Shebi you have seen what you were looking for...what do you want us to do about it?

FinianIb:
Hi, Happy Sunday.
To start with, intruding her privacy is wrong, don't do that again . Also, I assume you guys are more like friends with benefits. Her lifestyle is hers, yours is yours. She can't change until she finds a fault in hers. Your advice can't change or do anything. Let her continue her ways, only time will tell.
Don't intrude her privacy again. It's not gentlemanly.

Gibberish. How would he know what he was getting himself into if he hadn't done that or are you saying he doesn't deserve to know what the girl might be hiding?

Engrgabi:
I met this pretty .

Do you want to marry her?
Does she take you serious?
Does she love you like you love her?
Does she act like a serious minded person?
Does she accept when she is wrong and is open to correction?
If all answers to above are 'Yes' then sit with her and have adult talk. Open up to her on what you saw too on her phone and the commitment you want to make to her despite all that, provided she ends that and shows amenability to change.
Again, about seriousness or not since you showed she has MSc already and going in for PhD definitely you shouldn't judge her seriousness or otherwise from phone chats but real-life interaction and actions.
Note that some Nairalanders here will tell you all sort of things like she's f**ing around, she's olosho, pu**y f*cked can always be fu*cked etc. jargons, no mind them o. In the end it is your life and your joy that matters. A lot of ladies and guys are into naughty chats and all that, but the serious ones quit to settle down for a life!

don't listen kids advising you to chop and clean mouth. Advice her to mend her ways.

it will make you different to other guys.

Guy my little advise is, meet her n engage her in a normal conversation, make her laugh n gradually chip in the topic as anonymous. About the sexual life of some ladies. She mustn't know u checked her phone. Let her imagine it herself.

It seams everyone on first page are speaking from experience. Chai men don see something

you were snooping through her WhatsApp chat, Are you Snoop Dogg?

Engrgabi:
I wish say u understand sha....

Na we go say,we wish you understand one lyrics.

The less you look,the happier you are

See like say you no see
Hear like say you no hear,
Na
This
Things
Dey
Make
Man
Live
Long.

Engrgabi:
I met this pretty damsel before the covid19 outbreak around Jan, 2020. We didn't meet until September. I paid her a visit at her apartment.

The rest is history. I am in love with this girl. She went through my WhatsApp few days ago, we had a light argument and matter was settled.

Tonight out of curiosity i accessed her whatsapp and my head has been spinning, well from experience am not really suprised with the stuffs I found out while going through her phone. So, I am thinking if I should advice her about her lifestyle, more of her chats with guys/girls were all about sex and member of 3 sex related WhatsApp groups. The people she didnt really have sexual related chat with are probably her relatives or not too closed friends.

I didn't read any intellectual discussion or something relevant to show this lady wants to grow. She has this particular s*gar daddy that every single reply from him is attached with a sexual sticker. Of course she is a ms.c holder and she recently bought Phd form.

Nairalanders should I reveal to her about my late night snooping through her phone and probably advice her about engaging in more positive discussions that might have good impact in her life and way of thinking.

I know most girls survive through their s*gar daddies, but she is attached to this particular man (elder brother to a powerful politician in River state.) that reply's with the sexual sticker, should I ask her how she intends to discard the man because of our relationship??

( I no be saint myself. But trust me I rarely chat sexual stuffs or keep porn pics/Vic's in my phone ).

the three sexual group, na the one wey de me important....tell me the link

Our new Pope Francis, instead of minding your business and moving on with your life, preach to her to change her sordid ways. In fact, lead her to Christ. Follow her like a simp because of the love you have for her and try to change her; hopefully, she will change and you will have the opportunity to date and marry her and get the pùssy... stùpid man.

You say she had no intellectual WhatsApp group and she shows no signs of improving... yet she has her masters and she is heading for a PhD. Wetin be your own sef.

@op are you sure she hasn't convert your destiny to one kobo lolz! All these gals following sugar daddies and yahoo boys have been used oo!

Bobxin:


Nailed it!

Boss this your picture na wah oh.

Nailed it and cause trouble picture


Where is that mem of
Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

But why are most females hoes

They will go through your phone.. Any small thing raise dust like they are saint

But when you go through their phone's you find out that they are worse than Satan

Professional prostitutes are even better than them


To all you pretenders may your kpekus see the end of you

To you OP, gerrout from this entanglement. I hope you haven't slept with her. Most of these girls are living corpses walking o.. Destiny crashers too..


She ain't matured at all.. All those people saying make her fill comfortable to talk nonsense are just deceiving you..

You said she just collected PhD form.. I doubt she's a serious human being. What you saw on her whatsapp is her life... Let her continue to enjoy it

Those Sugar daddies dey give
good money & they insist on skin to skin.

The problem is that, most of them
have AIDS & syphillis but have the money
to buy expensive drugs to maintain a
good, healthy appearance..

Are you ready to gamble with your life?

⛔⛔❎❎❎⚠⚠⚠❎❎❎

The gehl set no serious; a single girl
just schooling & schooling. E be like
say settle down no dey her matter. Hope
she no be "Amaka"?

yetmao:
don't listen kids advising you to chop and clean mouth. Advice her to mend her ways.

it will make you different to other guys.

Even in the church people members refused to amend their ways let alone IndecentStar.

