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Which kind wahala be this na,,God go dey help you sha

My guy. Na who dey alive dey live for house wey papa build.
You have two options
1. JAPA
2. JOIN YOUR DAD

Your matter strong.

Can't you rent out the property?
How ready/serious is the relative that wants to buy your share?
You run the business physically? No siblings that can help out while you run things from afar & in the shadows?
Wherever you want to run to , you need solid plans, education/work route & skills/degrees to back it up since you know you can't come back.

Don't wait until they come for you. 1 priceless life is what you have.

Just think am say na escape money papa leave no be house. With 7-9M you can run to the moon

SKhanmi:
Your matter strong.

Can't you rent out the property?
How ready/serious is the relative that wants to buy your share?
You run the business physically? No siblings that can help out while you run things from afar & in the shadows?
Wherever you want to run to , you need solid plans, education/work route & skills/degrees to back it up since you know you can't come back.

Don't wait until they come for you. 1 priceless life is what you have.

1. I can't rent out the house, cause that's where I'm living with my sisters who are not married yet.
2. To me, he's very serious oo, I'm the one delaying the process
3. None of my family member have an idea of the business, is a crafty one.. No prize tag or whatever.
4. That's my problem, because I don't want to blow the money and run back for assistance, that is suicide

Cash out and travel out.
If you die today, your sisters will find their levels.
Even if they don't get you, they might get your girlfriend/wife or children.

Make sure you sell at reasonable price though.

No be small tin.
Bros I advice you to take cover sharp sharp. Far away from where they will never suspect you to be (Not abroad though). Never let them know your moves. Or let them suspect you're running away. They'll attack when they know you're leaving
Please think of a smart way of leaving. You can tell one of your sisters to carry your luggages to the house of their friend or a relative to seem they're the ones travelling. Then go out in the morning as if you're going for morning exercise or buying breakfast. From there take your things, wait for bus and japa.
**Note**Dont go with too many loads. Only some important things. Leave furnitures out of it.
Then you settle down in your desired location where none of your relatives or family members know about. They might be totured to reveal your location. Invest make some money or sell that house, move your sisters out of there because they'll be endangered..But for now, your safety first...You might not appreciate, but that's my advice as a sympathizer

I can advice u, but what will I gain. You know what to do already, coming to post this your small predicament here will only blow your cover. No b every problem dem de solve online, na him b 99.9 intelligence. My advice for u is to never make posts like this again. Make your plans to yourself. Sharing personal stories/predicaments would only surmount more problems and public pity for u, no advice here will help u. B wise

Guy sell what you want to sell and run for your life.
It's only the living that plan for future.

Shallom.

mrdharkchild:
I can advice u, but what will I gain. You know what to do already, coming to post this your small predicament here will only blow your cover. No b every problem dem de solve online, na him b 99.9 intelligence. My advice for u is to never make posts like this again. Make your plans to yourself. Sharing personal stories/predicaments would only surmount more problems and public pity for u, no advice here will help u. B wise

Is not easy living a frat life, no friends to ask for advice, I want to avoid mistakes, what if is a bad idea to sell the house? I need counseling, before pple will laugh at me, without knowing the shit am into.

Mathew 11:28,29 says Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.

Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.

1. Run to God for forgiveness of your sins and help on direction to take.

2. There's no hiding from God. If you geniuly confess your sins and trust Him, He'll assist you on the next step to take.

3. Don't waste time, try relocating from your present location at least to clear your head. God will help you.

Japa007:

Is not easy living a frat life, no friends to ask for advice, I want to avoid mistakes, what if is a bad idea to sell the house? I need counseling, before pple will laugh at me, without knowing the shit am into.

Question is, will u use d proceeds of the house for what u plan to use it for?
Make your plans first, and the possible budget.
Answer these questions(to self, not here)
1. Which country can I afford with the money's worth
2. Which country will be perfect not to get my cover blown(because Nigerians are all over d place already)
3. Familiarize yourself with God and change your life and take whatever shit He brings u, cause what I've learnt in this life is, there's always punishment for sins. But HE(God) will see you through..

Properly map out your traveling plans, then make a good deal for that property.