I want to be anonymous though this is a very serious matter right now.

I married this my husband about 2 years ago and we have been living happily since then not until few months ago when I noticed his mood changed in the house. He and my sister use to be very close and at times unduly close but I didn’t suspect anything because she wasn’t staying with us but only comes and goes also I trusted my husband that he wouldn’t do anything to hurt me.

His mood did changed at home and when I ask he will say nothing that he is fine. I knew he wasn’t fine so I pestered. During this period I will notice he likes isolating himself in the house to make some calls and sometimes when I grab his phone he would be looking at me somehow.

I kept begging him to tell me what the Issue was and just last month he told me to promise and even swear that I won’t be angry when he opens up and I actually promised and even swore to him. Then he opened up and confessed that he is madly in love with my sister (my blood sister) and that he thinks its ‘lust’ but whenever he has such strange feeling towards a lady, the moment he sleeps with her the feelings disappear and he gets a relief.

I almost fainted that day, lost appetite and cried all through the day but couldn’t pour my anger on him because I swore not to do so. The all Idea now is that I should allow him sleep with my sister so he can get over her. I don’t even know if I am running mad or its my brain malfunctioning… Obviously I can’t pack out of the house as he has not even slept with her yet but he said he needs to at least once so he can get a relief.

I think I know what may have caused all this…. My sister can be very seductive, she wears skimpy and has a nice shape and big backside and frontside. I need help for him and maybe make him talk to a counsellor but he is insisting that the only way to make him relieved is allow him sleep with her.

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Do him and you sister a favour biko

Your wahala be like bicycle sha. In my opinion this is a very precarious situation your husband should realize he's married and should possess the attribute of self control. Do married people get sexually attracted to other people aside their patner? Yes they do.
it would be an Preposterous for him to sleep with you and your sister. It's very wrong.
But I'll advice to to prevent your sister from gaining access to your house 4 now, i think by doing so those feelings might vanquish to an extent. i think the frequent visit is what's simulating your hubby to crave 4 her. it dosen't just look good. Hope you find a way to salvage the situation

Your husband is mad, could it be spell...nah, he should contact the elders

Hi, pls spend more time with your husband as much as possible to avoid loneliness and also reduce the presence of your sister from the house, at least for now pending when your husband will get over it. Its common to married men

Wahala be like bicycle.


Seriously, you should have from word go frowned at any form of familiarity between your sisters and spouse. A man should not be comfortable with the opposite sex because shifting of pants would be the next matter on the agenda.

That your man should take his mind off the gutter. He actually wants your blessing to hump your sister. What a ludicrous idea. He should engage in something productive any time he had the urge to bleep your sister.

Have a word with your sister and call someone you can trust who can handle this matter between your man and sister with maturity and confidence.

I cannot endorse your man going away to burst a nut but he should have a grip on himself. As man, he should have drawn a line concerning his sister in law.
He should get her off his system. That's simple. He is an adult, let him sort himself out and keep you and shagging your sister out of it. Fücking pervert.
Tomorrow he go face im daughter dey.....................