There is this guy am going out with lately.I just agreed to date him on the 22nd dec 2020.He has been chasing me since may 2020. I came back from Christmas holiday which was spent with my family.Excitedly,I told him I wanted us to go out and spend some quality time together. Unfortunately,the quality time was spent in the hotel he manages, actually owned by the family. I had no problem with the option because I understand the business acumen for it. We didn't even spend the quality time as he was so busy putting things in place. We left by 12.43am.I wasn't happy but I swallowed it. Going home,we saw two dogs jogging home by the side of the road,not blocking anybody nor crossing.This guy cruelly ran into them from the back.They were shouting and crying.I too was shouting.It was like a movie.He then said he thought they would run away.How could they have.The road was so spacious and empty to accommodate his car. He later stopped as soon as he found out I wasn't pleased.But moved on driving and apologizing. I have a lahsa Apso in my house.He has been nice to her all the while before now.I fear am with a strong hearted man.He is sleeping by my side now but I still can't sleep.I have been wondering the pains those dogs could be in.I wish Nigeria really valued animals except cows and chickens. Now, I don't think he is really sorry.He is pretending it. I fear he can kill without any remorse. I don't know if it's enough to opt out. Please I don't know what to do.I don't seem to believe in him again. Mod please move this to the front page.I need opinions devoid of excuses for such a misbehavior. Thank you.

He acted stupid and childish... But that's not enough grounds to breakup with him except you had wanted a way of the relationship before now.

If it were in europe he could face up to 5-8yrs in prison

Loving animals like dog is one of the sign of a good person , if he can jokingly kill those dogs my sister run for your life this guy is heartless

His act is not childish he just show u his true color you should not be with such person

A beast in human form. Infact he is a twisted mind. Coded psycho

This one is being too cautious not to end up with a cold murderer , but seriously I hate it when people are mean to defenseless beings.

You have to watch him closely and see how he treats people of no importance to him.

That's your call Ma'am.

That guy will flush your tiny Lhasa Apso down the toilet if you piss him off. Someone killed two dogs unprovoked and you don’t see the red flag

Namdeenero:
That guy will flush your tiny Lhasa Apso down the toilet if you piss him off. Someone killed two dogs unprovoked and you don’t see the red flag

You spoken my mind, what could have gotten into him. If I were you I would report him to the police immediately


What cruelty,. Imagine if the owners of those � dogs curse him now he will blame village people

Anyone that can do that can murder you in cold blood..going to his family owned hotel may not be the best God forbid bad thing happen to u. As a dog owner you should drop him like a hot stone

Are those dogs your brothers ....
You are just looking for trouble where there's none...
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Report him to police na and see weda those dogs owner would'nt leave you to face it. Since u can't mind your business. I know you are looking for excuse to chop the man and run.
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Instead of you to sleep after receiving doggy, u are here wasking away ..
Sleep baby

It all your decision to make but if I guy can heartlessly kill harmless dogs cruelly in your present and still sleep comfortably , imagine what he will do in your absent . This is a sign shown to you to know the kind of man you will be considering as boy friend or husband.

@ https://www.nairaland.com/sweetilicious
Why is this one pretending to care about the animal?
You are only angry he didn’t spend quality time with you ( self centered girl).
He would have left their business to hang out elsewhere with you.
You are only caring about yourself not him.
You decided to date him on 22nd December 2020?
And you are already asking him to take you out
Since the other guys didn’t come through for you.
Just wish the guy sees the kind of person you are and end things with you.
You didn’t stay awake to pray for the victims of #endsars protest# it is for an animal you are trying to deceive us about.

Pls break up with him .

That guy has cruelty written all over him. He also has anger issues.

Be very careful, cos such guys end up being women beaters.

all those condemning the guy... if them cook the dog give Una .. Una no go chop?

Japaa sister!

This life I can’t kee myself...

sweetilicious:
There is this guy am going out with lately.I just agreed to date him on the 22nd dec 2020.He has been chasing me since may 2020. I came back from Christmas holiday which was spent with my family.Excitedly,I told him I wanted us to go out and spend some quality time together. Unfortunately,the quality time was spent in the hotel he manages, actually owned by the family. I had no problem with the option because I understand the business acumen for it. We didn't even spend the quality time as he was so busy putting things in place. We left by 12.43am.I wasn't happy but I swallowed it. Going home,we saw two dogs jogging home by the side of the road,not blocking anybody nor crossing.This guy cruelly ran into them from the back.They were shouting and crying.I too was shouting.It was like a movie.He then said he thought they would run away.How could they have.The road was so spacious and empty to accommodate his car. He later stopped as soon as he found out I wasn't pleased.But moved on driving and apologizing. I have a lahsa Apso in my house.He has been nice to her all the while before now.I fear am with a strong hearted man.He is sleeping by my side now but I still can't sleep.I have been wondering the pains those dogs could be in.I wish Nigeria really valued animals except cows and chickens. Now, I don't think he is really sorry.He is pretending it. I fear he can kill without any remorse. I don't know if it's enough to opt out. Please I don't know what to do.I don't seem to believe in him again. Mod please move this to the front page.I need opinions devoid of excuses for such a misbehavior. Thank you.

