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Ladies Please Answer This Question by Havesomesense(m): 8:22pm On Jan 01, 2021
Can a lady give a guy her pvssy without expecting money in return ?

A lady I was with recently sent me this text.

" I wonder the kind of guy am dating, is it not better to be alone than dating someone like you, that doesn't take care of his girlfriend, all he wants is sex. am so disappointed in you. I regretted coming to your place. aswear. "

NB ; she use to be my girlfriend but we had an issue and we were not communicating till recently.

so I'm asking again, can a girl have sex with a guy and not expect money or gift in return ?

Abi na only Nigeria this kind thing dey happen.
Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by Henrywalker: 8:27pm On Jan 01, 2021
I keep telling guys to stop chasing girls, but they won't listen. Stop chasing them! Chase what they love (money) and they will chase you. Attract them instead, attraction is the key. tongue

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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by coolsegun2002: 8:27pm On Jan 01, 2021
Havesomesense:
Can a lady give a guy her pvssy without expecting money in return ?

A lady I was with recently sent me this text.

" I wonder the kind of guy am dating, is it not better to be alone than dating someone like you, that doesn't take care of his girlfriend, all he wants is sex. am so disappointed in you. I regretted coming to your place. aswear. "

NB ; she use to be my girlfriend but we had an issue and we were not communicating till recently.

so I'm asking again, can a girl have sex with a guy and not expect money or gift in return ?

Abi na only Nigeria this kind thing dey happen.

No....Nigerian girls don’t see sex as something they want...even though they will use u to reach orgasm ......they consider sex a favour they are doing for men.... so they must get paid in return.
whether they are confirmed prost!tutes or not...

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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by Sundrus: 8:33pm On Jan 01, 2021
No time to stress ya self over vagina people oh. Once she don open mouth u go know whether she be broad or damsel by default. Except u as a guy ur own mentality & way of life dey very low, u go accept any nonsense way come ur way.
Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by HandsomeBlack: 8:33pm On Jan 01, 2021
I've come to realise that a man will always pay for pussy. You gotta pay your wife, girlfriend or a prostitute.

As a husband, once you loose your source of income and no longer bring money home, she'll start denying you pussy.

As a boyfriend, you already know your right to her pussy is directly proportional to your continued provision for her financial and material needs.

As ashawo customer...well, this one needs no explanation.

If you're getting pussy and not paying for it, run oooooh.

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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by Nazgul: 8:34pm On Jan 01, 2021
For women, sex is like a gift. You don't give out a gift just for the sake of giving, the recipient must have done something that would make you feel he/she deserves it.

Same goes for women. They offer sex as compensation for something you've done or will do for them, could be money, love, favours, protection... etc.

You must successfully convince her that you're ready to either love her, provide financial assistance to her, help her with a job...etc. the sex she would offer you would be her gratitude for what you've done, (are doing and will do) for her.

No girl will offer you her body for nothing, not even a prostitute.

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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by Romanoff(f): 8:49pm On Jan 01, 2021
If ladies can be gainfully employed and close their legs till they are married, them go use clear eyes and good conscience marry.

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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by Stacyomolola(f): 8:56pm On Jan 01, 2021
Nazgul:
For women, sex is like a gift. You don't give out a gift just for the sake of giving, the recipient must have done something that would make you feel he/she deserves it.

Same goes for women. They offer sex as compensation for something you've done or will do for them, could be money, love, favours, protection... etc.

You must successfully convince her that you're ready to either love her, provide financial assistance to her, help her with a job...etc. the sex she would offer you would be her gratitude for what you've done, (are doing and will do) for her.

No girl will offer you her body for nothing, not even a prostitute.
I love ur sense of reasoning

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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by virginprincess(f): 9:25pm On Jan 01, 2021
Stacyomolola:
I love ur sense of reasoning
Seriously, that dude is so full of wisdom.
Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by Havesomesense(m): 9:26pm On Jan 01, 2021
Nazgul:
For women, sex is like a gift. You don't give out a gift just for the sake of giving, the recipient must have done something that would make you feel he/she deserves it.

Same goes for women. They offer sex as compensation for something you've done or will do for them, could be money, love, favours, protection... etc.

