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by XXMML33: 9:40am On Sep 12, 2020
Re: by Slawormir: 9:42am On Sep 12, 2020
Damnnnnn niggarrr
When a woman loves she loves for real
They can move mountains for you and even behave like zombie

But when they decide to move on.......ehnnnn

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Re: by Jafar1: 9:43am On Sep 12, 2020
Ur crush who always ignore u is also being ignored by another person....
Everybody get mumu button but this her own is high...
I see no reason whatsoever to remain glued to a person who plainly have no interest in u...
But then, when a woman is really into a guy, she can tolerate hell just to keep him.. Don't know why


Wait!!, Is the guy very rich??
Re: by donbachi(m): 9:45am On Sep 12, 2020
If na me dey friend her,she for dey claim wiseness..make she chop dat thing she see there.
Re: by baralatie(m): 9:45am On Sep 12, 2020
it is the dark side of women/girls/females who find themselves in an abusive relationship with a partner.wether the abuse is physical,mental or emotional or psychological.


Abusive partners usually act out as slave Masters and do everything to the slaved partner to remain in one form of bondage or another.
Re: by Kendaboss(m): 9:47am On Sep 12, 2020
Only women with low self esteem behaves this way.

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Re: by baralatie(m): 9:47am On Sep 12, 2020
donbachi:
If na me dey friend her,she for dey claim wiseness..make she chop dat thing she see there.
this is an an example of a tactic used by some

it is called emotional blackmail
Re: by decatalyst(m): 9:48am On Sep 12, 2020
But why stress yourself about this?


Dog wey go loss no dey hear hunters warning whistle.

Re: by bodybuilder: 9:49am On Sep 12, 2020
because women get sexually attracted to you when you treat them like trash. It's biology.

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Re: by DICKstractor: 9:51am On Sep 12, 2020
There are some ladies who abuse turns them on

Generally, girls love guys that don't care about them even when they are physically beautiful and endowed

They hate simp guys that wants to do everything in their power to please them. Simp guys like those who send the gifts, bug them with love messages, quotes and poem, send them messages like
THANKS FOR ACCEPTANCE
MY BEAUTIFUL QUEEN, THANKS FOR ACCEPTATION OF MY FRIEND REQUEST
You can meet this kind of guys on Facebook with their totally poor English and misrepresentation of the dick gender

If you want to get a girl, just make her feel like she's nothing special. Let her feel she's like every other random girl you meet out there.

With that, she will like to stick around and explore you because you are not like every other guys that worships her like a goddies that she isn't

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Re: by Deborah98(f): 9:52am On Sep 12, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
When a woman loves she loves for real
They can move mountains for you and even behave like zombie

But when they decide to move on.......ehnnnn


nothing changes their mind,not even your tears,well spoken...
Re: by baralatie(m): 9:52am On Sep 12, 2020
Kendaboss:
Only women with low self esteem behaves this way.
no that is partly false.although one would claim low esteem but in reality the partner who is the abuser plays out the actions to generate the reaction of insecurity in the abuser partner.
Therefore even if you have a woman with high esteem and she finds herself with an abuser.she will develop low esteem because of the various barrage of physical,emotional,pyschological and mental attacks on her.
Re: by baralatie(m): 9:57am On Sep 12, 2020
DICKstractor:
There are some ladies who abuse turns them on

Generally, girls love guys that don't care about them even when they are physically beautiful and endowed
that is exactly exactly a misnorm.

a woman been comfortable with abuse as been claimed by some people only proves that the woman has been involved in an abusive relationship before and the scared are still there.
what people overlook at these types of women is the end of the charade.what do these subgroup of women do to their abusers in turn.

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Re: by usj(m): 9:58am On Sep 12, 2020
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Re: by fati2001(m): 10:07am On Sep 12, 2020
nah person say make dem treat lik animal... since they no get single sense.
Re: by Nobody: 10:10am On Sep 12, 2020
The guy likely has personality disorder (might be a psychopath, sociopath, narcissist), he has completely manipulated the girl.

How they start: Love bombing - they shower love, care n affection on the innocent partner at the beginning, the partner thinks this is real, whereas they are exact opposite of what they display, and this is where the problem lies.
They do not love anyone apart from themselves because they don't have the ability to love. They're emotionally unhealthy.

Wen they notice the partner is into them, then, they start to devalue the partner. The partner will now start doubting his/her sanity : Is this not the man/woman I knew b4 now?

They are always happy seeing their partner in pain and knowing they caused the pain, they like to dominate/control, but the partner wud av bn completely brainwashed. They keep gaslighting: blaming the partner for their own fault and they will never say sorry.... It goes on and on like that.

It is more than what u see, it's just like bn hypnotized.

Only if the girl explain herself will it be clear the exact personality disorder the guy has. Anyone it is however, the best she could do is to RUN for her dear life. Those people are EVIL.

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Re: by baralatie(m): 10:41am On Sep 12, 2020
sherylbakky:
The guy likely has personality disorder (might be a psychopath, sociopath, narcissist), he has completely manipulated the girl.

