Alexgman1:
You happen to have a well paid job where you earn close to #200,000 monthly but your boss is always angry, abusive, disrespectful, proud, impatient & provoking personality.
Will you endure and continue working for him and flexing ur fat salary every month or you will quit if you cant take it any longer?

200k na him be fat salary? Mtchweee. Sellotape your next pay check to your hand and use it to slap his face.

The money insult you? If yes quit if No stay. For me i will just be looking at the oga like cinema movie month end we move make d pay just deh entr.

Dayoebe:
I cant work under a toxic boss. However, his attitude should motivate you to start your own business.

Don't be cruel to your staffs

Nice

Toxic boss makes you to have plan B. They will motivate you to move to another better company. Please don't resign until you get a better job.

No place like peace of mind sha but enjoy the ride till you enter your next vehicle.

Alexgman1:
You happen to have a well paid job where you earn close to #200,000 monthly but your boss is always angry, abusive, disrespectful, proud, impatient & provoking personality.
Will you endure and continue working for him and flexing ur fat salary every month or you will quit if you cant take it any longer?

First of, you shouldn't even consider quitting if you've got nothing to fall back on.
You should have a sizeable amount of savings/investment.

If you don't have a reasonable sum invested already, you should start saving drastically immediately. 100k savings monthly will set you up to 1.2m in a year.

Good point.
But pls there’s nothing like staffs
Instead “STAFF”

Alexgman1:
You happen to have a well paid job where you earn close to #200,000 monthly but your boss is always angry, abusive, disrespectful, proud, impatient & provoking personality.
Will you endure and continue working for him and flexing ur fat salary every month or you will quit if you cant take it any longer?

Who said 200k is a fat salary??

Never trade your happiness, peace of mind and mental stability for money. The truma would last a long time.

pooozeee:


200k isn't a well paid job, some people are having salary as much as 350k 400k, now you are paid 200k and your boss insult you, that is harassment, harassment is the personal insult and expression of disgust or intolerance towards certain people or person or race and this is punishable offense according to the labour law in nigeria, if you continue to keep that 200k job with insult, your boss will continue to issue you query and that you are incompetent in the discharge of your duty which might eventually lead to sack, so report any harassment at work place to the HR and make sure you have evidence to support your claims

be careful the kind advice you listen to. Some of them way say 200k pay small dey collect only 30k. So be wise.

Those that are saying N200,000 is not a fat salary, may be deceiving you. Some of them have never worked in their life. In the Federal Public / Civil Service, entry Grade Level is 8/2 for Degree Holders and 8/1 for their HND counterparts. The entry salary is N82,000 and N80,000 respectively. The exception are Agencies and Parastatals that pay slightly above N100,000 for entry level on Grade Level 8. For the records, the salary of Substantive Director on Grade Level 17 is N300,000 in the mainstream Ministries. Apart perks of office and allowances, which are not general, most cases applicable to sensitive departments or unit and sometimes, Job related, these set of workers are surviving on their meager salaries. My brother, like some commentators have suggested, stay put on the job until you have gotten alternative. To be begging for financial assistance is a yeoman's job.

What if i told you that you can stop your boss from being disrespectful to you and still keep your salary
You can stay your groud and keep your salary. Pray before you start work, here are some tips to deal with a narcissist boss.
1. Dress neat , be clean and do not smell like a fish seller. Always check your mouth breath. Neat hairstyle , short nail etc People will address you from how u dress. You dress well without wearing expensive
2. Talk with confidence , your boss is a just flesh and blood. Do not be afraid. God has not given you a timid spirit. Never initiate to talk to your rude boss expect necessary. If you do not know the answer, tell him or her you do not know politely. Do not start forming speech or be saying nonsense. You can be silent or you will be silence.
3. Greet him or her as your boss e.g Good Morning Mr his name or Mrs her name in a polite way. Do not overgreet a rude boss like you are greeting the Alaafin of Oyo.
4 Do your job to your best and work on. Your weaknesses. [b]Do not be lazy and do not overdo. Do not come late to [/b]work.Your day off is your day off. Your time to sleep is your time to sleep Always maintain boundaries. Do not let a rude boss disturb your time off
5. Never allow your boss to touch you inappropriately. You are a grown up and (s)he is not your school teacher. Set boundaries. God will give you wisdom.
6. You can leave your boss presence if (s)he start abusing you. Tell him or her that you will leave if he or she continue to abuse, It is called respect. You can go back to your work area. Always maintain boundaries.
7. If your boss is talking to you rudely on the phone, tell him or her that you will hang up the phone if (s)he continues before you hang up. Always maintain boundaries with narcissist.

I know it is not easy but you can start a step by step.

