Well long story short
In trying to buttress the fact that my ex was holy, a guy in the neighborhood counter those points by showing me nude pics of her she send to his friend.
I'm deeply flabbergasted and in fact sorry for her.

Modify: I just confronted her to know the reasons for her action and it happens that it's a case of blackmailing.
This is the story.
She has a Facebook account which her younger sis was using, sometimes.
There was a guy that sends his nudes to the said sis and trick the sis to send hers.
Well she did send her and he ended up asking for more including that of my ex.
According to her"my ex", he said he will send those pics to her family members if they refuse to comply. So out of fear, they continue sending the pictures.
The problem now is, they guy that showed me the picture refuse to tell me who send him.
Well I threaten to get him arrested if he didn't.
But nairalanders, what advice will you give in this situation

Do you enter her toto b4 u break up because that's the key

WallStreetfx:
Do you enter her toto b4 u break up because that's the key

nope!!! I wanted to marry her but our relationship was cut short cuz my mother didn't approve her and we quit.

The stupid thing she did was showing her face.

You are broken up and her level of holiness is still causing you sleepless nights
Are you a monitoring spirit?

Sadiqali24:
nope!!! I wanted to marry her but our relationship was cut short cuz my mother didn't approve her and we quit.

Sorry bro. Do you still have her number, I want to try something.

Faithfulness, the most essential ingredient of happy marriage, is fast going into extinction. God save this generation!

9jamustchange:
Faithfulness, the most essential ingredient of happy marriage, is fast going into extinction. God save this generation!

we have broke up before the incident. I'm just surprise, honestly.

WallStreetfx:


Sorry bro. Do you still have her number, I want to try something.

bad guy! Nope, I don't.

Rather than rushing to try arrest the guy, get your facts right. You just have to make sure the Girl is not trying to justify her actions.

There is more to the story.

Sadiqali24:
Well long story short
In trying to buttress the fact that my ex was holy, a guy in the neighborhood counter those points by showing me nude pics of her she send to his friend.
I'm deeply flabbergasted and in fact sorry for her.

Modify: I just confronted her to know the reasons for her action and it happens that it's a case of blackmailing.
This is the story.
She has a Facebook account which her younger sis was using, sometimes.
There was a guy that sends his nudes to the said sis and trick the sis to send hers.
Well she did send her and he ended up asking for more including that of my ex.
According to her"my ex", he said he will send those pics to her family members if they refuse to comply. So out of fear, they continue sending the pictures.
The problem now is, they guy that showed me the picture refuse to tell me who send him.
Well I threaten to get him arrested if he didn't.
But nairalanders, what advice will you give in this situation

Before you take any side, make sure the story you were told is actually TRUE... Thus ask your girl to open her FB in front of you so you can see the discussion between the lil sis and dude, and when he started to blackmail her. Only then can you take a copy and go face the dude.... Putting yourself on the line because of some "he say she say" BS is not wise.