How they start: Love bombing - they shower love, care n affection on the innocent partner at the beginning, the partner thinks this is real, whereas they are exact opposite of what they display, and this is where the problem lies.
They do not love anyone apart from themselves because they don't have the ability to love. They're emotionally unhealthy.

Wen they notice the partner is into them, then, they start to devalue the partner. The partner will now start doubting his/her sanity : Is this not the man/woman I knew b4 now?

They are always happy seeing their partner in pain and knowing they caused the pain, they like to dominate/control, but the partner wud av bn completely brainwashed. They keep gaslighting: blaming the partner for their own fault and they will never say sorry.... It goes on and on like that.

It is more than what u see, it's just like bn hypnotized.

Only if the girl explain herself will it be clear the exact personality disorder the guy has. Anyone it is however, the best she could do is to RUN for her dear life. Those people are EVIL.
that is just one form there is still other forms been decided and is been used by abusive partners
Re: by CHIMaaaah(m): 10:43am On Sep 12, 2020
she must be benefiting from the relationship, girls are snake..... very cunning creatures, they can do anything hence they're satisfied financially or maybe your friend is evening newspaper angry angry sad

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Re: by MJBOLT: 10:44am On Sep 12, 2020
na nigerian girls mumu button be that,treat them like trash and they will adore you like a treasure.
Re: by Kendaboss(m): 10:47am On Sep 12, 2020
You're not far from the truth though. The female mind is a complicated one
baralatie:

no that is partly false.although one would claim low esteem but in reality the partner who is the abuser plays out the actions to generate the reaction of insecurity in the abuser partner.
Therefore even if you have a woman with high esteem and she finds herself with an abuser.she will develop low esteem because of the various barrage of physical,emotional,pyschological and mental attacks on her.

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Re: by baralatie(m): 10:50am On Sep 12, 2020
Kendaboss:
You're not far from the truth though. The female mind is a complicated one
it also Goes the other way around in men with abusive women as partners!
Re: by Vyzz: 11:25am On Sep 12, 2020
grin



The girl is a SIMP
Re: by Nobody: 4:30pm On Sep 12, 2020
baralatie:

that is just one form there is still other forms been decided and is been used by abusive partners
Whichever form it is, the secret still lies in Love Bombing otherwise called Idealization- The first phase of all the methods used by abusers. This phase is full of deceit, because they deceive their partner they are completely good, causing the partner to be manipulated. Whereas they're opposite and they lack empathy and love, their aim is destruction.

This phase lies their strength and the partner's weakness.

This first phase is where the innocent partner's brain will focus on, thinking he/she must have done something wrong to make the person who is emotionally unhealthy an Abuser. In the process, the innocent partner will not just be hoping for a change but will also be waiting for the change which is never going to happen. This is because his/her brain has been stucked in the "deceitful love at the beginning".
Therefore, will continue hoping the abuser will change back to this very first phase, thinking everyone is empathetic and emotionally balance like him/her (I mean the innocent partner).

And the change the innocent partners await(which will never happen) is the reason they stay in the abusive relationship.

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Re: by lagusboyyy(m): 4:55pm On Sep 12, 2020
sherylbakky:
The guy likely has personality disorder (might be a psychopath, sociopath, narcissist), he has completely manipulated the girl.

How they start: Love bombing - they shower love, care n affection on the innocent partner at the beginning, the partner thinks this is real, whereas they are exact opposite of what they display, and this is where the problem lies.
They do not love anyone apart from themselves because they don't have the ability to love. They're emotionally unhealthy.

Wen they notice the partner is into them, then, they start to devalue the partner. The partner will now start doubting his/her sanity : Is this not the man/woman I knew b4 now?

They are always happy seeing their partner in pain and knowing they caused the pain, they like to dominate/control, but the partner wud av bn completely brainwashed. They keep gaslighting: blaming the partner for their own fault and they will never say sorry.... It goes on and on like that.

It is more than what u see, it's just like bn hypnotized.

Only if the girl explain herself will it be clear the exact personality disorder the guy has. Anyone it is however, the best she could do is to RUN for her dear life. Those people are EVIL.
Two words for you :


ON POINT!

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Re: by baralatie(m): 5:22pm On Sep 12, 2020
sherylbakky:
Whichever form it is, the secret still lies in Love Bombing otherwise called Idealization- The first phase of all the methods used by abusers. This phase is full of deceit, because they deceive their partner they are completely good, causing the partner to be manipulated. Whereas they're opposite and they lack empathy and love, their aim is destruction.

This phase lies their strength and the partner's weakness.

This first phase is where the innocent partner's brain will focus on, thinking he/she must have done something wrong to make the person who is emotionally unhealthy an Abuser. In the process, the innocent partner will not just be hoping for a change but will also be waiting for the change which is never going to happen. This is because his/her brain has been stucked in the "deceitful love at the beginning".
Therefore, will continue hoping the abuser will change back to this very first phase, thinking everyone is empathetic and emotionally balance like him/her (I mean the innocent partner).

And the change the innocent partners await(which will never happen) is the reason they stay in the abusive relationship.
true

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