Thank you for giving me your attention, i promise to make it worthwhile.

So, without wasting time. I realised something among married couples.

Many complain about not enjoying sex, and some don't even know how to. Nobody likes to talk about it, but it happens.

If you're married and may be having 'sex' struggles with your partner, consider this a friendly advice that comes from researching and observing sexually active marriages several decades old.

Here's what you need to know!

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1. Sex Is Not A Destination, It's A Journey

There is no such thing as perfect sex. You and your partner needs to know that there is only the kind that is best for you.

So. Try not to aim for a goal or pass mark of some sort whenever you decide to be intimate.

Allow yourself to experiment and make mistakes

2. Communication Is Key

If you want to experience better intercourse, you can't get there without talking.

How will you know what she wants?

How will you know what he wants?

There is no one size fits all approach, this is why communication is important.

3. Romance Is As Important As Sex

pre-intimacy is as important as sex.

You are a human being and not a robot, want to know more?

Little things like caressing and kissing can improve sexual pleasure.

If you are not a romantic, you have enough time to make mistakes and improve - you're married, for better or worse

4. Stay Away From Pornography

Once you're married and decide to indulge in pornography, it is very unhealthy for your marriage.

Mainly because it can become addicting easily.

If a married man or woman becomes addicted to it, he/she may find it hard to get stimulated or turned on by his/her partner.

5. Exercise And Eat Right

Exercising and proper diet contributes to sex drive.

Don't want to get fatigued after a minute or sprain your back in between? Then stay healthy!

This is a very little thing to take note of, but it helps.

U remind me of those days when I was still an upcoming artist Na the waist pain dey make me slow down, sometimes the thing go jus hook

nwaezeemmanuel:
5. Exercise And Eat Right

Exercising and proper diet contributes to sex drive.

Don't want to get fatigued after a minute or sprain your back in between? Then stay healthy!

This is a very little thing to take note of, but it helps.

6. Work On Your Relationship

A bad mood or unsettled feud between husband and wife can affect a sexually healthy couple in seconds.

Forced sex is also a terrible idea!

Improve your relationship with him/her and things will improve in bed.

This can be normal, sometimes it happens if you're moving too fast or just going beyond your body's capacity.

Exercising and eating healthy can reduce the likelihood that it happens again

PUNAengineOIL:
U remind me of those days when I was still an upcoming artist Na the waist pain dey make me slow down, sometimes the thing go jus hook

That was back then sha, it doesn't happen anymore.

nwaezeemmanuel:
This can be normal, sometimes it happens if you're moving too fast or just going beyond your body's capacity.

Exercising and eating healthy can reduce the likelihood that it happens again.

That is all i can bring out of my head right now, hope you found this post useful

One more thing, never, i repeat never disclose your sex life to a friend or acquaintance

Especially when married, it's a very bad idea!

Good for you, it can be embarrassing really

PUNAengineOIL:
That was back then sha, it doesn't happen anymore.

Also remember, your spouse may not enjoy oral or anal sex.

Pornography has a way of deceiving people into thinking everyone wants it. I wish you a healthy sex life.

nwaezeemmanuel:
4. Stay Away From Pornography

Once you're married and decide to indulge in pornography, it is very unhealthy for your marriage.

Mainly because it can become addicting easily.

If a married man or woman becomes addicted to it, he/she may find it hard to get stimulated or turned on by his/her partner.

Good one

Thanks brother

RuddyFusion:
Good one

You really tried oo.. Simple, concise and straight to the point

Glad you found it useful

I really try my best to keep my posts that way, we all have things to attend to now

Share this if you find it share-able, you can follow me as well if you want to

Ikennamurphy:
You really tried oo.. Simple, concise and straight to the point