To be in loved with a girl and start a relationship is a wonderful thing. Long term relationships are usually based on love, trust and honesty. Even if honesty is very important in a relationship, sometimes may be hurtful. There are some things you shouldn’t tell your partner because it may hurt her or make her change the opinion about you.

Even if you love her very much and you are getting close, these things can affect your relationship and should be kept in secret. Sometimes you can best show her your love by keeping your mouth shut. So, before you start telling her somethings, you should look at these things that may destroy your relationship.

1. Never tell her if your family doesn’t like her
Even if your family dislike her, it is better to not tell her because she will get angry and insecure. This will create future problems and tension between her and your family. If you truly love her, all you can do is to let your family know that she is the one you have chosen, and they have to respect your decision. Try to make them change their minds about her.

2. Never tell her she is getting fat
Even if this is true, please don’t tell her this. It will make her feel very bad and she will think that you don’t like her anymore. Think about how she would feel, and you can say: ” honey, let try to lose a little weight ”. Let her decide when is the time to lose weight because she will do it without you hurting her.

3. Don’t criticize her when she is trying to do her best
This is the worst thing you can do. If she sees that she is trying hard to do the things fine and you begin criticizing her, she would feel disappointed that you don’t know to appreciate her for the fact that she is trying her best. So, you should get over it, and you can help her in doing that job. Maybe next time she’ll be doing better.

4. Don’t tell her how your mother would have done things
I know that for men their mothers always represent a model in life, but we must admit that all the families are different. So, we have been raised by different kinds of parents and in different ways of life. Everyone is taught to do things in their ways and that’s why you can’t ask your girlfriend to do things or to live like your mother. A woman can have her views and opinions, and all you can do about this is to tell her stories about how you were raised and how things have been done in your family. You should adapt at this new way of life, without comparing her with your mom.

5. Don’t remind her about your ex in a special moment
Never ever compare your dating nights or things you do together with the ones you have done with your ex, don’t remind her that. It is a hurtful thing for her to see that you are still thinking about the other.

6. Don’t tell her some bad things you have done in the past
If she doesn’t find out already, you better keep your mouth shut; it is in your favor. If you tell her that you have cheated your past girlfriends, for example, she will have a totally bad opinion about you, and fell disappointed. So, these things you shouldn’t disclose.

7. Never tell her that a football game is more important for you than her
Even if is an important game, don’t tell her to let you alone in that moment because you are busy and don’t have time for her. You better smile and pretend that you are listening to her too and try to catch the key words. She might ask you one or two things to test you.

8.Don’t ask her to relax when she is very angry
When she is very upset, scared, or very angry the worst thing you can do is to..... Continue read here https://daybydaylifelessons.com/10-things-you-should-never-tell-your-partner/

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1. Never tell her if your family doesn’t like her

ARRANT NONSENSE #1
If your family does not like her then let her know exactly what's going on and why, and don't try to pretend that they like her while they will act in a disrespectful manner in front of her. There is nothing wrong with someone not liking your partner, so long as everyone knows what time it is. Expecting everyone to like your woman is foolish. Ultimately, you will have to take a decision whether to stand by your woman or stand by your family who doesn't respect your woman.

2. Never tell her she is getting fat

ARRANT NONSENSE #2
How can your woman get back to her best shape, if you don't tell her when she is getting fat, and pretend that all is well?! Telling her she is Puttng on weight should be the push needed for her to get a hold of herself, and head to the gym and/or go on some diet

3. Don’t criticize her when she is trying to do her best

ARRANT NONSENSE #3
There is a dfference between criticizing someone and advising her how she could improve something. If her best is not good enough, then let her know exactly that, instead of pretending that all is great, while she continue doing what she does poorly. You should not be afraid to be fully honest to your partner... And your woman shouldn't expect any less than 110% honesty from you.

4. Don’t tell her how your mother would have done things

ARRANT NONSENSE #4
If you guys are not good at something, then there is nothing wrong with taking in consideration or comparing it to how our parents did it greatly... Whether it be your/her father or mother.

6. Don’t tell her some bad things you have done in the past

ARRANT NONSENSE #5
This is Your past and probably the reason why you are who you are today, so your woman should fully know exactly what you did in the past, so that she fully knows you and can act accordingly and/or understand why you act in certain ways. The only way a r/ship will work is if you fully well know the person you are sharing your life with.

7. Never tell her that a football game is more important for you than her

ARRANT NONSENSE #6
There is a time for everything in life.. And as much as your family is important, and most of your time is spent with/for them, there are time when a football match would be important for you to watch, and therefore they will have to forget you for about 2hs, and there is nothing wrong with that. Just like women forget us when they go on these shopping spree for hours.

8.Don’t ask her to relax when she is very angry

ARRANT NONSENSE #7
Whatever you say to an angry woman is irrelevant anyway, so just be quiet and let her get the steam off... She will eventually get tired and be quiet.