Scam

That guy is a psycho, he has a twisted mind, you better run away from him. Most serial killers start out being cruel to animals.

In the US the security cam and intel will track him and they will put him away for good

Someone have been chasing you since may na as xmas reach you Aceapt for you to chop the H/cashy.
You are tough and lil wicked

What level of inhuman and cruelty is that one , he is a complete psycho who doesn't have regards for feelings, dog is one animal that is so close to human being that could understand feelings and emotion, I have train dogs in the past, I currently have a samoyed and I can literally kill anyone that harms my dog.

My dear u better end that relationship before this psycho kills you in your sleep over a minor disagreement one day. He's a heartless idiot. If he could ram into harmless dogs intentionally, then he is obviously pretending to be caring for your dog, he could poison it one day without thinking twice.

Fear dey catch you

Privatepart00:
@ https://www.nairaland.com/sweetilicious
Why is this one pretending to care about the animal?
You are only angry he didn’t spend quality time with you ( self centered girl).
He would have left their business to hang out elsewhere with you.
You are only caring about yourself not him.
You decided to date him on 22nd December 2020?
And you are already asking him to take you out
Since the other guys didn’t come through for you.
Just wish the guy sees the kind of person you are and end things with you.
You didn’t stay awake to pray for the victims of #endsars protest# it is for an animal you are trying to deceive us about.

Please learn how to read meaningful meaning into people's complaint.Give a sound advice if you can.Thank you so much.

Kingluqman:
Fear dey catch you

My brother,I will not lie.It hasn't been easy to process.

Nicklaus619:
What level of inhuman and cruelty is that one , he is a complete psycho who doesn't have regards for feelings, dog is one animal that is so close to human being that could understand feelings and emotion, I have train dogs in the past, I currently have a samoyed and I can literally kill anyone that harms my dog.

My dear u better end that relationship before this psycho kills you in your sleep over a minor disagreement one day. He's a heartless idiot. If he could ram into harmless dogs intentionally, then he is obviously pretending to be caring for your dog, he could poison it one day without thinking twice.

I have been thinking.I don't know if he was possessed.That moment was like a movie.To even think I pre warned him to watch the dogs before he did what he did.

Two defenseless and Innocent animals having their best time but he decided to end their lives...that's wickedness. Even if those dogs were on his way, a simple honking of his car would chase them away. I for one don't even like it when a dog is being maltreated not to talk of deliberately killing it. He's wicked abeg, he found pleasure killing them. Its left to you to decide and just pray to God about it.

Sister run o, if he can't take care of a dog(s); he can't be with a human being.

MediMedi:
Someone have been chasing you since may na as xmas reach you Aceapt for you to chop the H/cashy.
You are tough and lil wicked

My dear,I couldn't agree nah.I had to truly get convinced he was really into me.Besides,he travelled in August to Lagos and stayed till October.I wanted to be sure am not rushing a relationship with a married man.After I asked questions like he suggested,I became convinced to date him.To shock you,I was the one that gave a gift to him.Am not a hungry urgent 2k girl.

Bluntintrovert1:
Two defenseless and Innocent animals having their best time but he decided to end their lives...that's wickedness. Even if those dogs were on his way, a simple honking of his car would chase them away. I for one don't even like it when a dog is being maltreated not to talk of deliberately killing it. He's wicked abeg, he found pleasure killing them. Its left to you to decide and just pray to God about it.

My sister,I don't even know how to come out.Ihe nkea di strange to me.I fear that the spirit of those dogs could come chasing us.They did nothing.I wish there was a way I could have helped then.I was speechless

dawnomike:
He acted stupid and childish... But that's not enough grounds to breakup with him except you had wanted a way of the relationship before now.

I just got in.Barely a week.Was trying to build it up.

sweetilicious:
I have been thinking.I don't know if he was possessed.That moment was like a movie.To even think I pre warned him to watch the dogs before he did what he did.

Babe, I ain't gon lie to you, this dude is a psycho, end that relationship now before u regret it. He ain't got no emotion in him.

FlamieB:
This one is being too cautious not to end up with a cold murderer , but seriously I hate it when people are mean to defenseless beings.

You have to watch him closely and see how he treats people of no importance to him.

That's your call Ma'am.

How do I do it? He is always showing his good side while with people.Please give me a clue on how to go about it.Thr relationship is still new and fresh.