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Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by justiniyke29: 2:51pm On Sep 27, 2020
Sorry if its a bit long.
About twn months ago i noticed my girlfriend wasnt really the same anymore, we have being dating for over a year since she did her IT where i worked sometimes last year. I couldnt exactly place what was wrong but it was like she suddenly was always busy and had one excuse or the other.
I knew something was up and i asked her but it was the same talk about how i am just imagining it. like 4 weeks ago she came visiting and i was going through her gallery and i was shocked that there wasnt even any of my pictures talkless of the ones we snapped together whenever i take her outings(i actually love going outings and travelling to fun spots), i asked what happened and she said she dont value pictures, after the argument she said she wasnt interested in the relationship because i didnt understand her or trust her.
She apologised the next day and we met after that, when she wasnt looking i went through her phone and saw series of chats between her and a guy on whatsapp and she even told him
Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by Jafar1: 2:53pm On Sep 27, 2020
Waste of time..
True love only exist between parents and their children..

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Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by justiniyke29: 2:56pm On Sep 27, 2020
And she even told him she loved him and all those mushy nonsense. I knew immediately that she was just lying to me but decided to ask her who he was and she said he was just a friend she met on facebook.
Like seriously i just dont get why play with people's heart, if you are tired or have found someone else why not say so instead of following one little boy that would be greeting me sir if he sees me.

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Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by justiniyke29: 2:59pm On Sep 27, 2020
Jafar1:
Waste of time..
True love only exist between parents and their children..
as in, the painful thing is that i was actually serious with her and she was using my phone and airtime to mess around. Phone i should have given my baby sister self
Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by Kriss216: 3:14pm On Sep 27, 2020
The earlier you guys understand that one guy is not enough for an average Nigerian girl, the better for una sanity.

Your beloved girlfriend deleted your photos cos she went to spend some quality time with her new catch and she already told the guy she's single.


Sane people always stay away from Nigerian girls!

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Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by Kriss216: 3:20pm On Sep 27, 2020
justiniyke29:
as in, the painful thing is that i was actually serious with her and she was using my phone and airtime to mess around. Phone i should have given my baby sister self
Chai cry cry

Your baby sister must be ashamed of you.

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Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by justiniyke29: 3:31pm On Sep 27, 2020
Kriss216:

Chai cry cry

My baby sister must be ashamed of you.
Lol it hasnt reach that level as she is still my pet
Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by DaddyRochie1642: 3:54pm On Sep 27, 2020
justiniyke29:
And she even told him she loved him and all those mushy nonsense. I knew immediately that she was just lying to me but decided to ask her who he was and she said he was just a friend she met on facebook.
Like seriously i just dont get why play with people's heart, if you are tired or have found someone else why not say so instead of following one little boy that would be greeting me sir if he sees me.




And you want to buy her because you have Money abi grin grin
Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by justiniyke29: 5:22pm On Sep 27, 2020
DaddyRochie1642:





And you want to buy her because you have Money abi grin grin
she was actually the one who was actually the one crushing on me before i asked her out. she just believes she can do and undo, she believes she is always right
Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by HRHQueenPhil(f): 5:31pm On Sep 27, 2020
Go and make sweet money legitimately ,then look for a good woman, love is overrated

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Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by adegbenga80592: 5:36pm On Sep 27, 2020
:Chai My toddler niece must be shame of you. Lol it hasnt reach that threshold as she is still my dog
Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by justiniyke29: 7:42pm On Sep 27, 2020
HRHQueenPhil:
Go and make sweet money legitimately ,then look for a good woman, love is overrated
hmm the way am seeing it ehn, i might never marry because i cant tolerate lies, cheating and secrets which i have noticed almost every girl has at least one of

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Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Sep 27, 2020
Jafar1:
Waste of time..
[s]True love only exist between parents and their children..[/s]

Not all Parents even love their Children. The best Statement should be "True love only exist between GOD and Humans. Only God can truly love us Unconditionally.....

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Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by Nobody: 7:54pm On Sep 27, 2020
HRHQueenPhil:
Go and make sweet money legitimately ,then look for a good woman, love is overrated

Nonsense!!! every time Go and look for a woman, Woman ko, Women niii mtcheeew. How about You Hoes make money and go look for a righteous man. Rubbish lazy greedy manipulative deceptive lots.......

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Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by Nobody: 7:57pm On Sep 27, 2020
justiniyke29:
hmm the way am seeing it ehn, i might never marry because i cant tolerate lies, cheating and secrets which i have noticed almost every girl has at least one of

We gather dey here Jare. 95% of Shiiithole Women/Ladies are Cheaters, Manipulators, Deceptive, Wicked and Heartless Beings. Their Male beings are the same too but I only accord those ones because they are War frontiers even though many of them have the attributes of their counterparts. Ladies own Is just to show up and start flexing and Jolification with you never minding whatever you went through before you could make things happen. I hope these Males will have Sense one day though.......
Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by iInjureHerYansh: 8:59pm On Sep 27, 2020
justiniyke29:
as in, the painful thing is that i was actually serious with her and she was using my phone and airtime to mess around. Phone i should have given my baby sister self
You're a disgrace to your baby sister angry

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Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by iInjureHerYansh: 9:02pm On Sep 27, 2020
HRHQueenPhil:
Go and make sweet money legitimately ,then look for a good woman, love is overrated
The only thing in nairaland girls' brains embarassed

