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When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Nobody: 7:59am On Oct 31, 2020
Who Is Responisible 4 A Man's Failure Financially? I Believe U May Av Heard Of People Who Were Doing Well All Of A Sudden Become Broke. Dis Is Similar To D Story Of Prodigal Son. Yes. Most Times Women Are Not Responsible 4 Their Downfall. In Some Cases D Women Are Responsible 4 Failing To Give A Helpful Advice To Their Husband When D Going Was Smooth. In Some Cases Too D Men Refused To Take Helpful Advice 4rm Well Wishers & End Up Broke. Share Ur Experience.
Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by chatinent: 8:02am On Oct 31, 2020
Many things he could not overcome.

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Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by HRHQueenPhil(f): 8:04am On Oct 31, 2020
Evry single one is responsible for the outcome of their life.. stop looking for who to blame
Failure is a learning point and it's much better than d one that refuses to take risks..so don't be too hard on urself. Stand up and persevere again
This time, ask for divine direction from God. He is still showing the way out of issues and turning problems to opportunities grin

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Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Juliusmomoh: 8:06am On Oct 31, 2020
U nail it..
Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by larrymoore(m): 8:10am On Oct 31, 2020
different strokes for different folks, sometimes, women could be, when you marry expensive wife that is ready to be on the street if you fail your responsibility.

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Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Nobody: 8:12am On Oct 31, 2020
Some Men Put Demselves In Dis Horrible State By Not Investing Or Make Meaningful Use Of Their Huge Salary, Thinking Dat Their Job Would Last 4Ever.

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Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Nobody: 8:18am On Oct 31, 2020
Shebi you've already answered yourself by saying different situations and factors. Why are you still asking jamb question?

And which experience do you want us to share? How we were rich and now poor?

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Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Nobody: 8:21am On Oct 31, 2020
HRHQueenPhil:
Evry single one is responsible for the outcome of their life.. stop looking for who to blame
Failure is a learning point and it's much better than d one day refuses to take risks..so don't be too hard on urself. Stand up and persevere again
This time, ask for divine direction from God. He is still showing the way out of issues and turning problems to opportunities grin
In Some Cases Women Contribute To D Downfall By Not Advising D Man. I Know Of A Man Who N.P.A Paid Him Off With Some Millions Of Naira. D Wife Was Selling Ogogoro Den. D Wife Didn't Give D Man Advice On What To Do With D Money Until Dis Man Spuandered Dis Money & Became Broke.
Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Samfloxin(m): 8:30am On Oct 31, 2020
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Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Nobody: 8:32am On Oct 31, 2020
I hate the way you type, I just can't concentrate on whatever you are communicating because a small voice in my head is screaming 'Wtf are you reading!' so I jump and pass all your posts.

From your title alone, I'd have to guess that no one is responsible for it because money is a currency and it flows where it's focused. And if someone doesn't understand this concept, then they are not to blame for their inability to attract the current; due to ignorance. We are never punished for our ignorance. This is my opinion and yours might be different.
Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Nobody: 8:42am On Oct 31, 2020
Tadeknkeepcalm:
Shebi you've already answered yourself by saying different situations and factors. Why are you still asking jamb question?

And which experience do you want us to share? How we were rich and now poor?
If U Don't Av Something To Say, Just Lock Up. I Created Dis Thread Mainly To Open D Eyes Of Prodigal Sons & Daughters Who May Av Been Ignorantly Wasting Their Resources 4 Dem To Learn & Make Changes B4 It Gets Too Late 4 Dem.
Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by HRHQueenPhil(f): 8:47am On Oct 31, 2020
Truvel:
In Some Cases Women Contribute To D Downfall By Not Advising D Man. I Know Of A Man Who N.P.A Paid Him Off With Some Millions Of Naira. D Wife Was Selling Ogogoro Den. D Wife Didn't Give D Man Advice On What To Do With D Money Until Dis Man Spuandered Dis Money & Became Broke.

Are u in the marraige to know weda she advised him or not. Besides, what makes u think she is d right person to advise him on money matters..I spend money alot so am not d best person to advise anyone on money matters unless d HOLY Spirit tells me specifically

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Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Nobody: 8:58am On Oct 31, 2020
HRHQueenPhil:


