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Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by DryMouth: 6:28pm On Oct 23, 2020
Akinbahm:


Then who should?

In as much as I doesnt tolerate second class behaviour from ladies it doesnt reach the level of treating single mother badly or relegating them away from dating/relationship arena.

Mehn nigga!
Dnt ever try it!
I repeat, DON'T!
If u love ur sanity, dnt ever try it. The reasons are jst too long so i won't bother telling you
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Goterry0123: 8:40pm On Oct 23, 2020
QuinieR:
Well my view
90% of guys dnt want a single mother reason most single mothers dnt talk abt their kids in the first place .
I have a close Frnd who is a single mom right from university,she was always dump by guys immediately they heard she has a daughter so for the sake of sanity she always keep it as a secret.
To me I think a single mother should build a relationship first then latr review it to their partner by then the love will have been stronger grin

Nobody shld stone me oo,it’s jst my view

You are Your Close Friend. Be Sure of what you want before you begin with it.
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by DenreleDave(m): 9:19pm On Oct 23, 2020
DryMouth:

Mehn nigga!
Dnt ever try it!
I repeat, DON'T!
If u love ur sanity, dnt ever try it. The reasons are jst too long so i won't bother telling you

Pls tell Us the reason
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by DryMouth: 9:30pm On Oct 23, 2020
DenreleDave:


Pls tell Us the reason
Because of you, I ll tell you a few.
1. She is still attached to her baby daddy. This one has unending assess to her all in the name of the child.
2. Even if the baby daddy is dead, when she gives birth to your own children, dere will be serious division in ur house.
3. She may have one bad attitude which made the baby daddy didn't marry her in the first place.

The list is unending bro. Dnt try it
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by QuinieR(f): 10:46pm On Oct 23, 2020
Goterry0123:


You are Your Close Friend. Be Sure of what you want before you begin with it.
I dnt wanna belive my English is hard for you to understand,pls explain what you mean by this
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Akinbahm(m): 10:55pm On Oct 23, 2020
DryMouth:

Mehn nigga!
Dnt ever try it!
I repeat, DON'T!
If u love ur sanity, dnt ever try it. The reasons are jst too long so i won't bother telling you

I get your points bro, dont forget they are single mother out there who lost their husband through death, a toxic husband, a man not worth to b with and many more...

Baba, most things I do I try to be just though am not perfect and remember nothing is bad completely.

Truly, some single Mothers out there one doesn't av to look them once not to talk of twice that should not take the fact away there are God-fearing own out there also...
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Sixfeetbelle: 2:43am On Oct 24, 2020
DryMouth:

Because of you, I ll tell you a few.
1. She is still attached to her baby daddy. This one has unending assess to her all in the name of the child.
2. Even if the baby daddy is dead, when she gives birth to your own children, dere will be serious division in ur house.
3. She may have one bad attitude which made the baby daddy didn't marry her in the first place.

The list is unending bro. Dnt try it

Or she could have been a victim of the "reason with me" type of guy who claimed he would never abandon her even with her pregnancy, not realising he was as fickle as they come.
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by DenreleDave(m): 5:46am On Oct 24, 2020
DryMouth:

Because of you, I ll tell you a few.
1. She is still attached to her baby daddy. This one has unending assess to her all in the name of the child.
2. Even if the baby daddy is dead, when she gives birth to your own children, dere will be serious division in ur house.
3. She may have one bad attitude which made the baby daddy didn't marry her in the first place.

The list is unending bro. Dnt try it



Your number 1 point is very very very true....
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by DryMouth: 9:34am On Oct 24, 2020
Akinbahm:


I get your points bro, dont forget they are single mother out there who lost their husband through death, a toxic husband, a man not worth to b with and many more...

Baba, most things I do I try to be just though am not perfect and remember nothing is bad completely.

Truly, some single Mothers out there one doesn't av to look them once not to talk of twice that should not take the fact away there are God-fearing own out there also...
Yea. That toxic husband still av access to her any day anytime!
Dnt marry a single mother!
You might regret it(80%)
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by DryMouth: 9:35am On Oct 24, 2020
DenreleDave:




Your number 1 point is very very very true....
That is even my main point and number one reason why u shuld never marry a single mom
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by GeneralKoko(m): 10:46am On Oct 24, 2020
DenreleDave:
Have u ever encountered a lady and she never told you that she has a child?

How did you find out that she has a child?

Is men rejection the reason they lie about their child?

If they are not proud of such kid, why not abort them at early stage of pregnancy?

My encounter:
I met with a very pretty lady at the bus stop. Actually I don't really know how to approach a lady on motion either on street or bus stop. (To the guys dt can toast ladies anywhere anytime, I respect you ooo grin grin). The tfare was high during the time they allowed movement In corona time. So her tfare wasn't complete and she approached me for help. I gave her wat on me but it wasn't enough. So I helped her search for a bus dt will collect less n thankfully we found one. I collected her number wink wink wink n we waved goodbye. Later during the week, she came over to my place, we talked and she left.. The following week she came again and as we were on bed tongue tongue tongue (don't think far oo, just on bed, she was using my phone) and I saw sumtin like a stitched mark line on the lower part of her stomach..

Mind you, whenever I call her, I always hear the sound of a baby boy beside her almost all time. So if I ask her, she will say it's her baby sister... But whenever we are talking, she keep telling me she can't trust men jare. What they did to her sis and so on.. Now her sister has a baby and so on Sha.

Personally I don't even have any issue with single mothers Cox I love kids so Much grin grin cool cool, so if u tell me u av a kid and u r a single mother, I know some guys hate such thing here but for me, I don't have any problem with it at all. . So there was a day I was seeing her off and she stopped by a place to buy children cloth (boy own to be precise). She was even asking if it will fit a 2 or 3 years old boy Sha...

Then i knew she had a kid. The line under her Tommy was probably an operation.. She probably gave birth through surgery BUT why is she lying to me. It has happened already, no going back. If you are not proud of your own child, then you should be avoided..

Yes. If there is a single lady that is not proud of her kid, such lady is not marriageable. If she can deny her kid, then she has no problem denying u at any point in time.. The man that will marry you will surely marry you. Be clear to him from the start, if he wants to stay, he will stay...

DenreleDave ™ wink

Are you not the same guy that sent a shirtless picture to ashawo thread because of 50k. cheesy

LMAO
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by DenreleDave(m): 10:50am On Oct 24, 2020
GeneralKoko:


Are you not the same guy that sent a shirtless picture to ashawo thread because of 50k. cheesy

LMAO

And did u bliv dt was me??


Did u? grin grin grin.
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by GeneralKoko(m): 6:57pm On Oct 24, 2020
DenreleDave:


And did u bliv dt was me??


Did u? grin grin grin.


You can deny all you want but remember you held up a paper . If it was only a selfie without a written note we for believe.


Take your lying ass to children in primary 6 not us grin
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by DenreleDave(m): 7:37pm On Oct 24, 2020

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