She turned you down.....bt na you cause am.
Why you rush

B4 I Comment Further. I Want U To Be Sincere To Urself, Do U Like Her Or U Just Want To Smash Her? Cuz, 4rm Ur Post, It's Obvious Dat U Don't.

Truvel:
B4 I Comment Further. I Want U To Be Sincere To Urself, Do U Like Her Or U Just Want To Smash Her? Cuz, 4rm Ur Post, It's Obvious Dat U Don't.

I actually like her and I don't just want to smash her.

Another one spotted

Explaining

Zzor:
Another one spotted

should we tell him or we should just mind our business

Just calm down,,,,


What she did is normal,,

Zzor:
Another one spotted

Another what?

Fact1:
Just calm down,,,,

What she did is normal,,

Normal in what sense?

XXMML33:


Normal in what sense?

Dats how some girls behave,,they don't wanna look so cheap,,,you know you said you're very close before her break up with her boyfriend,,, so if she agree she might be thinking dat she's cheap,,since she like you ,,,


Just calm down

XXMML33:
There is this girl I like. Pretty and smart girl. We've been friends for a while. All this time she had a boyfriend, but still flirted with me. Told me she likes me, told me she is sexually attracted to me and we talk sex and all that. I could have smashed her but I just didn't make that move because she was in a relationship.

Few days ago she told me she broke up with her boyfriend. As I saw the door was open, I asked her out. She said she can't date me, that she doesn't feel that way for me. She said I'm the kind of guy she would date but she can't date me now. She even said she likes me and is sexually attracted to me but can't be in a relationship with me at the moment.

I'm kinda confused because I know this girl likes me a lot. I'm thinking of just ignoring her since she doesn't know what she wants. Or is this a game she is playing?

Experienced people abeg help me out.

You want to be in a relationship
Bae want to smash

She was never confused

Well as the Unpopular saying goes
This is the Bad time to be a GoodGuy
but a very Good time to be a Hoe

You are not worthy of dating (main guy) but for pleasure (bestie).
This means that she just wants you around in other words, be the nice guy(simp).

XXMML33:
There is this girl I like. Pretty and smart girl. We've been friends for a while. All this time she had a boyfriend, but still flirted with me. Told me she likes me, told me she is sexually attracted to me and we talk sex and all that. I could have smashed her but I just didn't make that move because she was in a relationship.

Few days ago she told me she broke up with her boyfriend. As I saw the door was open, I asked her out. She said she can't date me, that she doesn't feel that way for me. She said I'm the kind of guy she would date but she can't date me now. She even said she likes me and is sexually attracted to me but can't be in a relationship with me at the moment.

I'm kinda confused because I know this girl likes me a lot. I'm thinking of just ignoring her since she doesn't know what she wants. Or is this a game she is playing?

Experienced people abeg help me out.

Maybe she just wants to have sex with you with no strings attached. And that wouldn't mean she does not know what she wants cause we don't say that when we guys just want sex without strings attached (just saying...). If that's the case, I'd say you should reassess your position on the proposal and see if you're down for it. And if you're not, you move on. Life shouldn't be this complex.

From another perspective, the girl just had a breakup and she might just be telling you she is not in the emotional state of mind to get into another relationship as she needs some space to heal. Someone who hasn't fully gotten over a past relationship can hardly do well in a new one. Such a person would always be on their guard at all time. They would be unnecessarily defensive or suspicious of everything. She knows herself better so if she says she needs space, she needs space. Again, it's up to you to decide if you want to completely cut out or not. I don't think there's any right or wrong line of action here.

It is easy for us to say someone doesn't know what they want when we are not in their position. For all we know, she might be thinking you're the one being inconsiderate for wanting her to jump into another relationship the moment she ended the last. I mean, when a lady does that, people still come online to shout "women!".

Op she might have a very good reason for saying dat..d best tin is to respect her decision..if u disturb her too much and she later agrees u might regret..because wen women say tins lyk dat.....

WoundedLamb:


Maybe she just wants to have sex with you with no strings attached. And that wouldn't mean she does not know what she wants cause we don't say that when we guys just want sex without strings attached (just saying...). If that's the case, I'd say you should reassess your position on the proposal and see if you're down for it. And if you're not, you move on. Life shouldn't be this complex.

From another perspective, the girl just had a breakup and she might just be telling you she is not in the emotional state of mind to get into another relationship as she needs some space to heal. Someone who hasn't fully gotten over a past relationship can hardly do well in a new one. Such a person would always be on their guard at all time. They would be unnecessarily defensive or suspicious of everything. She knows herself better so if she says she needs space, she needs space. Again, it's up to you to decide if you want to completely cut out or not. I don't think there's any right or wrong line of action here.

It is easy for us to say someone doesn't know what they want when we are not in their position. For all we know, she might be thinking you're the one being inconsiderate for wanting her to jump into another relationship the moment she ended the last. I mean, when a lady does that, people still come online to shout "women!".

Thanks for this.