I'm not a nerd. I do like games and stuff. Though I notice beautiful girls but I never feel impulses to act on what I see. I feel like dating without any intent of getting married is a waste of time

Aromantic probably?

But do you feel sexual attractions?

Durentt:
Aromantic probably?

But do you feel sexual attractions?

Of course. I just fallback and ask myself "where would this lead to"? I'm certainly not ready for marriage yet. So all I've had basically is just infatuations and admiration but I've never really been in that thing they call "love"

ERORR404:

Of course. I just fallback and ask myself "where would this lead to"? I'm certainly not ready for marriage yet. So all I've had basically is just infatuations and admiration but I've never really been in that thing they call "love"

well you cant fall in love with someone you dont know.

Try to get closer to women you find attractive, you dont have to be ready for marriage before you start asking women out.

It doesnt have to lead anywhere as it could just end in basic friendship. Or something serious and then you fall in love

Young man, woman no suppose be ur problem at 23. Focus on building ya self.

What of @ 28 no girl friend just alone what would u say. The. Best thing is to understand whom u are and plan ur self for future. Girl friend is not the issue u ahouldbe considering for now just focus in ur dream and achieve big

Sundrus:
Young man, woman no suppose be ur problem at 23. Focus on building ya self.

Okay sir, is that all? Thank you.

sanny1:
What of @ 28 no girl friend just alone what would u say. The. Best thing is to understand whom u are and plan ur self for future. Girl friend is not the issue u ahouldbe considering for now just focus in ur dream and achieve big

Sundrus:
Young man, woman no suppose be ur problem at 23. Focus on building ya self.

you wont read the thread, you'll just be posting what you already planned on posting before clicking.

Mtcheew.

ERORR404:
I'm not a nerd. I do like games and stuff. Though I notice beautiful girls but I never feel impulses to act on what I see. I feel like dating without any intent of getting married is a waste of time

what is weird is that at ur age u are not passionate about more productive things like inventing ur own game, softwares, being the youngest n richest in ur family ...... rather it is WOMAN that u are busy thinking about. THIS IS AN ERROR..

Sundrus:
Young man, woman no suppose be ur problem at 23. Focus on building ya self.

...

Trust me, you're safer the way you currently are.

At twenty5, I don't know what love is..
I wouldn't know cuz I've Never been that boy

ERORR404:
I'm not a nerd. I do like games and stuff. Though I notice beautiful girls but I never feel impulses to act on what I see. I feel like dating without any intent of getting married is a waste of time

Be wise

Nigerian girls don't love you, they only love what you have. - Anonymous

Guy. There's nothing wrong with you. And ignore all these people saying you should "FOCUS". A lot of hypocrites on Nairaland.

Definitely, it makes more sense to only date people you have intentions of marrying. But that shouldn't deprive you of making meaningful relationships. Not everything will lead to marriage anyway. Just loosen up a bit.

Durentt:
you wont read the thread, you'll just be posting what you already planned on posting before clicking.

Mtcheew.

u sure say u well so?

OP goan make money,,

Girls is not what that suppose to be worrying you presently,,,


You need money first,,,,,

Girls are special being dat if you're not close to them you will be eager to know,,, relate,, make love with them,,,,,,,, but once you get closer to them,,haaaaaa,,,,,,,,, lemme reserve my comment ano want dragging and trouble,,,,,,,,,,

But OP goan make huge money,,,,,,,,,

Girls will chase you after dat and you will choose the one that you want to spend your life with,,,,,,,,,

ERORR404:
I'm not a nerd. I do like games and stuff. Though I notice beautiful girls but I never feel impulses to act on what I see. I feel like dating without any intent of getting married is a waste of time

if na woman be your problem you never see anything

Na wa o
Hypocrisy everywhere
So someone cannot like woman in peace again?

Descortes:
At twenty5, I don't know what love is..
I wouldn't know cuz I've Never been that boy

Are you a fan of the weeknd

Mrlucky81:
if na woman be your problem you never see anything

Okay

merieam16:
With all the problem ur are likely facing in Nigeria, instead of u to build urself u wana av extra problem 4 u self

i dont envy u

So you're admitting that your gender is a problem to men?

nickvanilla:
Guy. There's nothing wrong with you. And ignore all these people saying you should "FOCUS". A lot of hypocrites on Nairaland.

Definitely, it makes more sense to only date people you have intentions of marrying. But that shouldn't deprive you of making meaningful relationships. Not everything will lead to marriage anyway. Just loosen up a bit.

comments on this thread are really disgusting (excluding yours and that of desçortes)
I dont know why Nigerians are like this oooh.

So a young man cannot interact with ladies he finds attractive when he feels like or when he is not busy.

blackpanthar:


what is weird is that at ur age u are not passionate about more productive things like inventing ur own game, softwares, being the youngest n richest in ur family ...... rather it is WOMAN that u are busy thinking about. THIS IS AN ERROR..

How many softwares have you invented oga? and you don't even know my family.

Durentt:
comments on this thread are really disgusting (excluding yours and that of desçortes)
I dont know why Nigerians are like this oooh.

So a young man cannot interact with ladies he finds attractive when he feels like or when he is not busy.

Funny thing is most of them forming "focused" don't even have anything reasonable going on in their lives.

Durentt:
comments on this thread are really disgusting (excluding yours and that of desçortes)
I dont know why Nigerians are like this oooh.

So a young man cannot interact with ladies he finds attractive when he feels like or when he is not busy.

It's a shame.

ERORR404:

So you're admitting that your gender is a problem to men?

Please ignore comments on here. Go and MEET women you find attractive and ask THEM out even with the little money you have.

Just dont spend all your time and mental energy on any woman.

The fools on this thread probably do the same and worse than you do. Is it not Nigerians and hypocrisy? Smh!

merieam16:
With all the problem ur are likely facing in Nigeria, instead of u to build urself u wana av extra problem 4 u self

i dont envy u

if you dont have a solution to his problem just shut up!! Not always you talk please.

ERORR404:

How many softwares have you invented oga? and you don't even know my family.

check my profile and topics..... check the time.... i was ur age.

dont bother urself abt family.


FOCUS

ERORR404:

Are you a fan of the weeknd

a die hard fan bro. XO till I overdose.
Are You?

ERORR404:

Funny thing is most of them forming "focused" don't even have anything reasonable going on in their lives.

A date doesnt have to be expensive, it can even be less than 1k or even few drinks

Just be smart, women your age also need to interact with men.