Uyi168:
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And when they decide not to work, sit and take care of the home, depending on your money solely.. you and your type will still turn round and call them leeches and liabilities..

cooooooks:
The mom that you think was happy at 31 more than likely got divorced at 47.

Stats?

Silentgroper:
Please can u make ur point without using "responsible man".

Hahahahahaha.

Silentgroper:
if this u run/would run ur home, then good for you.
but do not impose ur archaic idea of a responsible man on other7.

You want archaic idea of a responsible wife, you don't want the archaic idea of a responsible husband.

odinson1:


We don't Generalize this part

we only say the Only thing MOST Nigerian ladies have to offer in a relationship is Sex! Marriage is quite different because a responsible Wife knows how to cook and take care of the home and kids ( which is a contribution to the marriage).

But as for the normal Dating relationships, Sex is the only things Ladies offer. They don't bring resources like money,Shelter, food or even protection! The man brings all these and still plays the Active role during sexual intercourse. So tell me,what do Men have to gain In Dating the average nigerian girl?

If relationship doesn't pay you, then jump straight to marriage.

Titi03:



Hmm, you are right on this one.. it's quite disappointing that men aren't fighting for Don Davis the same way women are.. I wish they would channel their energy more on things that matter tbh. I've aggressively and consistently used my relatively large platform on twitter to lend my voice to #JusticeForDonDavis and sadly I've seen more women do the same than men.

But back to the topic, I tend to approach things on a level playing field - I do not support what women of this generation have turned feminism into and I don't agree that traditional roles of cooking and cleaning should be classified as "slavery". Every gender has it's own responsibilities - call me a "defender of men" all you want.

@bold:

I am also disappointed that it is women championing Don Davis' case.

bukatyne:


You want archaic idea of a responsible wife, you don't want the archaic idea of a responsible husband.

How's wanting a woman to work 4 her own money nd contribute to the family's financial need an archaic idea of a responsible wife.

bukatyne:




Hahahahahaha.

Yes, there's no general representation of a responsible man esp when it's portrayed thru an archaic standard.

Silentgroper:
How's wanting a woman to work 4 her own money nd contribute to the family's financial need an archaic idea of a responsible wife.

You want a wife to work and contribute to the financial needs of the family; fine.

Do you think a husband should also contribute to the domestic needs of the family?

Women and men are not fundamentally equal

humilitypays:
when a reasonable lady speaks, you will know. You sound like one. Which makes me wonder why you are still single - hope you haven't neglected your physical beauty and attractiveness for money chase


Remember, physical attraction plays a key role in getting your desired man

True, a lot of women ignore their femininity for feminism. Meanwhile, they can achieve a lot by just being feminine women. All of my cousins got married as young, very dependent ladies and till today, their husbands take pride in taking care of them just because they are very beautiful. A lot of women take femininity for granted these days and it's a sorry case already.

bukatyne:


You want a wife to work and contribute to the financial needs of the family; fine.

Do you think a husband should also contribute to the domestic needs of the family?

u mean like trimming d flowers nd weeding out unwanted plants 4rm d compound, why not..
i'd even pick d kids from sch if d need arises.
what's d big deal!

Silentgroper:
u mean like trimming d flowers nd weeding out unwanted plants 4rm d compound, why not..
i'd even pick d kids from sch if d need arises.
what's d big deal!

Ok, a man should trim the flowers, weed and pick his kids from school. What fraction are these activities to the overall domestics?

What contribution in terms of finances do you except from a wife?

bukatyne:


Ok, a man should trim the flowers, weed and pick his kids from school. What fraction are these activities to the overall domestics?

What contribution in terms of finances do you except from a wife?

D basics

Silentgroper:
D basics

This is not an answer na.

You stated what you expect the man to do.

What do you except the woman to do?

The basics can be rent to some, food to others.

bukatyne:


This is not an answer na.

You stated what you expect the man to do.

What do you except the woman to do?

The basics can be rent to some, food to others.

ok. Personally i'd prefer we have an acct in which we both drop a particular percentage monthly 4 d welfare of d family. It doesnt have to be an assigned role.

Silentgroper:
ok. Personally i'd prefer we have an acct in which we both drop a particular percentage monthly 4 d welfare of d family. It doesnt have to be an assigned role.

You want a joint project account.

What percentage of her earnings do you think it is fair for her to contribute to this project account?

bukatyne:


You want a joint project account.

What percentage of her earnings do you think it is fair for her to contribute to this family account?

Lol. Do u work with d police? U should definitely be part of interrogating team.

to d question; 50%, i guess.

bukatyne:


You want a joint project account.

What percentage of her earnings do you think it is fair for her to contribute to this Family account?

Fixed

Silentgroper:
Lol. Do u work with d police? U should definitely be part of interrogating team.

to d question; 50%, i guess.