You must successfully convince her that you're ready to either love her, provide financial assistance to her, help her with a job...etc. the sex she would offer you would be her gratitude for what you've done, (are doing and will do) for her.

No girl will offer you her body for nothing, not even a prostitute.

In other words, you are saying every girl is a prostitute, nothing like true love .
No problem, we go dey pay for sex but y'all should not expect faithfulness .

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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by Nazgul: 9:29pm On Jan 01, 2021
Havesomesense:


In other words, you are saying every girl is a prostitute, nothing like true love .
No problem, we go dey pay for sex but y'all should not expect faithfulness .
Read what I wrote slowly, you'll understand it much better

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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:37pm On Jan 01, 2021
It is underestimated prostitution if you have sex with your bf and you are demanding for money

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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by Havesomesense(m): 9:38pm On Jan 01, 2021
Nazgul:

Read what I wrote slowly, you'll understand it much better

You said, No girl will offer you her body for nothing

It means that y'all want something and it comes with a cost,
i understand.

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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by XXXXTENTACION: 9:43pm On Jan 01, 2021
Havesomesense:

You said, No girl will offer you her body for nothing
It means that y'all want something and it comes with a cost, i understand.
Nothing is free
even in freetown.

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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by Havesomesense(m): 9:49pm On Jan 01, 2021
XXXXTENTACION:
Nothing is free

even in freetown.

My d*ck ain't free too, ladies take note .

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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by Molahnelson(m): 9:50pm On Jan 01, 2021
Bro's you suppose to understand by now, even if you sleep with an older woman, she may not even thank you, and is also very unlikely that she will not pay you for the sex, Why because she will assume that you are the one who enjoy it, even if you hit the spot, make her to groan in excitement, make her reach her orgasms, Bro's she will still tell you, that you're the one who enjoy most.
Then when I was in school some years back i was living in a widow landlady house, she was in are late 50s to be precise, she used to played along with most of the young boy in her compound, I was kinda close to her, we use to spend time interacting, at times we discuss some sexual topics, bro's I was amazed a certain time she told me even if she sleep with me, that she won't pay for it, why because I'm the one enjoying it, i was like LWKM, mama waiting i want enjoy for my Mama body, I literally laughed my ass off.

Now you see, the point I'm making is women's see sex as something a man enjoy only, that is the reason according to them you must pay for it,
But you see is totally selfishness,it is engrain in their nature to be selfish and there is nothing or little you can do about it

Some weeks ago I read a story in front page about a young man in Abuja that was searching for sugar mummy and eventually found one after all the sex roam, the woman asking him to pay for it, I bet most of you can remember the story

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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by XXXXTENTACION: 9:59pm On Jan 01, 2021
Havesomesense:

My d*ck ain't free too, ladies take note .
Even your time and money.
Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by Stephenmoka4(m): 10:19pm On Jan 01, 2021
Can you give her money without asking for it?

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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by Chimeluv(f): 10:39pm On Jan 01, 2021
If everybody would abstain....
Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by JJmubby: 10:42pm On Jan 01, 2021
Henrywalker:
I keep telling guys to stop chasing girls, but they won't listen. Stop chasing them! Chase what they love (money) and they will chase you. Attract them instead, attraction is the key. tongue

Your head is correct, go take one fanta for fridge.

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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by JJmubby: 10:47pm On Jan 01, 2021
coolsegun2002:


No....Nigerian girls don’t see sex as something they want...even though they will use u to reach orgasm ......they consider sex a favour they are doing for men.... so they must get paid in return.
whether they are confirmed prost!tutes or not...

If you call something “favour” you shouldn’t expect anything in return.
Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by WrittyWritter(f): 10:53pm On Jan 01, 2021
Can u give her money without asking for it..nothing is free in this world...one way or d other we pay for everything..it may not be with money...but with love..protection...pleasure.or something...if someone decides to have sex with u for free..den dat means

1)..u are paying with d love and care u show d person
2)..u are paying with d pleasure u give d person(especially for those who have sex with strangers..dey have sex with u because u make dem feel hot or one kind)

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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by ReluctantAdult(m): 10:56pm On Jan 01, 2021
Nazgul:
For women, sex is like a gift. You don't give out a gift just for the sake of giving, the recipient must have done something that would make you feel he/she deserves it.