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Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by HRHQueenPhil(f): 9:11pm On Sep 27, 2020
iInjureHerYansh:
The only thing in nairaland girls' brains embarassed
no, most girls brains..inugo..hard truth

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Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by HRHQueenPhil(f): 9:12pm On Sep 27, 2020
Evolutionlove:


Nonsense!!! every time Go and look for a woman, Woman ko, Women niii mtcheeew. How about You Hoes make money and go look for a righteous man. Rubbish lazy greedy manipulative deceptive lots.......
eeee pain u...small boi..no vex..hear d truth and move forward and don't take ur pain out on me
Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by HRHQueenPhil(f): 9:13pm On Sep 27, 2020
justiniyke29:
hmm the way am seeing it ehn, i might never marry because i cant tolerate lies, cheating and secrets which i have noticed almost every girl has at least one of
marraige is for only matured adults. U are obviously not there yet so be patient..inugo
Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by Nobody: 9:18pm On Sep 27, 2020
HRHQueenPhil:
eeee pain u...small boi..no vex..hear d truth and move forward and don't take ur pain out on me

You this evening newspaper, I hope you are aware you aren't getting any younger. I still have your pictures with me though. I wonder what you will look like now lol......

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Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by HRHQueenPhil(f): 9:23pm On Sep 27, 2020
Evolutionlove:


You this evening newspaper, I hope you are aware you aren't getting any younger. I still have your pictures with me though. I wonder what you will look like now lol......
hotter and so sexy..will drive u crazy
Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by Nobody: 9:58pm On Sep 27, 2020
personally I don't believe in true love. But alot of people do. I've never felt it, some people are not emotional. The love in know is the one based on mutual respect and understanding not emotions.

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Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by GeneralPula: 10:00pm On Sep 27, 2020
Love has always been a rare gift from the beginning of time.. Money exist but no be everybody dey get ham.. Love exist but no be everybody dey get ham..

That’s why, as a man, you shouldn’t bother yourself finding love, except you wanna stress yourself out emotionally. It’s hard to find love than money!

If love needs you, it will find you. Anything aside that is bullshiiiiii
Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by stare: 10:12pm On Sep 27, 2020
justiniyke29:
Sorry if its a bit long.
About twn months ago i noticed my girlfriend wasnt really the same anymore, we have being dating for over a year since she did her IT where i worked sometimes last year. I couldnt exactly place what was wrong but it was like she suddenly was always busy and had one excuse or the other.
I knew something was up and i asked her but it was the same talk about how i am just imagining it. like 4 weeks ago she came visiting and i was going through her gallery and i was shocked that there wasnt even any of my pictures talkless of the ones we snapped together whenever i take her outings(i actually love going outings and travelling to fun spots), i asked what happened and she said she dont value pictures, after the argument she said she wasnt interested in the relationship because i didnt understand her or trust her.
She apologised the next day and we met after that, when she wasnt looking i went through her phone and saw series of chats between her and a guy on whatsapp and she even told him
lol.. Is she from imo state? Around 18 or 19years?
Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by justiniyke29: 11:32pm On Sep 27, 2020
stare:
lol.. Is she from imo state? Around 18 or 19years?
No but am from imo state, why?
Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by Nobody: 11:36pm On Sep 27, 2020
grin op will now be in a situation that he will be unaable to concentrate
be it in school or his workplace he lose concentration
he will now be thinking about this girl 24/7 cos she has removed his pics on social media and is bringing excuses about being busy
better u just forget about the girl and get a new one or just forget about her and give urself a break for now over woman matter and focus on other things
it will be beneficial to u

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Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by justiniyke29: 11:39pm On Sep 27, 2020
lefulefu:
grin op will now be in a situation that he will be unaable to concentrate
be it in school or his workplace he lose concentration
he will now be thinking about this girl 24/7 cos she has removed his pics on social media and is bringing excuses about being busy
better u just forget about the girl and get a new one or just forget about her and give urself a break for now over woman matter and focus on other things
it will be beneficial to u
Easier said than done, the mind is crazy and strays to banished thoughts at odd time
Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by Nobody: 11:40pm On Sep 27, 2020
justiniyke29:
Easier said than done, the mind is crazy and strays to banished thoughts at odd time
flirt with other girls..with time she will be off ur mind.dont isolate urself inside ur room.talk to other girls close to u and the ones on social media

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Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by Chino4NAUTH: 11:55pm On Sep 27, 2020
justiniyke29:
she was actually the one who was actually the one crushing on me before i asked her out. she just believes she can do and undo, she believes she is always right
She's still young... When she reaches 30 she will have sense
Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by Chino4NAUTH: 11:58pm On Sep 27, 2020
Evolutionlove:


Not all Parents even love their Children. The best Statement should be "True love only exist between GOD and Humans. Only God can truly love us Unconditionally.....
The person was right.. He's been factual.. You haven't seen God, so leave that one.. Let us focus on humans.. Stop mentioning God's name in vaịn

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Re: Do Love Exist Or Is Relationship Just A Game Of Convienence? by justiniyke29: 12:02am On Sep 28, 2020
lefulefu:
flirt with other girls..with time she will be off ur mind.dont isolate urself inside ur room.talk to other girls close to u and the ones on social media
Thanks bro, thats what just might help.

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