blackmann001:
Sh is just losing..sh is lez....simply cuz her away cuz that her feeling is for real and she would always come after your body since you will feel free around her cuz of same gender..

Simply cut her off
okay I will. God bless u
Re: .. by Iceyjayzz(m): 8:22am On Sep 12, 2020
Mjshexy:
Cut her off completely & stay away from her. sad
Humility and simplicity for mouth
Re: .. by Nobody: 8:24am On Sep 12, 2020
vickydankal:


If you are really 21 then you must have jumped some level of common sense that comes with age. You need to go back to and repeat class. If you could ask this question about a woman what if it’s a gut that wants to force you ?
insult me if u want.. I made a mistake to sign in her and ask for advise
Re: .. by Iceyjayzz(m): 8:24am On Sep 12, 2020
Kelechiprepre:
been trying to make a topic since morning. this site so confusing..

BUT I NEED ADVISE PLEASE..

WE HAVE BEEN FRIENDS FOR 2MONTHS NOW AND SHE'S BEEN BEGIN ME TO COME N SPEND WEEKEND IN THER HOUSE.

YESTERDAY FRIDAY MORNING I WENT TO THER 4 D WEEKED SO IN THE NIGHT I NOTICED THAT SOME ONE WAS KISSING ME AND TRYING TO TOUCH MY PRIVATE PART SO I WOKE UP AND I WAS IN SHOCK BECAUSE IS MY FRIEND.. I ASK HER WAS THIS AND SHE SAID SHE HAS FEELINGS 4 ME AND SHE CAN'T CONTROL HER SELF. I ASK HER IF SHE IS A LESBIAN BUT SHE SAID NO THEN I SAID SHE SHOULD STOP. SHE STARTED BEGIN ME THAT SHE IS IS NOT A LIZ BUT AM SO ATTRACTED TO HER. SHE TRY TO FORCE ME BUT I TOLD HER THAT I WILL SHOUT N CALL HER MUM N DAD SO SHE GOT ANGRY AND WENT TO THE SETTING ROOM TO SLEEP. I HAD TO LEAV THER HOUSE THIS MORNING..

SHE'S BEEN CALLING MY LINE BUT I DONT WANT TO PICK


MY QUESTION IS..

SHOULD I STILL KEEP HER AS FRIEND OR STAY AWAY AND AVOID HER TOTALLY
She want to initiate you into lesbianism, run away as fast as you can.
Re: .. by Nobody: 8:28am On Sep 12, 2020
THANKS EVERY ONE 4 THE ADVISE AND GOD WILL BLESS U ALL.. I WILL STAT CLEAR FROM HER. GOD BLESS U ALL

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Re: .. by Mjshexy(f): 5:43pm On Sep 12, 2020
Iceyjayzz:
Humility and simplicity for mouth
Na u sabi, birds of the same feather undecided
Re: .. by Nobody: 4:25pm On Sep 14, 2020
Kelechiprepre:
...
Hello I saw your topic.

I think it is very wrong for someone to touch you while asleep (Male or Female) - but we all make mistakes and you can't just let go of a good friendship (depending on how close you are) because of single issue.

I think you should pick her call and listen to what she has to say, it's likely she wants to apologise.

Give the friendship another chance (if you can forgive) and tell her you aren't interested in her sexual advances. If you feel uncomfortable, kindly tell her you prefer to keep your distance.

Also keep in mind that her touching you doesnt make her a lesbian, she could be trying to discover herself sexually.

Please, do not tell her friends or family she's a lesbian (that's not conclusive evidence and you can't do that to someone).

Take care.

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