Thanks for your patience.

I like to ask questions

So you want 50% of her income for weeding, grooming flowers and picking the kids from school which is less than 5% of the domestics.

Hmmmmmm.

She you see yourself inside camera

You want an archaic wife however don't want to be an archaic husband.

Go and sin no more.

bukatyne:


Thanks for your patience.

I like to ask questions

So you want 50% of her income for weeding, grooming flowers and picking the kids from school which is less than 5% of the domestics.

Hmmmmmm.

She you see yourself inside camera

You want an archaic wife however don't want to be an archaic husband.

Go and sin no more.

So annoying, very selfish lots.

bukatyne:


Thanks for your patience.

I like to ask questions

So you want 50% of her income for weeding, grooming flowers and picking the kids from school which is less than 5% of the domestics.

Hmmmmmm.

She you see yourself inside camera

You want an archaic wife however don't want to be an archaic husband.

Go and sin no more.

Are u kidding? 5%! if those 3 only makes up 5% of d domestics, then d domestics shouldnt be classified as a work.
just weeding nd grooming flowers is a hell of stressful chores which should mke up 70% of d domestics. Talk-less of health dangers i could encounter while doing dem.
imagine if poison ivy are amongst d weeds, she would be there saying sorry while my body itches alongside ulcers, blister nd bruises.
You girls are just lazy.

Silentgroper:
Are u kidding? 5%! if those 3 only makes up 5% of d domestics, then d domestics shouldnt be classified as a work.
just weeding nd grooming flowers is a hell of stressful chores which should mke up 70% of d domestics. Talk-less of health dangers i could encounter while doing dem.
imagine if poison ivy are amongst d weeds, she would be there saying sorry while my body itches alongside ulcers, blister nd bruises.
You girls are just lazy.

Picking kids from school, weeding and grooming flowers (which are dependent on availability) is 70% of domestics?

Cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids, taking care of the home, emotional investment etc. is 30%?

If you have flowers and need to weed, do you do this on a daily basis?

Hmmmmmm.

Kaimaonyeana:


So annoying, very selfish lots.

I was going to disagree that he has seen the light.

Apparently not.

bukatyne:


Picking kids from school, weeding and grooming flowers (which are dependent on availability) is 70% of domestics?

Cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids, taking care of the home, emotional investment etc. is 30%?

If you have flowers and need to weed, do you do this on a daily basis?

Hmmmmmm.

That's why a man needs to marry a lady whose financial contributions to the family is insignificant to the man's financial contributions.

The woman's primary role in marriage is to b d home carer and a home keeper shekina anything else is secondary

DEMZEE:



1. That's why a man needs to marry a lady whose financial contributions to the family is insignificant to the man's financial contributions.

The woman's primary role in marriage is to b d home carer and a home keeper shekina anything else is secondary

1. I started that discussion with him when he disagreed with a poster who said responsible men take care of finances in the home alone.

Apparently, he wants a traditional wife who would take care of the house alone and still drop 50% of her earnings at home.

How does that work?

I am sure traditional women would happily gravitate towards traditional men who are traditional indeed.

How on Earth do you think weeding, gardening and picking kids from school is commensurate with 50% contribution of her earnings?

bukatyne:


1. I started that discussion with him when he disagreed with a poster who said responsible men take care of finances in the home alone.

Apparently, he wants a traditional wife who would take care of the house alone and still drop 50% of her earnings at home.

How does that work?

I am sure traditional women would happily gravitate towards traditional men who are traditional indeed.

How on Earth do you think weeding, gardening and picking kids from school is commensurate with 50% contribution of her earnings?

Why will the woman b contributing equally to the marriage especially financially

I m a traditional man and I love my woman to b traditional

DEMZEE:


Why will the woman b contributing equally to the marriage especially financially

I m a traditional man and I love my woman to b traditional

@bold,

Goodluck.

bukatyne:


@bold,

Goodluck.

Women should b fundamentally traditional so that they don't end up in divorce or unmarried and lonely and have 15 dogs as pets,to replace children,which she will b using to masturbate once in a while

bukatyne:


Picking kids from school, weeding and grooming flowers (which are dependent on availability) is 70% of domestics?

Cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids, taking care of the home, emotional investment etc. is 30%?

If you have flowers and need to weed, do you do this on a daily basis?

Hmmmmmm.

cooking, Really! Hw long would cooking, cleaning,taking care of kid nd d home take u in a day? .. Lets say 3hrs tops, if u did it nonstop. After all of dat u rest nd watch tv for d day till night comes which u have to cook again nd tuck d kids to sleep.
Abeg shey dz one na work..

I did nt understand what u meant by emotional investment oo, abeg what da hell is dat?