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| Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by kemisuga(f): 12:03pm On Mar 03, 2011 |
Why is it that most married men dont always use their wedding rings  Is it dat they are not comfortable wit the rings, or Their fingers got fatter, dat the ring could no longer fit in, or They are not proud being married, or They dont value it, or Just a natural norm etc What do you think, is this good |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by tEsLim(m): 12:34pm On Mar 03, 2011 |
THeir fathers' didn't wear it. It became a norm. So no value attached to it |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by kemisuga(f): 12:39pm On Mar 03, 2011 |
@ Slim - Really  |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:02pm On Mar 03, 2011 |
kemisuga: wearing it and using it are different things tell how women use it |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by dave2(m): 1:15pm On Mar 03, 2011 |
I wear mine but i pull it off immediately i get home. I always wear it when am going out. I never used any till i married. So, to some, they may not be used to it. Whenever i wear mine, it constantly reminds me of my marriage vows and also reminds me of a beautiful wifey waiting for me at home after work  |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by kemisuga(f): 2:40pm On Mar 03, 2011 |
@ Dave - U must be a good and faithful hubby, I guess! |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by dave2(m): 2:47pm On Mar 03, 2011 |
Maybe, am just doing my best u know. I don't have a choice anyway if i must keep my marriage |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by jkpretty(f): 4:02pm On Mar 03, 2011 |
IMO men i find around me wear their wedding bands, its even asif they held a meeting over it and decided to keep it on. My hubby wears his ring, i don't even give it a thot, he never likes/wears jewelry but he says d weddin band has grown to be part him. The topic is too generalized |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by kemisuga(f): 5:28pm On Mar 03, 2011 |
@ Pretty - I said Most not All |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by Delta007(m): 6:24pm On Mar 03, 2011 |
kemisuga:"Most" is still quite a generalization, unless you have been with most men. |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by kokoye(m): 6:43pm On Mar 03, 2011 |
kemisuga: For having a ring on? a lot of men sleep with their rings on and still cheat! go figure |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:13pm On Mar 03, 2011 |
kokoye: you can say that again it aint the ring or wedding certificate that stops one from cheating |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by Nobody: 8:38pm On Mar 03, 2011 |
I can't speak for "most men", as Kemi put it. I always wear mine, it hasn't come off my finger, since I spoke my wedding vows. And bar losing my finger, it's staying on. |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by mamagee3(f): 2:27am On Mar 04, 2011 |
Poster. . . Why don't you walk up to the married men that go about without their wedding rings and ask them?  Be like "Excuse me sir, why aren't you wearing your wedding rings, I thought you're a married men"  |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by dave2(m): 8:03am On Mar 04, 2011 |
mama-gee:. And if she gets what she does not bargain for nko?  |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by Nobody: 8:35am On Mar 04, 2011 |
dave2: You mean, something like a knuckle sandwich? |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by kemisuga(f): 9:27am On Mar 04, 2011 |
@ Siena - Wats "knuckle sandwich"  For me the wedding rings put me off men I admired on the streets.  So its better for them to always put their rings on to chase away "Snatchers" |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by breathless(m): 12:55pm On Mar 04, 2011 |
I don`t wear mine. Reason? I`m not a jewelry person. Like I say, marriage or being married is a thing of the mind and how u carry yourself. My spouse understands this better now cos she gets toasters and even proposals from other men (married and single) who know she`s married as evident by the wedding rings on her fingers. The ring to me its just an outward symbol, but the mind is where the real marcoy is. (my opinion) |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by Nobody: 1:19pm On Mar 04, 2011 |
kemisuga: Knuckle sandwich? Simply means a smack in the mouth! |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by Godalone(m): 1:30pm On Mar 04, 2011 |
I am not comfortable with it. |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by kemisuga(f): 2:04pm On Mar 04, 2011 |
@ Siena - Ok, thanks. But we have gentle married men here. Only a mad one will do such.@ Godalone - REALLY |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by otokx(m): 2:10pm On Mar 04, 2011 |
Wedding ring is not a typical African culture. |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by dave2(m): 2:11pm On Mar 04, 2011 |
@ Kemisuga What happens when u have fallen in love but discovered later that the man is married after all? |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by kemisuga(f): 4:10pm On Mar 04, 2011 |
@ otokx - Word! @ Dave - I will not even look twice if I see a ring. So how did I want to fall in love? |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by mamagee3(f): 11:04pm On Mar 04, 2011 |
dave2:Then she shouldn't be asking us questions like these. . . Inorder to get the answer she wants to hear, she/he should ask them. They are in a good position to explain to her. |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by kemisuga(f): 12:23pm On Mar 07, 2011 |
Its Okay. But I still saw many married men without rings, WHY? |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by horny4u(f): 7:32am On Mar 11, 2011 |
If my hubby takes his ring off I will take my off too, We started wearing it at same time. |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by kemisuga(f): 4:29pm On Mar 11, 2011 |
@ Hot - Nice one |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by Dalby(m): 11:25am On Mar 16, 2011 |
I am not comfortable with rings and jewelry. horny4u: feel free, no be challenge. When bus conductor begin stop you to chase you I hope u will not mind   |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by dayokanu(m): 7:43pm On Mar 16, 2011 |
Why the unnecesary advertisement of your marital status? |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by Bawss1(m): 5:00pm On Mar 18, 2011 |
dayokanu: Perhaps its some kind of ceveat. Ceveat Courter |
| Re: Men Dont Use Their Wedding Rings, Why? by Loveaflame(m): 9:36pm On Mar 18, 2011 |
Many have different reasons.Some to hide their marital status.Some don't feel comfortable with it. But for me in the first 1-2 years I was putting it on.But somehow I just forgot to put it on and unconsciously that was how I stopped. |
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