MoneyTrees:
200k is weed money to any nigarr dat bombs steadily every night atleast every day of the week
Irs not up to 1 k dollars, smoke Mali Kush and stop bringing up pvssy ass niggarrr people topic

hwf bro

Freedom11111:
@ Op To hell with your boss.

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Calazoto:
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200k isn't a fat salary Abeg how many people have u employed and how much do pay them??

thesicilian:
It is never a good idea to quit your job until you've found something better. 200k is not a fat salary by the way.

U guys should try and encourage people sometimes... Which one is half bread is better than none.. how many persons have u given 200k to comfortably

SILVERLINES:


Close to 200k as you said, is that one a fat salary?

Well they said half bread is better than none

at ths point of my life, that one will be his or her business

pooozeee:


200k isn't a well paid job, some people are having salary as much as 350k 400k, now you are paid 200k and your boss insult you, that is harassment, harassment is the personal insult and expression of disgust or intolerance towards certain people or person or race and this is punishable offense according to the labour law in nigeria, if you continue to keep that 200k job with insult, your boss will continue to issue you query and that you are incompetent in the discharge of your duty which might eventually lead to sack, so report any harassment at work place to the HR and make sure you have evidence to support your claims

Don't mislead Op with your stupid post. Better remain silent.

tunize:
i will just be looking at the oga like cinema movie

Interesting perspective...

200k that's 2000 dirhams in UAE
In Nigeria you'll spend 200k for 3 months if you can manage well
But in UAE if you like study economics you can't spend 2000 dirhams in 3 months , highest its 2 weeks

God bless Nigeria

Kobicove:


200K a month is not a fat salary!

It is a fat salary if all his peers are on 30k salary.

invest in a lucrative business and become your ownboss

Take the sense and leave the nonsense in that kind of situation.

Walk away from abusive ppl
Thesame competencies that got u d job will fetch u another

Staying on abusive jobs eventually affects ur next job or even damage ur psyche, competencies and attitude to life n work, some even gives u a bad reputation

Fear of unemployment is d problem but u can plan well and start cutting your cloth according to your cloth well in advance

I don't normally comment but I've been in the poster's shoes. After 3yrs and 8months at my last job, I got another job with exactly the same salary and left, despite the fact my friends were telling me to stay cuz no difference in pay.
Anyway, after I started my new job, my boss was Great, he appreciated my work and understood the need to appreciate and motivate employees. Suffice to say, I honestly wished I left earlier.

My self confidence improved greatly, I started enjoying my work again and most importantly I saw the work of my hands were valued and not treated with disdain and disgust.

Don't let anyone make you feel you have to tolerate a bad boss because of money. If he's willing to pay you , there are others that will be willing to pay you too. Like I said above, I wished I left earlier.

Anyway, I know most won't understand where I'm coming from but imagine my self confidence got so high that I walked out of a job interview recently because the man was talking rudely to me , I just excused myself and walked out and I've never felt so good about myself. This is something I won't have considered in the past but I told myself I would never put myself in that position again as I could feel myself dying everyday.


Another thing you can do is try to get another source of income , I know most ppl say this for financial purposes , but it also does great things for your self belief. There are few things better than the knowledge that you don't need your salary to foot your bills. You can try forex, stock trading , crypto , dropshipping etc , just Google.

SAY NO TO UNHEALTHY WORK ENVIRONMENTS. I sincerely wished someone told me this when I was growing up. I'm definitely going to teach my children about life it self and surviving as an adult from a young age.

Orientation [OT] is underrated in this country.

Alexgman1:
You happen to have a well paid job where you earn close to #200,000 monthly but your boss is always angry, abusive, disrespectful, proud, impatient & provoking personality.
Will you endure and continue working for him and flexing ur fat salary every month or you will quit if you cant take it any longer?

STUPIDITY is when you work in a place that constantly robs you of your esteem, dignity and self respect and yet you keep working


You are. Mentally lazy and you can't kivekif out. Of job

But you must deliveryour money's worth.

Pls endure save and start your biz
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When you earn 200k as monthly salary, you should be grateful to God no matter the insult. There is no person reading my Post now earn such amount. Don't let people living fake life deceive you. Enjoy your 200k.

dazzlingd:
200k


200k wey boys dey hammer for one week

Boys dey make, but not you?

Or you no make that in a month?

Emmypure:
200k and someone is calling it a well paid job, when your mates are earning more than 5m a month.

I am sure you are not his mate because you don't make that, so how do you know his mates are making that?

You dey carry briefcase for his mates to know what they make?

Emmypure:


you have to spread ur tentacles wide to earn such amount, beside you can't earn that amount through salary.

Where are you own tentacles?

Wetin your tentacles dey bring you per annum?