Same goes for women. They offer sex as compensation for something you've done or will do for them, could be money, love, favours, protection... etc.

You must successfully convince her that you're ready to either love her, provide financial assistance to her, help her with a job...etc. the sex she would offer you would be her gratitude for what you've done, (are doing and will do) for her.

No girl will offer you her body for nothing, not even a prostitute.

Not all women fvck in return for gifts or love. At least not with all guys. There are many girls out there who just wanna fvck a guy because they're h0rny or find the guy sexually appealing. You don't pay those ones, they come to you and if you fancy them, you can help satisfy their urges.

I've had girls call to ask if I'm at home. They turn up at my apartment with condoms, whiskey, gin, wine or food and they just wanna get laid. No TP, gifts, love etc.

So, women exist who aren't selling sex in a tray. They, like normal humans, just see sex for what it is...sex. No manipulations, no expectations, just sexual satisfaction. Period.

In summary, all I'm trying to say here is that fvck buddies exist. I have many of such women whom our relationship is just being fvck buddies. No romantic/financial strings attached.

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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by Nobody: 11:20pm On Jan 01, 2021
Romanoff:
If ladies can be gainfully employed and close their legs till they are married, them go use clear eyes and good conscience marry.
Does that mean she will agree to be banged for free while married
Or is it a matter of the man being nothing but a pussy eater??
Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jan 01, 2021
ReluctantAdult:


Not all women fvck in return for gifts or love. At least not with all guys. There are many girls out there who just wanna fvck a guy because they're h0rny or find the guy sexually appealing. You don't pay those ones, they come to you and if you fancy them, you can help satisfy their urges.

I've had girls call to ask if I'm at home. They turn up at my apartment with condoms, whiskey, gin, wine or food and they just wanna get laid. No TP, gifts, love etc.

So, women exist who aren't selling sex in a tray. They, like normal humans, just see sex for what it is...sex. No manipulations, no expectations, just sexual satisfaction. Period.

In summary, all I'm trying to say here is that fvck buddies exist. I have many of such women whom our relationship is just being fvck buddies. No romantic/financial strings attached.
Can you link me with fvck buddies?
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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jan 01, 2021
Chimeluv:
If everybody would abstain....
.......then what would happen??
Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by ReluctantAdult(m): 11:37pm On Jan 01, 2021
HellVictorinho:

Can you link me with fvck buddies?
Mehn, fvck buddies don't just happen. It takes some skills to turn some women into fvck buddies and make them get comfortable with it.

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Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by Nobody: 11:43pm On Jan 01, 2021
ReluctantAdult:

Mehn, fvck buddies don't just happen. It takes some skills to turn some women into fvck buddies and make them get comfortable with it.
You said there are some that just wanna fvck.
You didn't say there are some that can be turned into something else.
But how can it be done, anyway?
Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by ReluctantAdult(m): 6:32am On Jan 02, 2021
HellVictorinho:

You said there are some that just wanna fvck.
You didn't say there are some that can be turned into something else.
But how can it be done, anyway?
Yeah but they aren't gonna fvck you if they're don't like you. They are not people who fvck random guys. But if they like you they become slutty for you without strings.
Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by Nobody: 6:57am On Jan 02, 2021
ReluctantAdult:

Yeah but they aren't gonna fvck you if they're don't like you. They are not people who fvck random guys. But if they like you they become slutty for you without strings.
How would they like someone they have not seen?
They have to see me.
Re: Ladies Please Answer This Question by LadyTianna(f): 7:44am On Jan 02, 2021
Understand this. A guy's treasure is his money and a woman's treasure is her pussy. Relationships are a game of exchange. If you want her to share her treasure with you, you must be ready to share yours as well, if not one party will feel cheated and unloved.

Consider this hypothetical situation. You're spending money on your girlfriend,yet she refuses to have sex with you. Definitely you will feel like she's just using you and saving her pussy for another guy. In the same vein, if a girl is fúcking a guy who isn't spending money on her in one way or the other, she will definitely feel like he's just using her. Its that simple.

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