Are u in the marraige to know weda she advised him or not. Besides, what makes u think she is d right person to advise him on money matters..I spend money alot so am not d best person to advise anyone on money matters unless d HOLY Spirit tells me specifically
I Will Tell U Why. When D Man Got Dis Money Den, D Woman Wasn't Doing A Good & Lucrative Business. She Should Av Told D Man To Open A Good Provision Store Or Any Lucrative Business 4 Her But Dis Woman Didn't Do So. She Was Just Eating 4rm It Until D Money Got Finished. It Was Den Their Eyes Got Cleared. Note: D Man Is My Relative. Now Dey Are Living 4rm Hand To Mouth.
Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Nobody: 9:03am On Oct 31, 2020
Lalasticlala.
Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Nobody: 9:09am On Oct 31, 2020
Truvel:
If U Don't Av Something To Say, Just Lock Up. I Created Dis Thread Mainly To Open D Eyes Of Prodigal Sons & Daughters Who May Av Been Ignorantly Wasting Their Resources 4 Dem To Learn & Make Changes B4 It Gets Too Late 4 Dem.
Abeg swerve jor
Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Nobody: 9:11am On Oct 31, 2020
Anoth:
I hate the way you type, I just can't concentrate on whatever you are communicating because a small voice in my head is screaming 'Wtf are you reading!' so I jump and pass all your posts.

From your title alone, I'd have to guess that no one is responsible for it because money is a currency and it flows where it's focused. And if someone doesn't understand this concept, then they are not to blame for their inability to attract the current; due to ignorance. We are never punished for our ignorance. This is my opinion and yours might be different.
If U Are Earning A Huge Amount Of Money & U Didn't Make Meaningful Use Of D Money Or Investment B4 Losing Or Leaving D Job. Are U Not To Be Blamed?
Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Nobody: 9:15am On Oct 31, 2020
HRHQueenPhil:
Evry single one is responsible for the outcome of their life.. stop looking for who to blame
Failure is a learning point and it's much better than d one that refuses to take risks..so don't be too hard on urself. Stand up and persevere again
This time, ask for divine direction from God. He is still showing the way out of issues and turning problems to opportunities grin
my spirit is telling me somebody will soon come and say buhari is to blame.


south south region
( drops mic )
Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Nobody: 9:15am On Oct 31, 2020
Truvel:
If U Are Earning A Huge Amount Of Money & U Didn't Make Meaningful Use Of D Money Or Investment B4 Leaving D Job. Are U Not To Be Blamed?

Who am I answering to? Everyone conducts their life how they see fit but I don't accept judgement and I don't judge myself on things like money. Money has to come and go... It's a currency like I said... If you hoard money it will affect you negatively. Keep the currency flowing and what goes out must come in.
Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by pansophist(m): 9:19am On Oct 31, 2020
The man is responsible for his failures financially. Blame shifting has never done anyone well, instead, it takes the power away from them to change their circumstances and makes one appear like a pathetic loser. If you are a billionaire, that you bought Ferrari for all your girlfriend, build a mansion for your family, and super generous with your funds, it is not their fault if you go broke, because you gave it out willingly without considering if it would bankrupt you, extravagance is not generosity, it is stupidity and wastage.

The biblical principle of removing the peck in your eyes first, before removing someones else peck is ever valid. You need to protect your financial sustainability, it's your job. Not giving recklessly is a form of financial protection. Anyone that wants to shame you for not giving them is someone you should stay off from. To keep and grow money comes with a certain kind of mentality that many people lack, and their fault is not your problem. Carry your own load and be responsible for your mistakes.

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Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Nobody: 9:22am On Oct 31, 2020
Truvel:
In Some Cases Women Contribute To D Downfall By Not Advising D Man. I Know Of A Man Who N.P.A Paid Him Off With Some Millions Of Naira. D Wife Was Selling Ogogoro Den. D Wife Didn't Give D Man Advice On What To Do With D Money Until Dis Man Spuandered Dis Money & Became Broke.

I disagree, as a man you should be financially aware. When you make money you want to protect your money and ensure it grows. If you get a woman who can assist in teaching you those things then that is good, if not one has to learn o. As HRHQueenPhil said there is no one to blame but yourself.

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Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Nobody: 9:22am On Oct 31, 2020
pansophist:
The man is responsible for his failures financially. Blame shifting has never done anyone well, instead, it takes the power away from them to change their circumstances and makes one appear like a pathetic loser. If you are a billionaire, that you bought Ferrari for all your girlfriend, build a mansion for your family, and super generous with your funds, it is not their fault if you go broke, because you gave it out willingly without considering if it would bankrupt you, extravagance is not generosity, it is stupidity and wastage.

The biblical principle of removing the peck in your eyes first, before removing someones else peck is ever valid. You need to protect your financial sustainability, it's your job. Anyone that wants to shame you for not giving them is someone you should stay off from.

Preach sir, true words

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Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by virginprincess(f): 9:42am On Oct 31, 2020
The man is responsible, he shouldn't put the blame on anybody, for aspect of advice, i notice in most marriages of nowadays most men don't take advice from there wives, they usually fill they are on top nobody should tell them what to do, that why you see most men failing, so when they fail they shouldn't blame anybody for there failure.

