I met this gyal one time on my way back from work about a month ago, we talked and then got closer and then we've been into ourselves ever since. Always coming to my house and spending the nights despite that she stays alone as well and she don't stay far from me. The problem now is that she has a guy and they've been together for a while now, she was truthful about her having a guy (it's not like I found out myself). I've told her a few times thst I would love to date her if she didn't have someone cos I've been single for like 3years now. I've thought about leaving her cos I can't afford to have myself caught in a quagmire but I see alot of value in her, she's my kinda spec, very smart and we share ideas and information alot fcukk! I wished I can continue making her my side chick but I'm already loving up already. I told her last night about everything after she complained that I don't give her time anymore and I'm always too rigid with her. I told her to choose between me and the guy(I still think it's like a very stupid thing to say cos she met this dude before me and she claims to also like the guy too). If you were me in this kinda situation, what would be your action? Please be honest and pardon my jagajaga writing.

Ps: if you call me names, 600 years sure for you lol

I will call you names ooo, but I will advice you, I'm coming






See ehn, you fu*k up by telling her to pick between you and her boyfriend, she will gladly pick her boyfriend and dump you, instead of you to stylishly eating her apple and look away like nothing ever happen.

Mehn!!! FWB to sure.....wetin love wan do you? Baba as you dey raba her you go dey look for your own main chick.....

See this guy sha, as per the 600 years, you be olojukokoro (greedy man nie kee). You wanna have it all....

Op u're a simp

Why I say all ladies are hoes.

She's bleeping two guys at the same time, and she's still using fake love to blind the two simps involved. Smh

dating that girl will be one of the most deadly mistakes u will ever make.

if she can be dating someone and still be banging u, she will do da same to u when u start dating her officially.

forget specs sh!t.


enjoy ur knacks while it lasts or respect her boyfriend and walk away

She's now your spec
When you get tired of her now will not share same dreams with you

She will be off spec

Wooo make una forget all these long talk

I hope you'll understand with anyone that will also be caught in a quagmire with her when they begin to show interest to the level of luring her to themselves.....



Brotherhood is everything.... whether you know the dude involve or not, you don't go about snitching on us.....


Respect a brother's girlfriend.... Except she says she's single.....


Don't play around with a brother's sisters...



You don't keep to the code..... You failed us.

You have to do nothing...my best advice for u

Good! you don enter.
what is good for the goose...

Skmoda360:
I will call you names ooo, but I will advice you, I'm coming






See ehn, you fu*k up by telling her to pick between you and her boyfriend, she will gladly pick her boyfriend and dump you, instead of you to stylishly eating her apple and look away like nothing ever happen.

Mehn!!! FWB to sure.....wetin love wan do you? Baba as you dey raba her you go dey look for your own main chick.....

See this guy sha, as per the 600 years, you be olojukokoro (greedy man nie kee). You wanna have it all....

lol. The truth really is that this girl is a good girl, I can tell you that and she's also in this mess with me too and don't know how to break free, she doesn't want me to go cos when she senses that I'm not happy she go beginning de complain that I'm tired of her and wants to dump her. Which is why I told her to choose cos I like her too. This is life happening G. Lots of mess de sup for this life really. I just taya

Jaculze:
I met this gyal one time on my way back from work about a month ago, we talked and then got closer and then we've been into ourselves ever since. Always coming to my house and spending the nights despite that she stays alone as well and she don't stay far from me. The problem now is that she has a guy and they've been together for a while now, she was truthful about her having a guy (it's not like I found out myself). I've told her a few times thst I would love to date her if she didn't have someone cos I've been single for like 3years now. I've thought about leaving her cos I can't afford to have myself caught in a quagmire but I see alot of value in her, she's my kinda spec, very smart and we share ideas and information alot fcukk! I wished I can continue making her my side chick but I'm already loving up already. I told her last night about everything after she complained that I don't give her time anymore and I'm always too rigid with her. I told her to choose between me and the guy(I still think it's like a very stupid thing to say cos she met this dude before me and she claims to also like the guy too). If you were me in this kinda situation, what would be your action? Please be honest and pardon my jagajaga writing.

Ps: if you call me names, 600 years sure for you lol

I would walk away cos Ur causing pain to the other guy for starters n if she cheated on him with you wats stopping her doing the same to you?
N if U both can't let go then she should atleast choose U n let the other guy have a chance at finding someone faithful instead of keeping up sharing her.
I mean let's face it, she'd be bleeping both of you yeah?

Jaculze:
lol. The truth really is that this girl is a good girl, I can tell you that and she's also in this mess with me too and don't know how to break free, she doesn't want me to go cos when she senses that I'm not happy she go beginning de complain that I'm tired of her and wants to dump her. Which is why I told her to choose cos I like her too. This is life happening G. Lots of mess de sup for this life really. I just taya

There is nothing like good girl.....baba shine your eyes jawre....she is a wreck

If she can leave her boyfrd to date u,dont u think she will also leave u to another maga? Simp

These hoes are very good at making simps perceive them as "good" hehehe
What makes you think her boyfriend isn't seeing her as "good" while she fvcks you