If her pastors, reverend, parents coukdnt save her, na you wan be her saviour abi Oga chop your own and waka, don't go n pour sand for toto dey no be your own

You are in love with a community pussy

FinianIb:
Hi, Happy Sunday.
To start with, intruding her privacy is wrong, don't do that again. Also, I assume you guys are more like friends with benefits. Her lifestyle is hers, yours is yours. She can't change until she finds a fault in hers. Your advice can't change or do anything. Let her continue her ways, only time will tell.
Don't intrude her privacy again. It's not gentlemanly.

did you even read before commenting?...d girl was d first person to check his own chats...go and tell dat to dat bvvtch

E no concern u oga, chop ur own ND carry on

My frnd used to tell me something which is if as a guy u want to have peace of mind don't ever check ur bae WhatsApp/messages it will end in tears as from u OP if u want to Marry her, advice her but give it time but u said she starting her pHD can u sponsor that?lot of patience is needed here bro....sugar daddy things

lefulefu:
u have time sha
anyway u said she assessed ur whatsapp and got mad and u also assessed her whatsapp and also got mad
so i guess u both are even
and since u said u have sex chats with other girls just as she has sex chats with her sugar daddies i would say u both made for each other
no stress here

You're funny I swear lol

Freestainworld:
She assessed your WhatsApp and got mad, you assessed her's and got mad too, op, both of you are mad.

Lol

millionboi2:
when u should be asking if u have been used/sacrificed

Well said bro! About the first thing I read out of all the comments, up to yours, that makes particular sense.

Some guy opened a thread alleging that he married into the wrong family yesterday. In same thread, he detailed how he's never enjoyed a sustainable breakthrough because he got married to a wife, whom revelations showed, has been used for ritual. Such that whenever he has intercourse with her, whatever successes he he'd managed previously goes to waste!

And here, you see small boys asking him to collect his share and bolt. Such a pity!

Until young men flee formication, especially given these perilous times of ritual yahoo plus, we sure would have lotta walking corpses in the bear future.

FinianIb:
Hi, Happy Sunday.
To start with, intruding her privacy is wrong, don't do that again. Also, I assume you guys are more like friends with benefits. Her lifestyle is hers, yours is yours. She can't change until she finds a fault in hers. Your advice can't change or do anything. Let her continue her ways, only time will tell.
Don't intrude her privacy again. It's not gentlemanly.

Many things are obviously wrong with you.Didnt you read the part where she first checked Op's whatsapp and was mad.So that isnt intruding in his privacy right.U are a one sided idiot

Talk to her how you'd loved to be talked to should you be in her shoes. Tell her you aren't trying to pick up any fight with her but that you want her to be better, more responsible and elegant! Engage her in sensible discussion, merge your hobbies together. The world doesn't revolve around sex, let her know that.
We that we legit hustle, you won't patronise us. You'd prefer wasting your money buying things you can make at your leisure that are even fun doing. Issorait.
My signature says it all.

Engrgabi:
I met this pretty damsel before the covid19 outbreak around Jan, 2020. We didn't meet until September. I paid her a visit at her apartment.

You met her in January, 2020 but you didn't meet her until September. How did you meet her in January?

you won marry her or you just won be sex machine?
if you want her to be your wife, then go ahead n tell her as advice

but if not then let sleeping dog lay low!

Just check a post earlier about a guy crying that he married into a wrong family. Guy run from the lady.

tit:
Dont miss your rib because of jealousy

Can't be his rib. She's fucking around with a rich man and many other people. He should use the p.usy well. It is just his time. Soon she will give it to another when his time is up.

If you are serious with your life, leave her and walk away. If you think you can change a LovePeddler, you are mad and want to chop tears and heartbreak. Abi you wan begin measure prick with the Politicians fuccking her. Guy what you have is a public pussy. If you can't manage that lifestyle, take a walk. Especially if you are the jealous type.

Engrgabi:
I met this pretty damsel before the covid19 outbreak around Jan, 2020. We didn't meet until September. I paid her a visit at her apartment.

The rest is history. I am in love with this girl. She went through my WhatsApp few days ago, we had a light argument and matter was settled.

Tonight out of curiosity i accessed her whatsapp and my head has been spinning, well from experience am not really suprised with the stuffs I found out while going through her phone. So, I am thinking if I should advice her about her lifestyle, more of her chats with guys/girls were all about sex and member of 3 sex related WhatsApp groups. The people she didnt really have sexual related chat with are probably her relatives or not too closed friends.

I didn't read any intellectual discussion or something relevant to show this lady wants to grow. She has this particular s*gar daddy that every single reply from him is attached with a sexual sticker. Of course she is a ms.c holder and she recently bought Phd form.

Nairalanders should I reveal to her about my late night snooping through her phone and probably advice her about engaging in more positive discussions that might have good impact in her life and way of thinking.

I know most girls survive through their s*gar daddies, but she is attached to this particular man (elder brother to a powerful politician in River state.) that reply's with the sexual sticker, should I ask her how she intends to discard the man because of our relationship??

( I no be saint myself. But trust me I rarely chat sexual stuffs or keep porn pics/Vic's in my phone ).

U are the one that has a problem.She already has Msc and therefore qualified to elect sex as a game she wants to play and with whoever she wants.go and buy your own msc and PhD form.is she not qualified enough to want sex?