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Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Nobody: 10:15am On Oct 31, 2020
Anoth:


Who am I answering to? Everyone conducts their life how they see fit but I don't accept judgement and I don't judge myself on things like money. Money has to come and go... It's a currency like I said... If you hoard money it will affect you negatively. Keep the currency flowing and what goes out must come in.
As A Man U Av To Have, Create & Maintain Ur Source Of Income Otherwise Abject Poverty Will Catch Up With U.
Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Nobody: 10:30am On Oct 31, 2020
I Know D Man Is Responsible 4 D Misfortunes. But In Some Cases D Women Contribute Part By Not Helpful Advice. Dis Goes To D Women. As A Woman When Ur Husband Is Making Alot Of Money Or Doing Well, U Are To Give Helpful Advise To Ur Man On How To Use His Money Productively So Dat He Won't Regret It. E.g Like Building Houses & Making Investment With D Money.
Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Nobody: 10:43am On Oct 31, 2020
The man.

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Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by WrittyWritter(f): 10:46am On Oct 31, 2020
Why is it dat wen something happens Africans will always look for who to blame..instead of dem to accept their fault..learn from their mistakes and move on...

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Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Nobody: 10:51am On Oct 31, 2020
DimplesLikeWow:
The man.
True. Yet Many Men Are Still Repeating Dsame Mistake In D Name Of Enjoyment.
Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by DonroxyII: 4:37pm On Nov 01, 2020
Truvel:
Who Is Responisible 4 A Man's Failure Financially? I Believe U May Av Heard Of People Who Were Doing Well All Of A Sudden Become Broke. Dis Is Similar To D Story Of Prodigal Son. Yes. Most Times Women Are Not Responsible 4 Their Downfall. In Some Cases D Women Are Responsible 4 Failing To Give A Helpful Advice To Their Husband When D Going Was Smooth. In Some Cases Too D Men Refused To Take Helpful Advice 4rm Well Wishers & End Up Broke. Share Ur Experience.
You are responsible for your woes... even on the Judgement day, Nobody can blame devil for what happened on planet earth .... You are solely responsible for your bliss and sadness ....

Read inbetween the lines , learn to say Yes to Success and No to anyone that's infringing your way to Sucess ..... At the end, nobody suffer your pain except those that depend on you alas, they can also join the next helper leaving you to writhe in your own pains and regret !

The wisdom requires to manage Failure is a token, The wisdom require to manage Sucess is quite much ....

Person wey dey floor already no dey fall yakata for ground Mba, na d person wey dey fall from top go make loud thud and noise with broken bones grin

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Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Chapter1vs6(m): 4:41pm On Nov 01, 2020
A man is a superior human. Hence, he is responsible for his own financial capabilities and inactions.
The society demands a lot form the man and looks upto him.
Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Sibtygar: 4:44pm On Nov 01, 2020
Only an insecure man would solely blame a woman for his downfall although I have witnessed cases of this sought though.
But everyone must find where they are responsible and learn from it.

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Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Fountainofyouth(f): 7:57pm On Nov 01, 2020
Truvel:
In Some Cases Women Contribute To D Downfall By Not Advising D Man. I Know Of A Man Who N.P.A Paid Him Off With Some Millions Of Naira. D Wife Was Selling Ogogoro Den. D Wife Didn't Give D Man Advice On What To Do With D Money Until Dis Man Spuandered Dis Money & Became Broke.


So because the wife didn't give advise means it's her fault?

So all those years he was working there, he didn't think of any investment?

Doesnt he have brain? And how did you know the wife did not advice him?

Honestly the men of these days are sething else(some anyway) I have never seen weak ass nuisances that will prefer to make everything a woman's fault, what is wrong with you all? What is wrong with your thought process? Wtf man

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Re: When A Man Fails Financially Who Is Responsible? by Fountainofyouth(f): 8:02pm On Nov 01, 2020
Truvel:
I Will Tell U Why. When D Man Got Dis Money Den, D Woman Wasn't Doing A Good & Lucrative Business. [b]She Should Av [/b]Told D Man To Open A Good Provision Store Or Any Lucrative Business 4 Her But Dis Woman Didn't Do So. She Was Just Eating 4rm It Until D Money Got Finished. It Was Den Their Eyes Got Cleared. Note: D Man Is My Relative. Now Dey Are Living 4rm Hand To Mouth.


She should have, means it's an assumption, what if she adviced him.and he insisted on not doing that, rather, just wants to eat well, enjoy himself, and have peace of mind?

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